[UPDATING]

THIS IS EXTREMELY IMPORTANT TO NOTE AND WILL MAKE OR BREAK OUR ABILITY TO RP: 

UPDATE 2026:
sorry if it's a bit rambly, I don't really know how to write good without overexplaining and I don't want my boundaries crossed.

I basically only RP in fandoms now ( long story that I don't want to feel obligated to share ), and I feel like I may be selfish because I tend to only get really invested in my personal yumeships / oc x canon ships --- which, I know this is very unpopular because I struggle to get invested in other people's OC x Canon ships, which makes everything kind of "one sided". I grew up in a time where if someone writes your oc x canon ship, you have to write their oc x canon ship --- which for me is just really hard, because RP is hard. 

I don't RP nsfw content as much anymore because my preferred fandoms are typically not be suitable for that, to be honest. Like, my absolute FAVORITE fandom is Deltarune, but I am not going to write NSFW RP for that series even when the characters don't have confirmed ages ( I headcanon them as seniors in highschool, with Susie having been held back, so they're all 17-18 years old in my head, but STILL IN SCHOOL -- and my headcanons are based on personal experience with the game and my own life, NOT to age up underaged characters). It can be easily implied this would break the Updated ToS, and I just don't really wanna think about the characters of deltarune in an nsfw mannerism. But, I will not lie, this is my most invested fandom, I think about this game all the time, I love this game, I write for this game, deltarune is basically my major special interest as a person with autism.

I do like to write for Stardew Valley as well, which has the characters aged as adults, but frankly, I mostly like to write my OC who is shipped with a character from an NPC mod ( Mirren the Florist by SpecialAgentJonson ) -- which, since It's only one NPC in that mod, I feel like some people might consider that someone else's oc and might feel weird about it (I asked permission from the creator if I could use their mod character for my SDV lore and got the approval, but I get anxious about things like if I can commission art of that character and mine or things similarly that involve other people). I do have other SDV characters and ships, but I am not *AS* invested in those characters due to my autism powers tm homing in on my specific ship. 

I have other fandoms as well, which I will list below after the TLDR

So TLDR: my fandoms are Deltarune and Stardew Valley. But, I don't think Deltarune is appropriate for NSFW rp and I am not comfortable with that, and while I don't mind if for SDV, I think it can be a bit complicated. I would also want these RPs to be story driven, so who knows when the NSFW stuff would come around for SDV rp.

My fandoms:

• Deltarune (non-sexual, favorite fandom ever) 
• Stardew Valley
• Pokemon ( primarily just the universe; I've used canon characters in my stories before and they have naturally aged up (for story/lore reasons, passage of time) but a lot of characters were OCs and were adults, or the canon characters involved were adults ) 
• Modern Persona [3/4/5/5x] ( this is a very touch-and-go for me, and I rarely have long term interest in writing for it )
• Sonic ( non-sexual, like deltarune)
• Fire Emblem Heroes ( I know very little about FE games outside of heroes, but I love crossover rps and the potential to use my OC-ified versions of the customizable avatar characters from the games with oc creation is appealing to me )
• There may be more added h ere later, I kind of am blanking on all the fandoms rn.

Notes:

- I have some really severe depression and do not take meds for it (my personal morals are that I don't mind if others do medication for things like that, but I won't), so sometimes I vanish. It's not intentional, I sort of just accept that it might happen or it might not. I need RP partners to be understanding of this and not resentful.
- I am asexual and don't write NSFW for the arousal. For me it's pure fiction and entertainment. I am the kind of hentai watcher who just watches it like any other television program. Please do not pry into how I am feeling about an RP in THAT regard, it WILL make me uncomfortable, and I will cease interaction.
I am not bothered how you feel about the RP as long as you don't tell me about it. Like, I know what kind of RP this is, I know why a lot of people do it. But I don't want to hear about it personally, as it breaks the fictional submersion for me. Thanks for understanding. 

I may have more here later. I am writing this at a pretty low point rn so my brain is like shutting off now.

All in all, I am pretty aware I'm not an ideal RP partner. 
But, I do think I am a good writer for what it's worth, and I really like to write.

UPDATE: 
RP is fictional to me, that's how I consume RP. Since it's completely fictional, I am okay with some dark themes like non/dub-con, cheating, as well as psychological things that can or don't have to be sexual. However I am a very emotional person and if I am genuinely invested, I will feel for the characters strongly, which can hinder at reply speed.

As per the new rule about character ages, ALL of my characters are at minimum 18. I shouldn't have to tell people this but just in case, I am NOT aging them any lower than that.

