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I don't see a problem with this. If anything, that says to me that she has a healthy sex drive. If sex in the relationship was non-existent, then, of course, I'd probably start wondering if there's a problem between us. But by itself I see watching some porn as a perfectly normal thing to do, regardless of gender. Hell, I'd say it's even kind of a turn on.

Well, I got lucky enough to have two great relationships in my life time. With my husband who I lost 12 years ago now, and with my current boyfriend. Both open minded, awesome guys in their own way. Boyfriend knows about me making stories with whoever wants to, and is all fine with it. He knows who I cuddle up with at night. . And yes, good relationships happen when you least expect it. These two guys I know are proof of that.

I probably spent as many years single and dating/hooking up the younger people here have been alive. I both hated and loved that time, and even though I always felt empty, I never allowed any of those intimate pairings to turn into more. I'd lost love pretty brutally early on and was scared to risk it again. Just after pandemic lockdown I accidentally fell into a relationship with a friend who needed a place to live. I almost ran away again, but convinced myself not to, and it somehow is working better than I could have imagined, or probably deserve. I am happier than I could ever imagine being.

Single for a few while now, but I would rather be alone than to give the opportunity for someone to hurt me again. Not sure how long I have been single, just letting things come and go, like the river in a way.

I had a fling between serious relationships with an old flame from highschool who grew into a porn addiction. I've never seen anyone so overstimulated before lmao. Still, watch corn, idgaf. Long as it isn't fucking up your expectations, because that happens a lot.

That is just insecurity. Humans are animals, both male and female and we have all the kind of urges: emotional and physiological urges. I don't think it's weird and I think I prefer "Horny girls" since they are open with her feelings and urges. Also, know what makes the person arroused is a valid way to know her better.

That's usually how it happens. When you least expect it.

I'm in a relationship and I am happy. He knows I write and doesn't really mind because to quote "It is just words, it's not real and you aren't going to run away with whoever is behind the screen." We have been together for a very long time and got a civil partnership to protect our daughter. I think I got lucky to have found someone special to me. ^^

I too am painfully single, despite being a usually social forward guy. Unfortunately, with how women have treated me over the years I've developed a social anxiety towards women. Which is only amplified by the fact that if I ever try to talk publicly about it I only get berated by people calling me things like incel, or saying that I deserve how I'm treated on the soul grounds of me being a man. *insert the part where I elaborated on this further by giving real life examples, only to delete it because I knew it would result in exactly what I said would happen*

I am here in a relationship… but also painfully lonely.