Mythra's RP preferences ( 2026 )

About "Teens (non sexual)/Minors (non sexual)": 
I RP world building. In the world, teenagers, kids, and adults all exist. I will write these characters perfectly fine.
Some of my characters will have younger siblings, or kids. I like to write interactions and develop my world, including writing side characters who might be "NPC" characters which would fall into any range of age. This is non-sexual, as it says. You can see my character selection google drive has no minors in the character selection.

About "Sex Only"
I want the bare minimum at least for an RP like this. Knowing the dynamic of our characters. Not all my ocs are compatible with all other types of characters, and for me a sex only RP is going to be boring if I don't think the characters work together. Sorry if this is picky or rude. I do not RP as myself. If you RP as yourself please at least present them like an OC to me, as I am not very comfortable with RPs that bleed the line of fiction and reality.

Guide:
- Will RP: Standard - I will write these topics or characters. 
- Will not RP: Standard - these are hard boundaries and I won't do them.
- Might RP: These are more of a "if it happens it happens".
Certain concepts I don't like the sound of, but the result of them happens naturally.
This is fine when it happens and isn't a boundary cross since I was in control of writing those reactions.

My rules are fairly simple (I think - but there are additional bullets to elaborate): 

•  don't control my character (thoughts, feelings, actions) as to me this suggests you do not think I know how to react. My characters are not just reskins of a concept, they are all different, made for different scenarios and what-not. 
   
• do not choose my character OUTSIDE OF THE POOL OF CHARACTERS I HAVE please.
  • If you are asking me to choose your character or asking me if there's a character I want you to write as for me, that is your decision.
    If you want me to choose a character that you are playing instead of making your own character, I respect that.
    I just do not like when a person tells me "I want you to play this character" and then writes up an RP starter before I even AGREE to do it (or if I have explicitly said no).I won't do that to you, do not do it to me.
    • Everyone -- including I -- has a type, I believe. A type can be visual, personality, etc. I will be open about my "type"  because I realize how it has become important to me after my poor experiences. I've started embracing more of why I love my husbandos and waifus and really value that on an emotional level (not sexually). Apologies if this is weird.
  • I do have a selection of ocs that you can choose from if you aren't coming from a specific plot I've shared, so you are free to choose from those OCs so long as they're not in the "world building" section.
    • Just understand that if you are coming from a specific CHARACTER of mine, they have personalities of their own. If a character doesn't have her personality present, it's because I am trying to update the bio and am working hard to do that. I like to think the pictures present do a good job at showcasing the personality, but I am not 100% sure.
       
•  Please don't send me IRL references for characters. I am severely uncomfortable with IRL references. 
   
•  Do not say things to me about wishing we were together cuddling, ask me if I am getting turned on by the rp, etc. 
  • This is a major boundary cross and I really hate this. I will not play along for your sake. RP is fiction, OOC talk is not. 

Note: 

• I am female, looking to write female characters with male characters.
  • I may be willing to write with a futa character. I'm not against it, not all my ocs are straight. I just have a preference for guy characters.
• I do not write ERP for sexual desires ( I am asexual    ), and I find it uncomfortable and a little distressing when people question it.
  • I know it's an oddity, please don't make it a big deal. I'm not judging you if you're writing it for different reasons than me.
  • I'm also autistic, which is probably what adds to why it's distressing for me, but my mindset it "I wouldn't judge you or probe for answers if the roles were reversed, so please don't do it to me ". Sorry if this is defensive, but it's a FAQ and I really don't like it.
• I am not active for RP every day. While I use this site daily to talk to people and post characters, I do not RP every single day. RPs can take me a long time.
  • I try not to trauma dump, so this will be brief: but I've gone through a lot of traumatic experiences involving stalking due to RP. RP has been tainted, but me writing here is me trying to not give up a hobby that I love. I tried writing with AI to "break out" of this anxiety, but AI is not very fun to RP with, it gets boring after some time. I don't know why ( it may be because responses are immediate, so I lose interest fast ).

THIS IS EXTREMELY IMPORTANT TO NOTE AND WILL MAKE OR BREAK OUR ABILITY TO RP: DO NOT FLIRT WITH ME OOC. Seriously. I seriously hate that; it gives me anxiety attacks sometimes. If I have told you to stop and you continue, I will do whatever I can to cease communications. Do not try to communicate further. PLEASE respect me. A lot of stuff has happened to me over the past several years that makes this an EXTREME CROSS OF BOUNDARIES.

Sorry if this is extreme, but I have had issues like this before and I feel very uncomfortable not having this hard boundary in writing.

