Testing the waters for a more coalesced idea (super gender non-conforming males, feminization and...yuri?)

I'm desiring something very queer, potentially very lewd and intends to blur gender and gender-pairings furiously to the point that midway through a RP, you might not be able to tell if things are straight or yuri.

I want to play a gender non-conforming male vs a female or futa with a heavy focus on orientation play, gender/orientation confusion on both sides, gender envy, girlcock envy, those kind of things with an obvious dash of femdom probably whether as-is or more like soft-domme femdom but also very likely intended with gender affirmation (or not so subtle or subtle gender realigning with a less soft domme) and an eggcracking/trans awakening (egg is a LGBT term for someone who is actually trans but unaware they are while still being cis thus when they find out: egg cracked) thing as a main kink and theme. Heavy transbian subtext, even.

Since I'm interested in playing a non gender-conforming male (whether cis and feminine or preferably one of the following: male-herm, a cuntboy or a bustyboy or a combination of the former), I like the idea of using feminine secondary sexual characteristics present on a male to imply, nudge and convince that their actual gender/identity does not lie within the male spectrum at all and thus that the RP blurs into or actually eventually turns into yuri packed futaxfemale and futaxfemale like I've been implying in the previous paragraph.