Introduction to Icarian's Impalpable Intricacies

Introduction

'Ello folks! Icarian here, with the list of all things I never thought I would share on the Internet. Whilst I come from a role-playing background, these boards are my first experience with actual ERP - though I feel that at this point I've amassed quite a bit of experience. I prefer to keep my role-play a bit longer than just a sentence, while still remaining in the limits of a couple paragraphs, but in general I tend to adapt the style of the people I'm playing with. As a rule of thumb, just give me something that I can bounce off from, and I'll be happy.

I think it's also worth mentioning that I don't really enjoy smut without story. In fact, I'm even hesitant when it comes to continuous/single-thread roleplays, as I tend to prefer having a bit larger foundation or a universe to keep my characters in.

The type/genre/fetish list on ED is not the greatest, so if you want to RP something that's not on the list, but is not explicitly on the 'will-not' list, feel free to ask me. I try to keep a rather comprehensive list of what I particularly enjoy below, so have a read through and tell me if there's something you like.

Disclaimer: This page gets updated every now and then. My leanings towards one preference or another can change over time, and so does this page.

About Private Roleplays

I can be pretty picky about private roleplays. I've started on this site doing exclusively public RPs, and only in the recent times started to lean into private ones, to various degrees of success. I find it that it's often difficult in those to find a direction for the plot to go, especially if it's just two characters mashing with each other, so I'm usually leaning towards more asymmetric RPs, where one side plays more of a game-master kind of role - preferably that would be you - and the other focuses more on how an individual character engages with the setting.

Feel free to hit me up if your kinks match mine well or if you have an idea you think I'd enjoy. Even if we don't end up roleplaying, I'll be happy to meet someone new

The Big No-No's
As a disclaimer, I would like to emphasize what I definitely will not engage in. Mind you, this is an emphasis, so the list on the top of the page still applies.

• Sexual content regarding minors:
  I would hope that it goes without saying, but I will most certainly not engage in any role-play that regards minors in even vaguely sexual situations. This extends to lolis, shotas, and your 2000 y-o vampire OCs that just happen to look like little girls. Just don't.
• Adult baby/Age-play, all that stuff:
  You do you. I'll stay out of that one.
• Scat, Guro, Necrophilia, Vore, Gore, Snuff
  The usual suspects. I understand that you might be into it, but it's a turn-off for me. Watersports is fine (and maybe sometimes encouraged).
• Overweight/Supersize
  Not my beauty standard.
• Force-feeding/Food play
  Another highly specific fetish that I don't get at all. Won't engage in it, won't interact with it, won't even watch it if possible.
• Cock & Balls Torture
  And most male (sexual) torture in general. Chastity is fine, but CBT is a hard limit.
• Real-life Character Faceclaims
  A bit surprising in comparison to the previous points, I know, but I'm seriously turned off if somebody uses pictures of real people as a reference for their character. When roleplaying with me, please digital artwork for faceclaims/character images. Or don't use them at all.

The A-Bit-Smaller No-No's
Not everything in this category is an instant turn-off, but these aren't the things that I particularly enjoy either. I'm willing to accept and maybe even engage in some of below, provided I enjoy and value your writing. Which I probably do if I keep playing with you. Ask first though.

• Oversized Body Parts
  No leg-sized dongs, breasts larger than your head, and so on. Keep it within reason. I'm willing to stretch the limits here a bit, but I do prefer to have at least a degree of believability in my roleplays, so unless your character is a minotaur/centaur/something similar, I'd rather they were more reasonably endowed. Same goes for female proportions.
• Badly Drawn OC Faceclaims
  If you are comfortable posting your high-school-grade OC drawings, I'm going to assume that the quality of your writing is not much better. This does not mean that I will automatically despise all artwork of your OC characters, this relates only towards artwork that is simply bad on a technical or stylistic level. (I know this is subjective)
• Roleplaying Canon Characters
  I prefer playing as and with Original Characters, especially if they are supposed to play a larger role in the roleplay or participate in lewd scenes. It's not particularly a turn-off for me, but if you do choose to play a canon character, I expect you to nail their personality and behavior.

The Oh-Yes's
A couple of things I particularly enjoy. Of course, I will gladly engage in other fetishes as well, this is rather what I particularly enjoy.

