Starting rough(ish) sex with my fwb

[Maddie Banned]

So I don't have a ton of sexual experience but I do have more than my fwb.  I want to start exploring kink with her but I'm not sure how to approach it.

I would like to start pulling her hair, spanking, biting, pinning her down etc. Is this something I can just do gently when we hookup or should we have a convo?

[Moon Hound Hati]

Communication is important, so you should talk to her about it first, explaining that you want to explore some new things and see if she's ok with them before you try them out together.