If there's anything you don't see in there, feel free to message me, I'll be happy to talk and I might end up discovering a new preference.

1: RP IS FICTION TO ME. I have had many instances in ERP where people act as if I am doing this for sexual pleasure and they try and talk dirty with me OOC. I AM UNCOMFORTABLE WITH DIRTY TALK OOC. Do not do it, I will drop you as an RP partner. NSFW RP and RP in general are FICTIONAL FOR ME, and I do not want any of the FICTION acts in RP to be treated as non-fiction. Respect this please, or we are by far NOT compatible to write together.

2: When things get difficult in my personal life, I WILL go inactive. It can be for days or weeks ( usually weeks ), but HAS gone on for months ( longest streak was 8 months ). I will NOT tolerate backlash for this, as the reasons for it are always family, work, or just REAL LIFE related. I do my best to be incredibly communicative about when I may be leaving or not replying to RPs to my partners, but if I have to let EVERY partner of mine know, I make a post explaining what's going on. 

3.) Please do not tell me about how you're feeling from the RP. For me, this is complete fiction and I do not feel anything for it. I know that NSFW RP is a way for people to feel intimacy or sexual pleasure in a life where they might not have much of it, but the reason I can write this content so much and so well is BECAUSE I don't feel anything for it. I get really uncomfortable when people tell me how they're feeling about it though, because that's when the line feels like it's crossing from "fiction" to "reality". I've had issues doing NSFW RP with people who then took it as serious and genuine relationship. That's not how it is for me, so I do not want to hear about how you're getting aroused by our RP idea. AGAIN- I understand if you are, but I don't want to hear about it, as it will push me away from you due to it hitting too close to a red flag I've spent 3 years dealing with.

FAILURE TO UNDERSTAND THESE THINGS WILL RESULT IN US NOT BEING COMPATIBLE. DO NOT BOTHER MESSAGING ME IF YOU CANNOT ACCEPT MY SITUATION AND THE COPING MECHANISMS I HAVE THAT LEAD ME TO LEAVING ABRUPTLY OR QUICKLY.

I don't like having a huge thing here so I deleted it. 

now, in 2023, I’m rewriting it. 

As per the new rule about character ages, ALL of my characters are at minimum 18. I shouldn't have to tell people this but just in case, I am NOT aging them any lower than that.

Basics:

I’ll keep it short and brief. I have several female characters who are developed with stories of their own for the sake of sex rp. Certain girls go better with different plot ideas. Typically speaking, I prefer to write only lewd RP on here and don't really seek out SFW RPs here - however, there MAY be instances where I do, and in those instances I do not want any sexual content forced into the RP unless we discuss it OOC. 
 

Limits:

Though I perhaps don't need to explain this to anyone, I feel the need to share the reasons for SOME of my Don't for kinks. Over the years on here and elsewhere, people have complained about my limitations in sexual RPs and I want to clear up the air a bit.

Before I joined this site a person commented that RPing with me ( ERP ) was like 'walking on a landmine' because one day I was okay with something and the next I wasn't. This has been a feeling occurring for my entire ERP experience. There will be a time where I am okay with something, and then suddenly I find it revolting. I don't judge others for including it, but I will feel uncomfortable re-reading the RPs, and furthermore won't enjoy what I've written. Other topics involved may be a little too close for personal comfort. RP is meant to be an escapism and fun. I don't need topics hitting too close for personal comfort to be included, so I don't like writing them. Below I will go over the ones I want to clarify, as some more recent RP partners have commented on confusion with my limitations due to certain plots I have written. 

• Anal / Ass-related : Personally I just don't enjoy this kind of content. I used to be okay with anal but not too interested in it, but around 2020, someone disrespected my discomfort with anal and when I brought it up, they treated it like a joke - excusing their behavior because it was "adult humor". They knew my discomfort with anal before this joke was made, so they knew it was an unwarranted joke and knew not to do it. Since then I have taken a major disinterest in anal, and don't write it in any form. I know not everyone will treat me badly for that, but it still makes me uncomfortable, and the plans or sudden force of anal reminds me of this uncomfortable situation, which teeters me away from writing nsfw rp. And even when I was okay with it, it was purely penetration, nothing like tongues or fingers, instantly excluding ass-to-mouth or anything of the sort. 
   