Update 10/02/26: 

I am in the works with making the book I've been writing into an RP world. This is a dear universe to me with characters I bonded with strongly. The potential for NSFW content is there but I am kind of stumped too with it since the main character I have has a partner officially and I don't really imagine nsfw of the other characters x_ x

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Limits:

Though I perhaps don't need to explain this to anyone, I feel the need to share the reasons for SOME of my Don't for kinks. Over the years on here and elsewhere, people have complained about my limitations in sexual RPs and I want to clear up the air a bit.

Before I joined this site a person commented that RPing with me ( ERP ) was like 'walking on a landmine' because one day I was okay with something and the next I wasn't. This has been a feeling occurring for my entire ERP experience. There will be a time where I am okay with something, and then suddenly I find it revolting. I don't judge others for including it, but I will feel uncomfortable re-reading the RPs, and furthermore won't enjoy what I've written. Other topics involved may be a little too close for personal comfort. RP is meant to be an escapism and fun. I don't need topics hitting too close for personal comfort to be included, so I don't like writing them. Below I will go over the ones I want to clarify, as some more recent RP partners have commented on confusion with my limitations due to certain plots I have written in the past.

• Anal / Ass-related : Personally I just don't enjoy this kind of content. I used to be okay with anal but not too interested in it, but around 2020, someone disrespected my discomfort with anal and when I brought it up, they treated it like a joke - excusing their behavior because it was "adult humor". They knew my boundary with anal before this joke was made, so they knew it was an unwarranted joke and knew not to do it. Since then I have taken a major disinterest in anal, and don't write it in any form. I know not everyone will treat me  the way that person did, but it still makes me uncomfortable, and the plans or sudden force of anal reminds me of this uncomfortable situation, which teeters me away from writing nsfw rp. 
   
• Humiliation : If my character naturally feels ashamed or humiliated through the result in why she's having sex in the first place, it is fine - it was natural build up with natural response on my end, and to me this is not a boundary cross. It was not a forced feeling, simply the feeling that she would end up having. What I do not tolerate is the person I'm writing with going out of their way to humiliate my character. This hits a bit too close to home ( for non-sexual reasons ) and it makes me uncomfortable being forced to write a situation that brings me real life discomfort - I do not mind bad ends/bad states, as long as the intent of humiliation is not the main focus and I am able to freely write out how my character is feeling.  
   
• Pregnancy / impregnation : I don't like doing this content at all. If my characters get pregnant, they no longer want to have sex, and I mainly write here for the sexual RPs. I will not allow my characters to get pregnant regardless if the male character or other being cums inside her. If you're seeking someone who will go by the laws of real life, I am definitely not the person you're looking to write with. For me, cumming inside =/= impregnation. For me, the act of getting the girl pregnant enforces a romance story, even if that's not what is meant to be intended - and I simply don't want that happening in my RPs unplanned. 
  If we are doing a long  term RP where there is a major plot and starting a family is part of it, then I am of course fine with it, because that's the context of it, and it's not a sex-only RP. I am not into "breeding". 
  • Also, it's a little awkward for me to write about something that, in real life, makes me uncomfortable. I am not against women getting pregnant, I think that it can be beautiful. But I, myself, do not want to get pregnant. I am severely distressed by the idea of becoming pregnant, and when I write my RP replies, I often try to think like the character. I cannot pass the anxiety of pregnancy though, so it would be a hard stop. I only write pregnant characters in longer term stories where sex isn't a primary focus, and with specific characters.
     
• Mind-Control / hypnosis : I do not like RPs where I am not in control of my character's feelings and actions. If she is under the control of another who gives orders, I will not be enjoying the RP. For me, my characters react naturally through how I feel is best fit for their personalities. By doing things such as mind control or hypnosis, this takes away that entirely. My girls can become mindless and reliant on sex, but that is my choice led by the situations in the RPs, and often they will return to normal or at least semi-normal by the next scene. I do not make them sex slaves who are obedient for their master.
   
• Yaoi/Yuri : It is incredibly rare for me to do a futa RP but I am open to them. I say no to Yaoi because I don't write male characters for sex, only females. Any male character I write is strictly a background character or a supporting character of my OC's story. As for Yuri, I just don't care for lesbian sex - UPDATE 2026: I also am more open to sharing this, but: I have trauma surrounding this from when I was younger. So it is VERY uncomfortable for me to write. I've tried writing it before and didn't find it fun for me to write. Since I am ASEXUAL and writing ERP is about the entertainment it brings, I have to be interested in the content. As mentioned earlier, I have done futa RPs and don't necessarily mind them, I've just done MxF more than FUxF
   
• Everything else : The things not mentioned in the bullets above I just don't have any interest in writing. They are either unappealing to me or I don't know enough about them to feel comfortable or safe writing them. I do not ever want to make people feel like they're "walking through a landmine" with me, and by not really knowing or feeling interested in those topics, it will for sure trigger that landmine feeling. I'm not often comfortable telling people how they make me uncomfortable ( if they do ), so it's better to not include these topics if it can be avoided.