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Hello there, Yes that is a feature here; you can post up images of your roleplay characters for private roleplays in the gallery, of which you can add a character ID for in the image descriptions one you've uploaded them. The specific area is: https://ecchidreams.com/gallery/category/28-roleplay-characters/ I hope that helps.
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off the cuff Administrator Rambles: Some things that need to be said
Tema commented on Tema's news article in News and Announcements
Not at all, Lollipop, I wanted the feedback, and I wanted people to put up how they feel about things, like you did. You're absolutely right to post what you posted up, there's nothing wrong with it at all. Thank you for sharing it. I think it's big of you to apologise for your part in the month of antics and so forth and I'm glad to hear that you're working on it. I would love to see a more positive you on this forum because I know you're capable of being nice, Whoreo. You're also capable of being extremely smart and helpful when you want to be. I am glad to hear that your conflict with Xeno is still over, and that you've not sparked it back up. Kudos to both of you. I know you're absolutely not going to get along with absolutely everyone, but as you said, you're going to try and find a more constructive way of dealing with it. I wish you luck on that task. But I will point out that your antics only makes up for like less than 2% of whats been going on around here over the last few months, so don't feel you be shouldering the majority of the blame. ... Although this isn't really a blame article either. Thank you, though. I look forward to seeing you move past your irritabilities and try to focus on more positive stuff. -
off the cuff Administrator Rambles: Some things that need to be said
Tema commented on Tema's news article in News and Announcements
Just a few things: I've updated the miscellaneous section as I had forgotten to add something, "Just because other sites and platforms allow you to do X, doesn't mean we should, could, or do..." It's a bit of a rough read and a wall of text but I appreciate the time that people have taken and engaged with this post and I also appreciate the feedback. Thank you, everyone. I will add in a more positive news at least, is the amount of section 18 violations of posting drawn depictions of minors on the site has had a sharp decrease, and I thank you all for that. I will respond to people below: This is partly why I am on LoA at the moment, so I can sympathise. Granted though a major part of why I am on LoA is because I have a lot of IRL obligations and stuff that I need to take care of, and it's gotten me bogged down, but I used to enjoy coming back on here after a hard days work and just read some of the discussions and stuff that was going on around the site. Maybe even stick my oar in the water and row my own little boat in the flow of conversation, and the such. Now I'm worried about the sharks that are going to bite my oar off. I get it. Lock down fever is real, it's like cabin fever, people are going stir crazy. But I think this is why we need to be a little bit more understanding and compassionate. No, and it is very easy to allow the negative (Even if it is in small minute quantities) to outweigh the positives. I agree. Please be aware that I only put what I put from a personal perspective, you're free to carry on in your statuses, but perhaps a compromise: if you're going to be doing shit like - well, shit play, then could you please possibly tag it, or warn others that, this is what's going to happen? I'm not saying you absolutely should do this and you'll be banned otherwise, but it's a suggestion that I've seen from @ThatLewdCat and I think it's a reasonable compromise. It's something to consider, and again, it's not enforced, nor will it be enforced at least in the foreseeable future. No worries, man. Despite my personal views on it, you're not banned from roleplaying it. What you consenting adults get up to, is not really any of my business. I can understand it from both sides, I really can. Perhaps that's all this should have been. Just five simple words: Please stop being a dick. But you're pretty much right there. Also: Exactly this. At one point a few weeks ago, every time I'd wake up in the morning and sit in front of my computer with a steaming hot cup of coffee, and waking up (I'm not a morning person, at all) I'd come on and find an ass-load of notifications and reports in the report centre. "Oh well, suck it up. That's part of running a site, that's the responsibility you took on.", Right? Well fair enough. But most of it was un-actionable and stems from drama that was going on all over the place, personal disagreements, and the like. Sometimes there would be no reports and a shit load of drama going down. Seriously surprised it hasn't sparked up a cottage industry of someone doing EcchiDreams Drama News videos or something. xD It got to the point that by the time I'd finished, I needed a new cup of coffee, because my hot cup would be cold by the time I got to it. That makes me a very unhappy administrator... Well until I get a fresh cup of 'wake the fuck up'. Problem is, what an individual defines as "patently wrong and hurtful stuff" is not going to be the same as what other people define it as, but to be fair, that's probably a debate in its own right. I'm not really one who likes to "Debate" as such, especially with people I've hardly ever spoken to before. To conversate with someone I disagree with, even at a fundamental level, I have enjoyed doing in the past with reasonable people who want