I am seeking a dominant partner who can thoughtfully navigate fear and safety, uncertainty and security, and praise and degradation. I enjoy exploring power dynamics. I am particularly drawn to imperfect characters—those shaped by conflicting values or circumstances that place them in difficult positions. I like dominants who choose control not the ones who need to assert it due to insecurity (although sometimes there are exceptions. I roleplayed with one insecure dom character that was amazing. It can be done right.)
In addition to the dynamics previously mentioned, here are a few other things I like in erotic roleplay; these include themes such as: overstimulation and denial, leather and shoes, desire and yearning, obsession, helplessness, prey–predator dynamics, banter, slice of life, philosophical, and narratives centered on overcoming hardship. I am also interested in certain aspects of pet play, particularly those that lean toward degradation rather than the caretaking of a pet—it is focused on feeling emotionally cherished while being directed, praised for surrendering to “instinct,” and guided through structured control. Public or semi-public scenarios are also of interest.
I have a strong understanding of why these themes resonate with me. I can discuss these motivations when asked. I find that this level of self-awareness is important, as it allows a dominant partner to better shape scenes, understand boundaries, and gauge how far to push while keeping the experience safe for both parties.
I have equal experience roleplaying monogamous and polyamorous dynamics, though I have a strong preference for polyamorous characters. I especially enjoy writing stories centered on men in love, but I am open to portraying a female character when the plot, characterization, and out-of-character connection are compelling enough.
The settings I currently love the most are paranormal / supernatural England 1845 or a fantasy equivalent, the retro early 80s or a fantasy equivalent, or modern.