• Humiliation : If my character naturally feels ashamed or humiliated through the result in why she's having sex in the first place, it is fine - it was natural build up with natural response on my end. It was not a forced feeling, simply the feeling that she would end up having. What I do not tolerate is the person I'm writing with going out of their way to humiliate my character. This hits a bit too close to home ( for non-sexual reasons ) and it makes me uncomfortable being forced to write a situation that brings me real life discomfort. I bring all this up because I have some plotlines that suggest bad ends, public sex, and other potentially humiliating scenarios - I do not mind bad ends, as long as the intent of humiliation is not the main focus and I am able to freely write out how my character is feeling.  
   
• Pregnancy / impregnation : I don't like doing this content at all. If my characters get pregnant, they no longer want to have sex, and I mainly write here for the sexual RPs. I will not allow my characters to get pregnant regardless if the male character or other being cums inside her. If you're seeking someone who will go by the laws of real life, I am definitely not the person you're looking to write with. For me, cumming inside =/= impregnation. For me, the act of getting the girl pregnant enforces a romance story, even if that's not what is meant to be intended - and I simply don't want that happening in my RPs. My characters often are lucid enough in RPs to ask or expect the other character to wear a condom or to pull out of her pussy before cumming. If that is not respected in the rp that's fine, but do not get mad at me when my character has no consequence of yours' actions. 
   
• Mind-Control / hypnosis : I do not like RPs where I am not in control of my character's feelings and actions. If she is under the control of another who gives orders, I will not be enjoying the RP. For me, my characters react naturally through how I feel is best fit for their personalities. By doing things such as mind control or hypnosis, this takes away that entirely. My girls can become mindless and reliant on sex, but that is my choice lead by the situations in the RPs, and often they will return to normal or at least semi-normal by the next scene. I do not make them sex slaves who are obedient for their master.
   
• Yaoi/Yuri : It is incredibly rare for me to do a futa RP but I am open to them. I say no to Yaoi because I don't write male characters for sex, only females. Any male character I write is strictly a background character or a supporting character of my OC's story. As for Yuri, I just don't care for lesbian sex. I've tried writing it before and didn't find it fun for me to write. Since I am ASEXUAL and writing ERP is about the entertainment it brings more than a sex drive, I have to be interested in the content. As mentioned earlier, I have done futa RPs and don't necessarily mind them, I've just done MxF more than FUxF
   
• Everything else : The things not mentioned in the bullets above I just don't have any interest in writing. They are either unappealing to me or I don't know enough about them to feel comfortable or safe writing them. I do not ever want to make people feel like they're "walking through a landmine" with me, and by not really knowing or feeling interested in those topics, it will for sure trigger that landmine feeling. I'm not often comfortable telling people how they make me uncomfortable ( if they do ), so it's better to not include these topics if it can be avoided. 

I have a lot of kinks and enjoy experiencing new things, so if there's anything you didn't see feel free to ask or maybe introduce me to it!

I try to keep lewd stuff separate so I would prefer if we could just communicate on this site, or maybe discord if we get to know each-other well enough.

Out of everything above my top favorites are as follows, in no particular order:

• Traps/Femboys
• Cuckolding
• Femdom
• Chibi
• Yaoi
• Humiliation

Additional "will not's":

• Vore

I may add more as I come across them.

I can play characters of any gender, though I don't usually lean towards dominant roles. That's why some of the fetishes displayed here are from a submissive/receiver perspective.

Although I'll probably feel more comfortable starting with shorter roleplays, I do enjoy a bit of character interaction, and I'm fine if somewhere down the line we get some ideas to expand the roleplay beyond the initial scenario.

