Single. I have had 2 partners, if you don't count the child thing of saying you are dating someone when you are like, 6. Both of them were long distance and with guys. The first I met through shared interests, he asked me out before I even knew how to respond and I had to reply later, but then, he wanted to get into sex too quickly and I was quite the innocent 19 year old. He was 5 years older, we parted amicably and he is now married to another guy, which I am happy for. Even if it sometimes feels like I was the rebound stopgap. Second was someone I met on another RP site, we never met in person but I was planning to, he was borderline emotionally abusive to the point a few friends stepped in for my safety.
Not that I don't want to date, I am constantly looking, for a female partner this time, but everyone where I live either have partners already or have children and whilst I work with children for a living, I don't want to become a step-dad potentially in the future. I have been lonely over the years though, you would be surprised at how many one night stands can fail due to the most random shit, then you never see that person again.