I'm certainly more vanilla compared to most on the board, but it does not mean I am lacking in the kinkster department. My interests just tend to lie more in things like exhibitionism, discreet public play, or settings where sex is more casual. This coincides with "fish out of water", where someone with more common or modest sensibilities is thrust into an environment where sex is far more frequent and nonchalant than they're used to. This includes enjoying "good" young men of virtuous chastity being corrupted into perverts or playboys. However, I also enjoy the heroic, somewhat competent adventurer with a tendency to fall face first into the bosom of a woman, the openly perverted slacker that would spend his days bouncing from bed to bed if he could, the romantic, sensitive young man with a heart for romance, or the more experienced middle-aged gentleman with charisma and ambition. It all depends on the setting and the cast required.
I try to be flexible in regards to kinks, and therefore anything in the "maybe" section is always up for discussion. For example: I do not enjoy anal sex, but for the right partner I wouldn't mind doing a scene involving it. This also includes something like impregnation, but I've developed a curiosity for those interested in "breeding" stories and what that entails.
Note that I consider myself outside typical Dom/sub definitions. "Switch" if I must wear a label, but it really depends on the characters and the context, and even then, I don't really perceive sex as something of "control". It is an experience that is given and shared.
My story-telling preference is to have multiple characters in a narrative; I will typically write multiple male characters, and while I enjoy my partner having multiple female characters, I don't mind a story focused on her sole character's erotic adventures. I enjoy settings or set-ups where sex is encouraged, leading to a lot of casual engagements and friends-with-benefits.
In regards to the sex itself, these are the things I enjoy most:
- Blowjobs: I melt like butter in the mouth of a woman who knows what she's doing. Note that I differentiate blowjob from throat fucking. To me, a blowjob is about the woman's technique. I could do a roleplay of nothing but blowjobs, were it not for the fact that it'd start getting redundant.
- Woman on top: A woman can do more with her hips on top than a man can with his own in any position. Plus, the bounce and the view is so wonderful. Cowgirl or reverse, grinding or hopping, it's all good sex to me.
- Doggy-style: One of the best positions if only because you can better angle for maximum pleasure, and there's so much you can do with your hands. Smacking, hair pulling, throat holding, breast squeezing, general caressing... probably the most versatile position, especially when writing sex.
- Titty-fucking: My favorite way to conclude things is by releasing all over a nice pair and making a mess.
- Cunnilingus: Women squirm differently when a man is going down on them. I find this enjoyable.
Lastly, I've come to realize there are some things I do need in order to feel invested in a story.
- A clear direction for the plot to be going: I don't anticipate having the story fully mapped out, especially since I desire flexibility for the story to adapt as we're writing it. However, I need to understand each character's goals so that I have a sense as to where the next scene will be and what I want my characters to do.
- Sufficient detail in body language and coitus: This may sound oddly particular, but a lot of a person's character is defined not just in what they say, or even what they do, but how they do it. Small gestures of the body, glances to the side or the ground, even the wriggling of one's nose all communicate someone's personality. Simultaneously, sex and sexual experiences are all about the little details, the tiny responses, the way toes and tongues alike curl and under what circumstances. Be it in or out of smut, these details paint the picture that helps keep me captivated.
- An overall positive outlook: If a setting is too dramatic or dark, it becomes difficult to continue writing. While all stories need drama, and I'll certainly run head-first into providing some, I tend to prefer tones that go no darker than, say, a Marvel movie or the overall tone of sitcom Scrubs, where heavy subject matter was handled without losing heart and optimism.
- Good rapport with my partner out-of-character: It's not necessarily a requirement, but often I find my interest in writing with someone increases as I get to know them. Be it discussing media like film, television, or video games, or preferences in story-telling and shared struggles in writing, or even personal experiences, I tend to be more enthused about writing with someone if I know we gel as people. As such, my PM box is always open, and we can talk about many things, not just plotting a story.
If you're curious, then please check out my story ideas thread.
Thank you.
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