Everything I won't do that is a hard limit for me is listed above, if you have an idea that's not mentioned on any of my preferences feel free to ask about it! I'm pretty open for the most part, and love to try new things.

I also have a bit of a thing for older guys, though that's definitely not required for me to have fun!

I'll link a full list down below since the preferences above are a bit difficult to select (I might have flubbed them up), but here are 10 things (and a thought about each) I love and 5 I hate.

Top 10 Yays: (In no particular order!)

1. Powerplay: I love to daydream about a relationship, which is a constant fight for dominance. (Probably why I love enemies to lovers so much...) We are wearing each other down mentally, emotionally, and sexually until the dam bursts, the floodgates open, and I'm naked on his glass conference room table (I prefer to lose). Getting submissed by his firm but gently hold, his slightly sweaty six pack and hard nipples, the knee he drives between my legs, his unstinting rough fuck. I sink to new depths of sub-space I didn't want to realise existed, and yet I knew existed that he would take me there, the first time my gaze challenged him, and he cut back straight to my soul...

2. Primalplay: This one is less about romance and love, though it's very welcome. It's about the chase, a desperate escape I make with the sole intention of getting hunted down and claimed (with consent of course!). I want to feel like the bunny in your crosshairs, the gazelle whose aphrodisiac scent sent the lion roaring and pouncing, I want to feel the teeth coming down on my ass. Of course, this meant more metaphorically, but I love the image of play-fighting back and an alpha mounting me. It involves lots of scratches and love bites . (But all in healthy measure!)

3. Master-servant relationship: It's one I've been having wet dreams about since I read a book about TPE (total power exchange). It's a lovely lifestyle, that's probably as difficult to fulfil as building a snowman in the Sahara. I have long had fantasies about being a slave and belonging to someone like that, these fantasies fuel my desire to live a TPE M/s relationship. To find someone that you can actually trust with not only your life but also with one's kids, it is just amazing.

4. Orgasm control and denial: It's just a ramification of the above, but as I said, my drive is currently very high. I try to deny myself as much as I can, but after a week, my world just turns a sexual colour. My body feels turned on and sexy all the time, and I can't separate everyday interactions from sex anymore. I crave guys, I wasn't seeing that way before, and it's just torture... Having someone (consentually) force it on me with a hard light in their eye and honeyed commanding voice is just... Wow.

5. Breeding: It's branching out from the primalplay stuff, and a little arduous to explain what I like about it. Again, the idea of getting claimed (consentually!) in raw sex is just that much more intense. When I know that every thrust while he enjoys me brings him closer to filling and marking my womb with something indelible. Someone born of our love and desires for each other, whom we will cherish as if they were a little bit of both of us, and more, is such a warm and fuzzy feeling, in my humble opinion!

6. Size difference: I’m 180 cm tall, so the average guy I’d dated was never that much bigger than me, but if I were smaller, I’d totally love to be cuddled by a big, hulking lug of a mountain man or fire fighter. Wrapped in strong, firm arms, I’d feel so little and precious and safe.

7. Age difference: (Be warned, your character can’t be older than in their late 30s, and mine won’t be younger than 19!)  So long story short, my second ever boyfriend was somewhat older than me at the time. He did taxi in the city I’m from, and since I still went to yoga and piano in high school after hours, we got to know each other. It was very casual, but I was at a weird place emotionally, so it felt nice, I think about it a lot these days…

8. Oral training/service: I for one absolutely LOVE oral sex, quite often even more than regular sex.  I love every aspect of it, the kissing,  the licking, sucking, feasting, and of course, the feeling and taste of the fluids involved. The inevitable smell of sweat and cum and the warm clean man-scent. In fact, it is the act of tasting and consuming the fluids that turns me on the most. How I learn about his cock, adapt to his size, get used to the feel of it in my throat and how to control breathing to let him have it as much as I can, master how often he likes it lapped at, and when to push him past his threshold. Then my sole focus and desire is giving him an orgasm. A very powerful orgasm, a very messy and yummy orgasm. I love swallowing the load, and I ensure that there are no spills here and there. He works hard to make that stuff, least I can do is enjoy his flavour

9. Bathing: Soooo… most likely my weirdest one…  Initially, all I was interested in was showering with an attractive partner. Soaping each other up, washing each other's hair, enjoying the intimate experience of cleaning each other's bodies. (Outside of that, it tends to be good as foreplay because the person you're with smells a little, and you want to make sure they're clean before sex without killing the vibe.)

