On the surface I'm less of a kinkster than your average roleplayer on... well, in most roleplay communities. However, I'm not as restricted as preference lists can make me out to be, and I can certainly make up for it in writing quality and characters. It's just that I don't really participate in Dom/sub lifestyles, and when it comes to bondage, I'm on the "tourist" end with the occasional blindfold or binding, and certainly being willing to make use of a leather belt during bedroom scenes, but it's more seasoning to me than the whole point. It gives some interactions some spice to keep things alive.
For this reason, I put certain things in the "Maybe" section. Master/pet? Maybe between a human male and a nekomimi female, but it's going to be a caring relationship, not one in which the woman is put in a cage, used, or mistreated (and I know, Master/pet is a kink where both parties are human, typically. I can't really wrap my head around that, though, unless you put cat ears and tail on the girl. It's a silly differentiation, but it's there). Incest? I do not find blood relations appealing in any way. Pseudo-incest between step-siblings or step-parent and step-son or daughter (18+)? I've recently discovered that, under the right conditions, I'm pretty down for that.
So I'm not inflexible, nor am I strictly plain vanilla ice cream, but a lot of the kinks people come here looking to explore are either something I need to discuss or I dabble in the lighter end of.
What tends to inspire many of my ideas are the following kinks: voyeurism, exhibitionism, and an actual casual attitude towards sex. The idea of sex in a public place but perhaps in secret. A hidden blowjob beneath the work desk while the boss is lecturing about TPS reports, or quietly pinning her to the wall beneath the stairwell. Worlds where sex is less taboo, or one from a more repressed background and culture mingling with sexually liberated cultures. When I think "casual sex", I mean in a way where the world views sex itself casually, removing inhibitions. "Friends with benefits" becomes just "friends", and "one night stand" becomes "a typical Friday night".
Everyone has their big no-no's, however, and while I try to be flexible, there are some that I just cannot compromise on. Non-con/rape are the big ticket no-no items. Honestly, anything that includes the mistreatment of a woman (or, honestly, fellow human) is not something I'm a fan of. It's one thing if the story needs a villain, but the villain will just be a side character and not the focus. I am not a fan of full-furred characters or completely inhuman fantasy or alien species. I am fine with human-types that simply have animal ears or tail (typical anime cat girl), but the more animalistic features the less attracted I am. Sorry! Characters must be 18 or older. This is not debatable. Additionally, and maybe it's because I'm getting old and am old-fashioned, but my preference is for female writing partners writing female characters. I apologize if this bothers you. I do not judge anyone for writing what they enjoy, especially since I've been judged for what I do (or even don't!) enjoy myself. We're all who we are, right? So please don't take this preference personally.
In regards to the sex itself, these are the things I enjoy most:
- Blowjobs: I melt like butter in the mouth of a woman who knows what she's doing. Note that I differentiate blowjob from throat fucking. To me, a blowjob is about the woman's technique. I could do a roleplay of nothing but blowjobs, were it not for the fact that it'd start getting redundant.
- Woman on top: A woman can do more with her hips on top than a man can with his own in any position. Plus, the bounce and the view is so wonderful. Cowgirl or reverse, grinding or hopping, it's all good sex to me.
- Doggy-style: One of the best positions if only because you can better angle for maximum pleasure, and there's so much you can do with your hands. Smacking, hair pulling, throat holding, breast squeezing, general caressing... probably the most versatile position, especially when writing sex.
- Titty-fucking: The best way to conclude a scene. I prefer cumshots on a woman's body over cumming inside or her swallowing, and the breasts are the best spot to mark.
- Cunnilingus: Women squirm differently when a man is going down on them, especially when the tongue is hyper-focused on the clit. For some reason it feels like this is less commonly included in things, though...
In regards to types of characters I play, I enjoy writing generally good guys, with the misunderstood anti-hero being the darkest I like to go. My characters may get angry or have darker moments, but I have no desire to bring that anger into the bedroom. Some of my common go-to personalities are the playful goofball lecher that enjoys flipping skirts and giving gropes, the responsible and honorable older man that looks out for others, and the swash-buckling or even slapstick adventurer. However, I've had to come to terms with my favorite type of character to write being the inexperienced, overthinking, socially awkward young man (again, 18+) that is thrown into a new environment in which he gets laid, and gets laid often. Note that I usually desire a character arc of "developing confidence" for this sort, a character that goes from having no confidence in himself to starting to speak with more authority, exercise regularly, and be more assertive in his own advances. However, it requires female characters to be more assertive first, which... can be difficult to find the right partner for. Still, if I can get a story focused on such a character, I will be quite pleased.
Finally, I've had a history of being whisked away by real life and disappearing for a long time. If this is going to happen again, I will do everything in my power to ensure any partners are informed.
You can find my story ideas or my (continued) short stories in their respective threads.
Thank you.
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