Basics:

I'll keep this brief, but more or less: I am a fandom RPer who enjoys developing OC x Canon relationships. I like my RPs to be things I can go back and reference to develop my non-RP versions of these ocs. I want a long term story though I struggle with getting invested, making me procrastinate. 
 

Limits:

Though I perhaps don't need to explain this to anyone, I feel the need to share the reasons for SOME of my Don't for kinks. Over the years on here and elsewhere, people have complained about my limitations in sexual RPs and I want to clear up the air a bit.

Before I joined this site a person commented that RPing with me ( ERP ) was like 'walking on a landmine' because one day I was okay with something and the next I wasn't. This has been a feeling occurring for my entire ERP experience. There will be a time where I am okay with something, and then suddenly I find it revolting. I don't judge others for including it, but I will feel uncomfortable re-reading the RPs, and furthermore won't enjoy what I've written. Other topics involved may be a little too close for personal comfort. RP is meant to be an escapism and fun. I don't need topics hitting too close for personal comfort to be included, so I don't like writing them. Below I will go over the ones I want to clarify, as some more recent RP partners have commented on confusion with my limitations due to certain plots I have written in the past.

• Anal / Ass-related : Personally I just don't enjoy this kind of content. I used to be okay with anal but not too interested in it, but around 2020, someone disrespected my discomfort with anal and when I brought it up, they treated it like a joke - excusing their behavior because it was "adult humor". They knew my boundary with anal before this joke was made, so they knew it was an unwarranted joke and knew not to do it. Since then I have taken a major disinterest in anal, and don't write it in any form. I know not everyone will treat me  the way that person did, but it still makes me uncomfortable, and the plans or sudden force of anal reminds me of this uncomfortable situation, which teeters me away from writing nsfw rp. 
   
• Humiliation : If my character naturally feels ashamed or humiliated through the result in why she's having sex in the first place, it is fine - it was natural build up with natural response on my end, and to me this is not a boundary cross. It was not a forced feeling, simply the feeling that she would end up having. What I do not tolerate is the person I'm writing with going out of their way to humiliate my character. This hits a bit too close to home ( for non-sexual reasons ) and it makes me uncomfortable being forced to write a situation that brings me real life discomfort. I bring all this up because I have some plotlines that suggest bad ends, public sex, and other potentially humiliating scenarios - I do not mind bad ends/bad states, as long as the intent of humiliation is not the main focus and I am able to freely write out how my character is feeling.  
   
• Pregnancy / impregnation : I don't like doing this content at all. If my characters get pregnant, they no longer want to have sex, and I mainly write here for the sexual RPs. I will not allow my characters to get pregnant regardless if the male character or other being cums inside her. If you're seeking someone who will go by the laws of real life, I am definitely not the person you're looking to write with. For me, cumming inside =/= impregnation. For me, the act of getting the girl pregnant enforces a romance story, even if that's not what is meant to be intended - and I simply don't want that happening in my RPs unplanned. 
  If we are doing a long  term RP where there is a major plot and starting a family is part of it, then I am of course fine with it, because that's the context of it, and it's not a sex-only RP. I am not into "breeding". 
   
• Mind-Control / hypnosis : I do not like RPs where I am not in control of my character's feelings and actions. If she is under the control of another who gives orders, I will not be enjoying the RP. For me, my characters react naturally through how I feel is best fit for their personalities. By doing things such as mind control or hypnosis, this takes away that entirely. My girls can become mindless and reliant on sex, but that is my choice led by the situations in the RPs, and often they will return to normal or at least semi-normal by the next scene. I do not make them sex slaves who are obedient for their master.
   
• Yaoi/Yuri : It is incredibly rare for me to do a futa RP but I am open to them. I say no to Yaoi because I don't write male characters for sex, only females. Any male character I write is strictly a background character or a supporting character of my OC's story. As for Yuri, I just don't care for lesbian sex. I've tried writing it before and didn't find it fun for me to write. Since I am ASEXUAL and writing ERP is about the entertainment it brings, I have to be interested in the content. As mentioned earlier, I have done futa RPs and don't necessarily mind them, I've just done MxF more than FUxF
   
• Everything else : The things not mentioned in the bullets above I just don't have any interest in writing. They are either unappealing to me or I don't know enough about them to feel comfortable or safe writing them. I do not ever want to make people feel like they're "walking through a landmine" with me, and by not really knowing or feeling interested in those topics, it will for sure trigger that landmine feeling. I'm not often comfortable telling people how they make me uncomfortable ( if they do ), so it's better to not include these topics if it can be avoided.