That was all I wanted. Then, through some exploring, I expanded my fantasies to include more traditional BDSM dynamics. The idea of a dominant man, brushing and scrubbing me and caring for me with love or disciplining me a bit more roughly. (Scrubbing my pussy with a coarse sponge, since he says it’s ‘dirty’ so I come from it so ‘he has to starting again’. Or mouthsoaping for all my bratty taunts and teasing…) Hot water, noise of the shower, slippery bodies, humid air. Honestly, soapy muscles are one of my favourite things in the world. There's something as well about bodies pressed up against glass or touching someone through a clear shower curtain that I can't really describe, why I'm into it, but it really works for me lol.

I think the shower is a super safe space for me as well, which contributes. I definitely have many fantasies in the shower/bathroom. Also, maybe a bit of an architecture/interior design fetish because the nicer/more lavish the bathroom space is, the better.

10. Outfit control and shaving: It’s part of the TPE thing. I want to be customised for my master. To know his tastes and desires, kinks, and sculpt and mould myself to him, but there is also a non sexual side to this as well (though after 4 days of denial, you bet I’ll sexualise it ). I love being pampered. Having my downstairs trimmed to how we like it, my legs shaved, my hair conditioned. Then he can dry and princess carry back to bed, we can read in each other's arms, flirt, talk about our everydays, or laugh about something silly. Then if he gets hard we can fuck, or just cuddle away our evening.

Same thing with clothing, I love taking bfs out for shopping so I can get his tastes on what kinda outfit he’d like me in. (Sadly, they are usually not into it… Even if I’d also choose things for him…) It can be very casual things like streetwear or hoodies, or what kinda jammies and lingerie he’s into, to more like silly cosplay thinks like dressing up as our favorite characters and acting like it!

Honourable mentions: Light bondage, forced orgasms, playboys, mean princes/ domeniring rich men, endowed primal men (lots of hygienic body hair!), kidnap scenarios (ask me about it first!), tentacles/egg laying.

Nays: 

1. Race play: Let me just say your character can be any ethnicity (and species in fantasy worlds!) you’d like, and highlighting that is totally chill with me! But please don’t emphasise it in a weird way, as for example, just because you play as a pink-smelling oni, your ‘seed’ is of higher quality than those of the blue-tasting mole people, or that you are a two-bit gnome who has a weird fixation on going after wood elves.

2. Anything involving real animals: Furries and monsters are not animals, but anything that feels like cruelty or abuse or is just plain-ass weird is a huge no-no!

3. Anything involving the toilet, or its uses!

4. Any kind of humiliation or non-affectionet name calling (slut, bitch, whore, etc…)!

5. Overly violent doms: I mean, come on. There is a difference between being possessive and sexually assertive and simply wanting to hurt people (physically and emotionally). Don’t do that!

That's it, anyway, here is the list!

  I like the unfairness of the situation my character normally is in after being turned into a woman, having to do humiliating jobs, not only being a woman now, but also being reduced to an objectified woman, while your character might get the best parts of the world were the rp is, probally even getting more woman and status, my character is only there to be at your side for people to deduce im your inferior. 

 Preferred partners are, tall hairy males, hung smug femboys and futas, i like to compare the contrast between your still masculine character with a hard and strong domination to my now hyper feminime and soft character that can exactly refuse what you and the other expects because of my new reputation.

 I also like smegma, ampits, ugly bastards and gross cum, but these kinks specifically arent that necessary.

