So. Bit of backstory, I've been in the kink community online and irl, basically since I became an adult. I am 35. I have lots of niche kinks but there's one that I always thought was just me being bizarre. Teasing. Being teased, tricked, playfully taunted and insulted. The center of a bunch of people laughing good-naturedly. Every one of my D&D characters has the jester background.
I found the name of it yesterday. "Tantalolagnia: To enjoy teasing as sexual gratification. This may be prolonged sexual teasing or teasing in the form of insults and ribbing." I'M NOT INSANE IT HAS A NAME. If it has a name other people experience it!!! I. My mind is completely blown. Heck it even takes its name from Greek Mythology, the story of Tantalus. Greek Mythology was my very first ADHD hyper fixation and one I still land back on to this day.
Hopefully this qualifies as weird and niche enough that I'm posting in the right place, I'm new to EcchiDreams!