KleineVampir

Sure and look at where that has gotten you. This whole website is a complete failure. 150 active users a day is a joke. I guess I had better hopes for this site than this. I thought it was somewhere I could finally roleplay without being bothered but man that is clearly the opposite of the case. Looks like I'll need to find a site where people aren't inclined to gang up on new members for the the smallest preferences, and the staff absolutely will not help in any way. I guess I'm finally going to have to give up. Congrats, enjoy your forums.

To be fair, the feeling that I'm being adversarial towards you is just a perception. People on here seem pretty darn critical of me. Why shouldn't I be critical of you guys? Also I gotta say I don't think being neutral is as good as you think it is. I appreciate that you tried looking at this from a neutral perspective to begin with, but at a certain point why wouldn't you be on my side? I'm a guy who came onto your site with one little preference and ended up being treated like crap for no reason. Are you really ok with that?

Hm, nobody understands why I might be on the defensive? Really? Wait there are only 150 daily users? Wow that is much less than I expected. I mean, arguably it could be bigger if it didn't have the problems I've brought up. Quite generous of me to take what I have from the people on here and still try to help your site, don't you think? No, Aura did not mean that. The way the day had been going I definitely could not rule it out! But I did kinda suspect that he wouldn't actually mean something like that.

Just when I thought some sunshine was finally happening, you said that last part. Surely you aren't implying that I said something stupid! I suppose if I overlook that I will say what you just said is finally what I've been looking for! In light of what you just said, can you not see how I feel as though I've been treated unfairly for no reason? I never actually said anything wrong this entire time and yet I feel like I just keep getting beaten up over and over. And nobody seemed to care this entire time. This whole time what you just said is the only time anybody has ever almost said anything vaguely positive to me on here. If that's not a problem I don't know what is. This subforum does say if something sucks then put it on here. And this is what I think sucks, so that's what I'm putting out here.

Hm, well.. I guess "staff" gets used pretty loosely around these parts. In all honesty I didn't realize that. That said I'm not sure it's a good idea to be handing out the staff designation to just anybody. But I suppose this is all fun and games, not a starbucks. Fair enough. You're right that misunderstandings happen, but do you believe that excuses the way everybody on here has been behaving? I don't. Also I can't help but feel like the 'misunderstandings' are just them seeing what they want to see so that they can bash me over the head with what I "said". That is extremely hostile and toxic. Also I can't help but find it amusing that what people accidentally thought I was saying actually turned out to be true to an extent. Ok forgive me, I'm not a mathematician, but doesn't that mean like 30 percent of females on here are actually male? Hey you know...honestly if you ask me, "don't ask don't tell." is fine by me. If you say you're a girl you're a girl. Not sure what everybody is talking about with proving anything. Obviously I can't force such a thing to happen, I was just going to go by the honor system here. This was just meant for fun, it's not a background check. I literally just wanted a female roleplayer. You don't think it's weird and unreasonable that all of this has happened over that? I can't help but feel that points to some pretty serious issues on this site.

But see, I never said that most of the women on here are men. I said that I would assume 99% of the people on here were men. Meaning it could be 100 men for every 1 woman. All of which could very well be real. I never said or meant to imply that 99% of the women on here are actually men. It would be rude to say that I agree. It would be saying that your user base is almost entirely dishonest. But it's not what I said. And I'm tired of being accused of saying things that I haven't. I mean what I say and I don't say what I don't mean. The way you guys interpret what I say has been completely wrong and I don't appreciate it. Not to mention I had to straight up endure attacks against my person for basically no reason. I think you guys should definitely work towards creating a more welcoming environment, and that's putting it lightly. I too greatly appreciate freedom of speech, but who wants to come on here to be treated like this? This is supposed to be fun and enjoyable. So I don't think this kind of toxic behavior should be allowed.

I made probably the most basic post possible, and it seems like I'm being pressured to leave the site because of it. I dunno, the whole thing doesn't sit right with me. All I did was ask that my roleplayer be female. That's it. Next thing I know, people are putting tons of words into my mouth. Like, what's going on here? Could a member of staff other than Aura please take a look at this? Seems like some of what I said (especially in the first post) was construed to be more negative than I meant...had I known then how people would take things like this I would never have said the first post the way I did. But it just doesn't sit right with me that I would be made to feel unwelcome on this site because of such a simple request. Is it wrong to ask that my RP partner be female? Honestly that's just what I'm used to! That's how I've always done it and it's just what I'm comfortable with. It has nothing to do with trying to date them or get pictures of them or anything like that. Even though a staff member put words into my mouth by suggesting it did. I find that extremely unprofessional to be honest. The thread in question: https://ecchidreams.com/roleplayer-services/private-roleplayers-bulletin/looking-for-females-to-rp-with-r2988/