• BDSM, Humiliation, Power-Play. S/D, Loss of control
  I like my characters tied up, leashed, and paraded naked through the center of the town. To put it simply, I prefer my characters to be submissive, or to put into situations where they have to submit. I can switch, but I'm definitely most comfortable being a sub, especially in private play.
• Non-con/Dubious consent
  I'm more inclined towards the latter. For the record, I am unwilling to explore the more extreme consequences of such encounters - the trauma and emotional ramifications that would come with them - my interest in the kink comes purely from an exaggeration of the S/D and loss of control dynamics.
• Body Writing, Branding
  Hooks up to humiliation, and is one of the types of it that I particularly enjoy. Branding as a more extreme version is also quite appealing, and something I'd definitely want to try.
• BxF Beastiality, Knots
  In a fictitious scenario, beastiality with a 'consenting' beast and a (consenting or not) female is a good turn-on for me. I'm down to be stuck on a knot sometimes ^^
  • Oh, also; Eggs, spiders, insects! I'm down for a good infestation plot if you will, a delve into the vile and perverse, if you'll indulge my yearnings~
• Forced Prostitution/Free Use
  Having my characters be whored out, forced to sell their body for a couple coins is... mmm... Bonus points if they end up not getting paid in the end for some reason, or, even better, get paid with their own money. Also, using her body as a way to pay for something, or to pay off a debt- Some great ideas there.
• Gokkun/Cum play
  Being made to drink/consume cum. Obvious ties to humiliation, also works well in pet-play (in a bowl, for example *wink wink*). Also excessive amounts of cum, cum of different properties, getting filled with cum (through whichever hole)...
• "Systemic discrimination"
  Okay, hear me out... It is rather specific, but it is quite arousing for me to play... basically second-class citizens. Be it because of misogyny, racism (strongly preferred between fantasy races), or other sort of societal hierarchy, it makes me feel things when I'm being "put in my place" or ordered to do something just on the presumption of my status.

The smaller and miscellaneous kinks
A few smaller fetishes that turn me on and you can include if you want to make me happy.

• Exhibitionism/Bondage/Sex Toys/Humiliation in public areas
  Public play in general. Trying to go about one's day, constantly teased by vibrators. A ball gag hidden under a mask. Getting tied up in a side alley in a busy city. These sort of things. Consensual, non-consensual, either works. Can be tied to humiliation, doesn't have to.
• Pet-play
  No need to say it plays strongly into S/D, humiliation, and so on. If you're up to it, can be linked with beastiality, or even body modification up to a point
• Denial
  Orgasm control in various forms, edging, tie and tease, and even full chastity. For my herms/males, I also enjoy the aspect of them getting reduced to the female/receiving role in the relationship.
• Groups/Swarms
  Be it a heroine defeated by a gang of goblins, thrown into a kennel filled with horny hounds, turned into a broodmother for a swarm of bugs, or simply used by a number of people she can't even count, higher numbers are practically always better, bringing that sweet desperate sense of getting utterly overwhelmed.
• Goreless Amputees
  I'm talking stuff like robots with detachable limbs, magical body morphing/portals(?). What appeals to me in it is the aspect of losing control, not too different from bondage, just a step more extreme.
• Filth
  When I'm in the right mood, it can really hit just right. Mostly focusing on the humiliation aspect of this.

General Preferences and Disclaimers

• I tend to play mostly female and submissive characters. (If you haven't noticed already ). That said, I tend to default to characters who do not necessarily submit willingly, and need to be trained/convinced/corrupted before they actually give in.
• Keep in mind that what my character says/believes is not necessarily what I say/believe. The player != player character.
• I post very irregularly. There may be times when I write 8 posts a day, and times, where I don't reply for a week or two. If I decide to leave for longer though, I will try to let you know...
  • Buuuuut I've been pretty on and off with that, so please be patient with me. If I stop responding, please do ping me, poke me, send me an invoice, or otherwise remind me of our roleplay and how much I've been neglecting it.
• I don't really do fandom roleplays with canon characters. I most definitely will not engage in fandoms I do not know.
• Small breasts are cute.
  • I've adjusted my stance on that; All breasts are cute.
• You, yes you, the person reading this. You're a wonderful human being!