I am a devout Christian, so there are very specific guidelines I follow when it comes to the roleplay I am willing to do. While I am very open to all sorts of kinks and fetishes, I will only allow certain ones under certain contexts. I will never, under any circumstances, participate in a roleplay that glorifies sexual immorality. However, I will be okay with roleplays involving sexual immorality if:
- The act leads to some sort of consequence (unexpected pregnancy, lost job/relationship, etc.) OR
- The act is portrayed as horrific (rape, torture, etc.)
I want my stories to reflect Christian values. Sex will be used only with a purpose to advance the story in a meaningful way. This is why I will never, under any circumstance, agree to participate in a sex-only roleplay. This doesn't mean that my stories have to take place in a world where God exists, although depending on the type of story being told I may be adamant on the existence of God being left open-ended. It simply means that I don't ever want a story I'm writing to "inspire" anyone to commit sinful acts. I want immoral sex to be surrounded by feelings of guilt and/or fear either during or after the fact. A character I play as may enjoy having sex and even become addicted to the pleasure it brings her, but by the end of the roleplay that addiction will slowly take over her life and transform the story from an erotic fantasy to a horrible nightmare where her life spirals out of control. A story like that could be given a happy ending if she manages to escape her addiction and allows her experience to change herself, or it should simply stay a tragic tale of a girl who lost everything she had. But I would never write a story where such a girl would receive a happy ending without changing to avoid sexual immorality.
As for my roleplaying style, I like to write a lot. I love creating new and unique worlds. I have a tendency to create an original character for each roleplay, even in fandom roleplays. Although sometimes I may reuse a previously created character if I really liked them. If you want to roleplay with me privately, I will give you a heads up that I tend to prioritize my public roleplays when it comes to effort. When I roleplay with others, I also have a tendency to try and match their level of detail. If I feel that our roleplay styles just aren't meshing very well, then don't feel bad if I send you a message telling you it won't work out. I don't like participating in roleplays where I feel limited in. If my partner isn't contributing anything, then I take it that they're simply bored with the story and I just don't want to continue anymore. I would much rather my stories end abruptly and hopefully one day pick up again when enthusiasm is back, than have a roleplay drag on for a year with absolutely nothing substantial happening.
If you're a stranger looking to roleplay with me, please do not simply send me a message asking immediately. I would like to consider myself very approachable, but I would really like to get to know somebody before roleplaying with them. After all, it's really awkward to start a roleplay and then partway through realize you're just not compatible with each other. If you're trying to actually make conversation and be friends, then please don't open up with a message that literally only says "hi," or any other generic greeting. If you don't know what to say, tell me what about me caught your attention! If I just get a generic greeting, it feels like it's been copied and pasted to a hundred different people and I'll just ignore it like junkmail.
That said, if we're already friends, you can always suggest your roleplays with me right out the gate and if you just want to chat, a simple "hi," is more than welcome! ^^