sub LF Dom of any gender for specific RP

Hello, I'm a submissive female looking for a very dominant person of any gender for one of two specific roleplays. My prefered response length for roleplaying is just a couple pc lines to a full paragraph. 

The first roleplays basic layout would be that your character controls mine in her daily life, and slowly over time makes her a sluttier and sluttier girl. That's the most basic layout of what I want to happen. All of the details around it can be talked about and changed.

The second isnt so much a plot, but i want to build a roleplay around a particular artists type of hentai, ha ku ronofu jin. His pictures are so creative and ive always wanted to do something around them.

 However I have a very strange dislike, in that i do not like roleplaying very much actual sex(incudling bjs, anal, ect). I still want this roleplay to be very sexual, with constant kinky fun. I know its a bit strange but please respect it 

Some kinks(Not all need to be included): public, rules, clothing control, body mods, casual pain/abuse, cumplay, humiliation, exhibitionism, ENF, toys, rules, predicament bondage situations, slutification I dont have many hard limits outside of the amount of sex preference, so feel free to bring whatever kinks you have! Thanks, hope you talk to some of you soon. Spirit

If neither of those catch your interest im also looking for someone to help me come up with a good long, strict list of rules for me to follow in my daily life.