gubbins knicknacks [ preferences! ]

EXTREMELY IMPORTANT: As of currently, I am hyperfixated on what I've posted in this thread. I will likely not be interested in stories set in original worlds, and if you only read my preferences and ask for me to play a goblin girl or a medieval fantasy setting, I won't reply as my preferences clearly state I do not roleplay medieval settings and my profile picture is not a representation of the only thing I want to play. I will not respond to messages asking "hey wanna rp" or anything like that.

EXTREMELY IMPORTANT: I have severe trauma related to adultery/cuckolding, so that cannot be in the RP or in our discussion at all. No jokes, no references to it, nothing. Ethical non-monogamy and open relationships are fine, and no: liking to watch your SO/spouse with others is NOT adultery/cuckolding, so please do not mistake the two, thank you!

I generally keep things to a mid-realism level in all matters. The definition of realism can of course change depending on characters and setting, but I don't like to get too out there, especially when it comes to sexual scenes.

I play female characters in FxM (cis or trans) relationships ONLY. I will play a (cis or trans bi/pan) male character alongside a female in MFM relationships. I do not do F(uta)xF(uta) at all (_{except in one extremely rare fandom case}).

REQUIRED: ONLY these three things in particular are required. Nothing else in this list is!

• Romance - speaks for itself.
• Happy endings - in the case of fandom, this may mean fucking with canon, but if that's not the point of RP, I don't know what is! And no - I don't do corruption, I do redemption.
• Audio - Accents, dirty talk, the description of skin on skin, a headboard banging on the wall, a mattress creaking, or even onomatopoeia words - these are some of my favorite things. Not ALL of them have to be in any one given scene or RP, mind you!

DOM/SUB: Neither! I find this to be an unnecessary constraint in my RPs and characters, so I don't use it!

MY CHARACTER(S):

• Chubby.
• Shortstack - including shortstack races.

PARTNER'S CHARACTER(S): (Not required.)

• Accent - I'm weak for accents, and even weaker for folks who can write them phonetically, which I know are few and far between. I don't have many preferences but my absolute favorites (not a full list) are: Latin/Spanish, Cockney, Southern American/country, Irish, and Scottish.
• Unique features - Some of my favorite actors (just for reference) are Jackie Earle Haley, Danny DeVito, Steve Buscemi, Danny Trejo, and Peter Dinklage. My first ever crush was Phil from Disney's Hercules, so... yeah. While I should note again that none of these are required, I do not roleplay with pretty anime men characters/bishounen characters.
• Underdogs - This is a hard one to describe. While the word is common, what it means to me is sort of personal. Men who have been beaten down by the world, but haven't let it get to them - the unlucky ones who still hope. For the best possible example of this, see Kieran Duffy from Red Dead Redemption 2. I will do (nearly) anything for Kieran-esque characters.

FAVORITE THEMES: (Not required.)

• Age gaps - The range of my women generally falls between 14-45-ish, while I like to write men (both with and as) 14-60-ish.
• Alternate universes - I just think they're neat!
• Affection - Particularly grooming behavior - running hands through hair, shared baths, or my character showing affection towards a part of the body (missing limb, burn, scar, etc) that your character may have issues with.
• Canon x OC.
• Casual sex - While reading a book, watching a movie, playing a game, having a conversation (on the phone or otherwise), etc..
• Cumming at the same time - I'm a romanticist, so shoot me.
• Cramped spaces (regarding sexual encounters).
• Fun sex - Joyful sex! Sex with laughter! Serious sex is good too.
• Found family.
• Hair triggers - Both male and female. A male with a hair trigger will NEVER be shamed or humiliated for it.
• Interracial - If it's real world races that are involved, 99% of the time I do not mean in a 'raceplay' way. However, if fantasy races are involved, raceplay may be a theme.
• Polyandry - One woman, multiple men. Especially blessed if the men have a relationship as well. I am more than happy to play one of the men, even, and usually prefer that set-up.
• Pregnancy - risk of, breeding, etc., etc..
• Redemption - Found through hope, familial bonds, love, etc - not through death.
• Responsibility - Specifically giving it to characters that probably shouldn't have it to begin with.
• Rough sex with aftercare.
• Semi-public sex - Fully public sex would need to be discussed as I'm a bit more picky with that.
• Slow burn.
• Upending conventions - No barbarian orc chieftains with wispy elf princesses, thanks.
• Wish fulfillment - Otherwise, what's the point?

FAVORITE SETTINGS:

• Wild west - or weird wild west!
• Fandoms. My biggest fandoms right now are Resident Evil 7, 8, and Red Dead Redemption 2. I have a milder interest in Fallout (3 and NV only), Subnautica, FFXIV, and Deep Rock Galactic.
• I DO NOT do anything European medieval fantasy. EVER. Under ANY circumstances.