If you want to roleplay about a series that you're interested in, I'll do my best to get a bit familiar with the subject, but nevertheless I'd like for the both of us to collaborate on realizing your desired vision of the characters. Don't be afraid if you think your tastes might be too niche! If anything, I know how that feels.

The only thing I expect out of my roleplay partners regarding writing competence is that they don't forget about punctuation.

Though i may not like some fetishes I am open to discussion and being convinced but this depends on the fetish or fetish’s 

I prefer to bottom or switch. I don't like to top, it doesn't come naturally to me.

I like to play as a submissive and a masochist.

I love BDSM, rough play, and non-con. 

I have endless plots and ideas and I'm down for just about anything kinky, especially if it's violent. 

Other fetishes include mind break and orgasm control. I'm fairly open minded aside from the few that are hard nos.

I prefer keeping things seperate: please don't ask for my kik, Discord, or other methods of contacting me.

I prefer to play shy or innocent characters, but have the capacity to play brazen and slutty characters if need be.

I'm always open to other things too, so feel free to PM me even if you might wanna pursue a different kind of RP. This is a sample character description to illustrate how I usually RP: 

I’m a 6’ tan gladiator-proportioned male, with ruler-cut facial features. I sport black, ruffled hair, deep black eyes, a slight stubble, strawberry lips, and a straight row of pearly whites that I’m fond of showing off in a toothy, mischievous grin. I have strong, wide shoulders, rippling arms, and a smooth lick-able 6-pack. You can usually catch me wearing a soft cotton dark-blue t-shirt and grey form-fitting sweatpants, with a slight crotch bulge suggesting my coiled 8-inch hose.

hello, i'm sylvie! 

i'm a semi-advanced rper, meaning you can expect at least 2-3 paragraphs from me per post. the more you give me, the more i can give back! please do try to avoid one-liners as they are difficult for me to respond to.

what i like to rp

- fantasy, modern, and medieval settings 

- romance, adventure themes

- story-driven/story heavy rp | slow burn

- fluff

- darker themes such as force, coercion, minor violence, grooming, etc

what i won't do

- fandom or pre-made characters. i prefer to create an original character tailored to the story we are writing

- pregnancy. this is one of my only hard nos. pregnancy freaks me out irl, and i don't find anything sexy or appealing about it, sorry!

thanks for reading! please feel free to message me with your ideas 

I admit that, compared to many here, I do seem to have remarkably boring tastes.  I like to think that what I lack in variety, I make up for with quality!

I am not in any way prudish or frightened of pushing my own limits.  I will put as much into a RP that is  set in someone else's favorite time/place as I will into my  own.   I will explore sexual limits as long as they are in the context of  the  story and make sense  with the characters.    

I think that Romance - like any emotion - is conceived, born and nurtured in the mind. 

I enjoy roleplays where both partners can be themselves but play out their thoughts in a story.  

My most favorite RP is one with two people - m&f - where there is little up-front constraint.  Ideally, I just need two people who are destined to meet (how does not even have to be defined) and then we just see where their relationship goes.  I do understand that  many people want there  to be some things pre-defined so that the story at least has some context.   I say,  let's just talk about it  and see whether our  minds  connect enough to give it a go!

I cannot gender-swap.  I am male and I write as a male.  I feel that if I write as a female it will lack integrity and will probably be either a lot of cliches or very shallow.

I am imaginative and love to connect with a sharp mind - with someone who enjoys writing but goes beyond the dialog and helps me see the environment of the story.  

I will not write anything abusive or unnatural.  I do not accept them in real life and, therefore, will not do it here.

I love long RPs - following a couple through the ups and downs.  I will write long responses and short responses and often somewhere in between.  I believe I contribute equally.

My requests of a RP Partner:

• If it is not working, don't just abandon - tell me
• If you have to take a break - tell me
• Do not speak for my character but let's share everyone except  our own characters!
• Be prepared to have a side-bar conversation (outside the RP) where we can agree/disagree and manage changes to the story

I will do all these in return and add that I will always respect my RP partner.

Please do contact me if you want to see if we can have a go at a story.