Let me start off by saying, I'm hypersexual; there is, at all times, a lot of tension pent-up in me, so ERP-s are some relief for that. (Though I'm not nympho or a slut or anything! 
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I'll link a full list down below since the preferences above are a bit difficult to select (I might have flubbed them up
), but here are 10 things (and a thought about each) I love and 5 I hate.
Top 10 Yays: (In no particular order!)
1. Powerplay: I love to daydream about a relationship, which is a constant fight for dominance. (Probably why I love enemies to lovers so much...) We are wearing each other down mentally, emotionally, and sexually until the dam bursts, the floodgates open, and I'm naked on his glass conference room table (I prefer to lose). Getting submissed by his firm but gently hold, his slightly sweaty six pack and hard nipples, the knee he drives between my legs, his unstinting rough fuck. I sink to new depths of sub-space I didn't want to realise existed, and yet I knew existed that he would take me there, the first time my gaze challenged him, and he cut back straight to my soul...
2. Primalplay: This one is less about romance and love, though it's very welcome. It's about the chase, a desperate escape I make with the sole intention of getting hunted down and claimed (with consent of course!). I want to feel like the bunny in your crosshairs, the gazelle whose aphrodisiac scent sent the lion roaring and pouncing, I want to feel the teeth coming down on my ass. Of course, this meant more metaphorically, but I love the image of play-fighting back and an alpha mounting me. It involves lots of scratches and love bites 
. (But all in healthy measure!)
3. Master-servant relationship: It's one I've been having wet dreams about since I read a book about TPE (total power exchange). It's a lovely lifestyle, that's probably as difficult to fulfil as building a snowman in the Sahara. I have long had fantasies about being a slave and belonging to someone like that, these fantasies fuel my desire to live a TPE M/s relationship. To find someone that you can actually trust with not only your life but also with one's kids, it is just amazing.
4. Orgasm control and denial: It's just a ramification of the above, but as I said, my drive is currently very high. I try to deny myself as much as I can, but after a week, my world just turns a sexual colour. My body feels turned on and sexy all the time, and I can't separate everyday interactions from sex anymore. I crave guys, I wasn't seeing that way before, and it's just torture... Having someone (consentually) force it on me with a hard light in their eye and honeyed commanding voice is just... Wow.
5. Breeding: It's branching out from the primalplay stuff, and a little arduous to explain what I like about it. Again, the idea of getting claimed (consentually!) in raw sex is just that much more intense. When I know that every thrust while he enjoys me brings him closer to filling and marking my womb with something indelible. Someone born of our love and desires for each other, whom we will cherish as if they were a little bit of both of us, and more, is such a warm and fuzzy feeling, in my humble opinion!
6. Size difference: I’m 180 cm tall, so the average guy I’d dated was never that much bigger than me, but if I were smaller, I’d totally love to be cuddled by a big, hulking lug of a mountain man or fire fighter. Wrapped in strong, firm arms, I’d feel so little and precious and safe.
7. Age difference: (Be warned, your character can’t be older than in their late 30s, and mine won’t be younger than 19!) So long story short, my second ever boyfriend was somewhat older than me at the time. He did taxi in the city I’m from, and since I still went to yoga and piano in high school after hours, we got to know each other. It was very casual, but I was at a weird place emotionally, so it felt nice, I think about it a lot these days…
8. Oral training/service: I for one absolutely LOVE oral sex, quite often even more than regular sex. I love every aspect of it, the kissing, the licking, sucking, feasting, and of course, the feeling and taste of the fluids involved. The inevitable smell of sweat and cum and the warm clean man-scent. In fact, it is the act of tasting and consuming the fluids that turns me on the most. How I learn about his cock, adapt to his size, get used to the feel of it in my throat and how to control breathing to let him have it as much as I can, master how often he likes it lapped at, and when to push him past his threshold. Then my sole focus and desire is giving him an orgasm. A very powerful orgasm, a very messy and yummy orgasm. I love swallowing the load, and I ensure that there are no spills here and there. He works hard to make that stuff, least I can do is enjoy his flavour
9. Bathing: Soooo… most likely my weirdest one… Initially, all I was interested in was showering with an attractive partner. Soaping each other up, washing each other's hair, enjoying the intimate experience of cleaning each other's bodies. (Outside of that, it tends to be good as foreplay because the person you're with smells a little, and you want to make sure they're clean before sex without killing the vibe.)
That was all I wanted. Then, through some exploring, I expanded my fantasies to include more traditional BDSM dynamics. The idea of a dominant man, brushing and scrubbing me and caring for me with love or disciplining me a bit more roughly. (Scrubbing my pussy with a coarse sponge, since he says it’s ‘dirty’ so I come from it so ‘he has to starting again’. Or mouthsoaping for all my bratty taunts and teasing…) Hot water, noise of the shower, slippery bodies, humid air. Honestly, soapy muscles are one of my favourite things in the world. There's something as well about bodies pressed up against glass or touching someone through a clear shower curtain that I can't really describe, why I'm into it, but it really works for me lol.
I think the shower is a super safe space for me as well, which contributes. I definitely have many fantasies in the shower/bathroom. Also, maybe a bit of an architecture/interior design fetish because the nicer/more lavish the bathroom space is, the better.
10. Outfit control and shaving: It’s part of the TPE thing. I want to be customised for my master. To know his tastes and desires, kinks, and sculpt and mould myself to him, but there is also a non sexual side to this as well (though after 4 days of denial, you bet I’ll sexualise it 
). I love being pampered. Having my downstairs trimmed to how we like it, my legs shaved, my hair conditioned. Then he can dry and princess carry back to bed, we can read in each other's arms, flirt, talk about our everydays, or laugh about something silly. Then if he gets hard we can fuck, or just cuddle away our evening.
Same thing with clothing, I love taking bfs out for shopping so I can get his tastes on what kinda outfit he’d like me in. (Sadly, they are usually not into it… Even if I’d also choose things for him…) It can be very casual things like streetwear or hoodies, or what kinda jammies and lingerie he’s into, to more like silly cosplay thinks like dressing up as our favorite characters and acting like it!
Honourable mentions: Light bondage, forced orgasms, playboys, mean princes/ domeniring rich men, endowed primal men (lots of hygienic body hair!), kidnap scenarios (ask me about it first!), tentacles/egg laying.
Nays:
1. Race play: Let me just say your character can be any ethnicity (and species in fantasy worlds!) you’d like, and highlighting that is totally chill with me! But please don’t emphasise it in a weird way, as for example, just because you play as a pink-smelling oni, your ‘seed’ is of higher quality than those of the blue-tasting mole people, or that you are a two-bit gnome who has a weird fixation on going after wood elves.
2. Anything involving real animals: Furries and monsters are not animals, but anything that feels like cruelty or abuse or is just plain-ass weird is a huge no-no!
3. Anything involving the toilet, or its uses!
4. Any kind of humiliation or non-affectionet name calling (slut, bitch, whore, etc…)!
5. Overly violent doms: I mean, come on. There is a difference between being possessive and sexually assertive and simply wanting to hurt people (physically and emotionally). Don’t do that!
That's it, anyway, here is the list!
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