 Here is the rps is have for now in this post.

Kinks: Bukkake, Creampie, Cervical Penetration, Threesomes, Gangbangs, Oral Sex, Foreplay, Aftercare, Biting, Dirty Talk, Cumshots, CNC, Drunk Sex, Drugged Sex, Mind Break, Hypnosis, Vanilla Sex, Handcuffs, Hair Pulling, Love Bites, Age Difference, Height Difference, Impregnation, Risk of Pregnancy, Pregnancy, Tentacles, Monsters, Futanari, Yuri, Marathon Sex, Biting, Gentle Doms, Excessive Cum

Maybe (Ask First): Edgeplay, Knotted Cocks, Non-Human Cocks, Anthros, Gunplay, Cuckolding

Limits: Minors, Pegging, Rimming, Anal, All the Way Through, Hyper (anything over 14 inches is a hard pass for me), Raceplay, Sexism, Humiliation, Degradation, Humiliation, Rape, Death, Gore, Vore, Armpits, Diapers, Shotas, Lolis, Incest, Mind Control, Racism, Unconsensual Sex, Ear Fucking, Hotdogging, Docking, MPreg

If you see anything not on the list, feel free to ask about it and I'll do my best to answer your question honestly.

Settings: I will play in just about any setting, though I do prefer that we have a decent mix of plot and smut so that things don't get stale at all.

Characters I'll play: As I said on my profile, I'm someone who loves to write within Fandoms. I'll be more than happy to provide a comprehensive list for people if they wish to inquire since I really don't feel like listing them all out at once.

Here is a bit more detailed list of my kinks and limits. 

https://www.f-list.net/c/alexander chavez

I go by Sweetbreast Sweetbread! I love femme romance and cute things! I'm quite silly in the head and love to goof around~

I play female or futa characters (usually cute ones) and I look for those who do the same! I'm not confident in my writing abilities, especially when it comes to smut, but I have burning passion and I want to learn and improve! I look for long-term romantic roleplays that lean towards story - while I want sexy happy time, it has to mean something to our characters and my libido unfortunately can't keep up with constant smut scenes! But if that's not an issue, I can promise that when we do get to them, they will be filled with affection and love! <3

I've tried to be thorough in my preference explanations, but feel free to message me to ask about any questions you may have!

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Romance!!1!11!
This is a must-have if we're going to roleplay. I don't doubt that other themes have their merits, but this is what I'm mainly looking for - one-on-one dedication between our characters with blossoming wholesome love and sweet, sweet affection. Bonus cookies if you like silly rom-com style romance with cute fluff, but I'll be alright with other kinds! I'm perfectly happy combining romance with other themes in a plot!

Not too dark or dramatic!
Some people like dark and dreary settings where things don't turn out well. Not on my watch! This is a NO SAD ZONE! I mean we can be temporarily sad, I can see dips in moods leading to more things to explore, but ultimately we should have sunshine and rainbows. No break-ups, no cheating, only happy waifus and joyful laifus.

Yep!
(I love these!)

Hmm...
(I might do these)

Nep.
(I won't do these. Sorry!)

The only genre I won't do is Sex Only. In general there needs to be affection, love, and build-up behind smut for me to care!

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Yep!

Hmm...

Nep.
These are in addition to the ones I've selected above. Note that I don't even want to bother covering all of them, or giving an explanation for some of these. No shame if you're into these, they're just really not for me.

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❝ Pleasure should feel like poetry—slow-burning, deeply felt, and lingering long after the last line is written. ❞

I don't write smut to shock—I write to immerse. Every touch, every word, every breath matters. Intimacy is an art form here—filled with trust, texture, tension, and taste.