to have that conversation, but a conversation is a lot different to a debate - to me anyway - a conversation is a lot less formal. I almost never do it online though, because I find speaking to the person face to face to just be better for both sides. But I get what you're saying and I understand where you're coming from. You see something that you believe is absolutely false, and you want to say something about it. No one can begrudge you of that. It's just were things start going off the rails, that I'm concerned about. You're absolutely entitled to your own political beliefs, just as everyone else is to theirs. It is a very small minority of interactions to be fair. You are right though its an adult community, and it's certain subjects that are turning people against each other, totally spot on. To some degree I agree with the statement that real wolf stuff should probably be left at the proverbial door, but I wouldn't make it a rule, because I often find that blanket rules like that tend to sweep up innocent conversation like for example; what if a Dreamer wanted feedback and advice about what colour to paint their new orgy-sex room or something like that? I dunno. Just tossing that one out there. xD But you would - I think - be in the majority of Dreamers, who use our site to delve into fantasy and escape the bullshit that is going on IRL right now. That is pretty much why the site was created in the first place, because four friends wanted to roleplay somewhere to get away from IRL crap, and other sites were not very good at the time. But I absolutely agree with your last statement. Indeed; united we stand, divided we fall. Thank you again, for everyone's replies. I'm going to give you all love reacts. It was nice waking up to this, but my coffee has gone cold again... Yet strangely I'm not annoyed about it. Still going to get a refreshed coffee though. Oh yeah, and I had no idea that I could highlight "Recommended" comments until yesterday. That was a surprise even to me. Not sure if I should be concerned that I didn't know a feature existed, or amazed. Thanks IPS. xD -
off the cuff Administrator Rambles: Some things that need to be said
Tema posted a news article in News and Announcements
My statement regarding recent events on EcchiDreams... This probably isn't going to age well, because I think with what's going on in the world right now, we're experiencing some very frayed mental states after being locked down for so long and having lives changed because of pandemic. Now; I realise that this is an extreme minority of people that is causing the majority of the problems, so if you're just trying to do your thing, then please carry on, and I am sorry that this post was necessary. Who knows, this post might have absolutely no meaning in a years time and we'll all look back on it and say "Ah yes, that was a bit of an embarrassing period, oh how we've gotten better since then. I don't even know why I hated X." Ha. One can hope. I know that Aura has put up a status in regards to some of the recent firestorm that's been going on here over the last few days, yesterday. It's honestly quite well worth the read, because he's right on quite a lot of points, especially when it comes to issues of what's being posted on here. There are other statues made by other dreamers on the various subjects that I will be covering in this, and people who have posted replies to those statuses that I want to address directly as well. But this has been building up, and there's a few things I've noticed over the last month or so. Firstly; we are all supposed to be adults, but we are also all human, and all make mistakes. Not a single one of us can claim that we're perfect, unless it's perfectly imperfect. It is a shame that no one has apparently read my recent news article where I said: Read more: EcchiDreams Newsletter (April 2020) Political Activism on EcchiDreams EcchiDreams should not a place where you do your political activism. Should doesn't mean that it's against the rules, and absolutely not allowed by the way. Politics has become so highly charged and polarised over the last decade and it's not showing signs of stopping this trend any time soon. If you are one side of the political spectrum and you're doing your political activism here, you can expect someone on the other-side to do their political activism on here too, and this is where things are going to go tits up very quickly, because seldom can one side respect another sides personal or political views and not get branded every buzzword under the sun, "Racist, Sexist, Cuck, Simp, Facist, Commie" etc, etc... Even what might seem like a politically neutral or a politically universal statement can be twisted into proof that you're an X, Y and Z. Which is extemely unfortunate, because everyone is going to have different opinions or view points. Just because it doesn't match up to yours or your purity tests, doesn't mean that, that person is sub-human or not even worth talking to. Just agree to disagree and move on. As I keep saying: We're not going to stop you from discussing politics here on EcchiDreams, however my advice is to do so in EcchiTexts or something. Whilst political opinions are allowed to be discussed openly by nature of Section 15 (Freedom of Speech; so long as it doesn't violate the universal rights of another person) just be aware of what you're getting yourself into by sharing your political views, and that other people on the site might not want to hear them, for one reason or another, or have opposing views that they're going to share... If you can't take it, don't dish it out, but ultimately that is your choice to make, not ours to make it for you. And