✦ Soft to Medium Kinks (All Consensual, Story-Focused, and Emotionally Resonant):

╭─▸ Breastplay — fondling, caressing, nipple teasing, light biting or sucking
╭─▸ Pussyplay — slow fingering, outer teasing, deep oral attention, wet kisses between thighs
╭─▸ Overstimulation — soft whimpers, subtle squirming, repeated waves that blur thought
╭─▸ Begging / Whimpering — characters pleading for more, teary-eyed desperation
╭─▸ Grinding / Dry Humping — friction through layers, heat without full contact
╭─▸ Deep Kissing — slow, exploring, stolen mid-sentence, neck-kissing trailing to collarbones
╭─▸ Thigh riding / Face sitting / Thigh squeezing — intimate positioning, dominance through softness
╭─▸ Hair pulling / Hair petting — both commanding and comforting
╭─▸ Collaring (Symbolic) — neck kisses, chokers, not ownership, but intimacy
╭─▸ Undressing scenes — slow, tactile, reverent peeling of cloth and armor
╭─▸ Teasing / Edging — denial laced with anticipation, a build-up that’s cruelly tender
╭─▸ Pantyplay / Panty stealing — cheeky, obsessive, or scent-driven infatuation
╭─▸ Clothed Sex — hands slipping beneath skirts, pressed into walls, undone belts
╭─▸ Light bondage — silk restraints, cuffs, pinned wrists, spread legs
╭─▸ Toys (Story-integrated) — vibes, plugs, gags (in world, never purely for kink)
╭─▸ Subtle Dom/Sub dynamics — tone of voice, tension of gaze, unsaid control
╭─▸ Praise kink / Affirmation [GIVING AND RECEIVING] — “good girl,” “you’re doing so well,” soft tones that melt walls
╭─▸ Oral (Giving/Receiving) — emotionally intense, wet, slow, or needy
╭─▸ Touch starvation / First times — trembling contact, unsureness, revelation through skin
╭─▸ Aftercare / Tenderness — forehead kisses, cleaned wounds, shared vulnerability
╭─▸ Positioning (Loving or Dominant) — lap-sitting, face-to-face, bent over, on knees
╭─▸ Marking / Biting / Hickeys — neck, inner thighs, claiming acts, lingering bruises
╭─▸ Massages leading to intimacy — oils, backs, tension relief that turns to seduction
╭─▸ Sleepy / Morning sex — soft, lazy, whispered moans and warm sheets
╭─▸ Mutual masturbation / Voyeurism (soft) — watching each other, synchronized desire
╭─▸ Eye contact — the kind that pins, commands, or pleads in silence
╭─▸ Desperation / Heat of the moment — rain-soaked clothes, battlefield confessions, backroom trysts
╭─▸ Consent play / Trust kink — “Do you trust me?” and the world spins after

✧ Preferences in Writing Style & Scenes:

› Story comes first: characters are vivid, layered, and never just bodies
› Passion is patient or chaotic—whatever fits the scene and connection
› I prefer chemistry and tension that simmer before they burn
› Smut is a reward, a twist, a climax (of plot and bodies)
› All scenes are emotion-rich, description-lush, and driven by character psychology

✦ Hard Limits (Absolutely Not):

╰─▸ Beastiality / Non-humanoid creatures / Anthro / Furry / Minors
╰─▸ Scat / Vomit / Diaperplay / Inflation / Watersports / Vore / Guro
╰─▸ Non-consensual content without strict plot context & OOC consent
╰─▸ Feet play / Tickling / Extreme degradation / CNC that feels violent or unearned
╰─▸ Hyperfixated fetish play (e.g., constant licking, sex-only posts)
╰─▸ No ‘porn without plot’ or shallow characters designed only for scenes

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Give me skin that remembers, moans that mean something,
and characters who ache with purpose.
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Let’s write heat like scripture and touch like it hurts to stop.
Let me feel every breath, not just read it !

I'm one of those weird people who likes extreme kinks and painful situations but doesn't like permanent bad ends. So you can expect things like amputation, torture, etc, but most of the time it will end with a somewhat good ending.

I particularly enjoy something called human livestock, specially when a character ends up accidentally as one!