I stand by that. I do not think it's feasible to outright ban political discussion on EcchiDreams even if I "personally" wanted to, which I don't despite how divisive it is and how it's causing more problems than it's worth because just about everything can be turned into a political matter. Political activism that bullies others no matter which side of the political spectrum you're on isn't really against the rules on the face of it, but don't expect it to be tolerated (on a social level) here. Free Speech does indeed have social consequences, yes, but to start an harassment campaign on the other hand is against the Terms of Service. If you can't handle it, ignore the Dreamer in question and move on. Stay ignoring them and don't use it as a shield to hurl abuse and harassment at them, we will be working on the Terms of Service to cover this in future. Note to those who have been a victim to this: Due to the nature of our Terms of Service, we can't retroactively punish people for a rule that didn't exist when the offence was committed. Which is why we are trying to work on this as quickly as possible. I will also say that we've had a number of reports about political stuff being posted in statues, but we're not going to do anything about it. At the end of the say what people post in their statuses, is their business, and it's allowed so long as they're not actively calling for the violation of someone or a groups universal rights, we won't do anything about it. Free Speech on EcchiDreams We prided ourselves that we've had free speech on this platform for a long time, and that people have been able to say what they want (So long as it isn't a violation of someone elses universal rights) and they've chosen to use this to spread positivism and happiness without being compelled to. Compelled speech is not free speech, that is you being forced to say something that you don't think is true, as if you don't have a free-thinking mind, and that to me, can be just as bad as censorship, because you're not allowed your own opinion, and you have to say what the other person wants to hear because of their sensibilities and apparently yours can go fuck itself. You're not going to agree with everything you read on here, hell I don't agree with half of the things that goes on here, especially when it comes to roleplaying certain subjects, or certain political opinions that are spouted as gospel, and if you stray from that path you're a heretic that must be struck down. Free Speech doesn't mean freedom to post what you want without social consequences, even if it doesn't violate the rules. But there's a fine line between voicing your disagreement (Which you have a right to do) and harassing that person for it (Which you don't have the right to do). There are options if you don't like what you're reading and you don't want to cast your opinion: Roll your eyes, stop reading and move on. Literally ignore them. Ignore them through the ignore system (https://ecchidreams.com/ignore) Although I am aware that it doesn't block their statuses from appearing in the activity feed. The mitigation for that is to make your own activity feed that you have a bit more control over what is on it and what isn't, you can block statuses from appearing on it for example full stop (https://ecchidreams.com/discover/?do=create) or create an activity feed containing content of people you follow only. If you want to post your opinions, then again be aware of what you might be getting yourself into, and feel free. If you're respectful and courteous and the other person descends into insults and chaos, everyone will see that and it will say more about that person than it does about you. Or set up a blanket policy for yourself that you won't talk about certain subjects, I do, and I try to stick by it nowerdays. For example, I am religious, yet I don't feel the need to constantly bring it up and tell everything to seek the path of the divines and all that jazz. However you want to deal with it, is ultimately up to you, but please recognise when the right time to pull away is. Roleplays in Statuses The same thing I said about political posts applies here too: we've had a number of reports about people roleplaying in statues, but we're not going to do anything about it. At the end of the say what people post in their statuses, is their business, and it's allowed so long as... you get the point. I don't personally like it, but my feelings on the matter doesn't matter, because it's not against the Terms of Service, and just because I'm one of the Community Administrators, and I don't like it, it doesn't mean I'm going to stop it. I would *personally* prefer that roleplays were done in the designated areas, but that's not going to be enforced. If you prefer roleplaying in your statuses then be my guest, I guess. However don't rail topics on the forums with it, especially where it's not called for - such an example is the Lets be Honest about Sex topic where I actually moved a lot of that and other off topic posts to Ecchia's Collection of Off-Topic posts. To which I issued a polite notice and have been happy that it's not happened again. Now; I completely understand the argument of not wanting to read scat stuff. Personally I think it's absolutely fucking nasty, but I rather think that when someone says (And I am literally quoting here): That it really doesn't take a big brained genius to figure out where that's going. If you're uncomfortable with it, then it's probably best to just leave them to it, and ignore it. Individual replies as far as I am aware don't appear in the activity feed, unless it's under the direct status and even then it's only the last few replies, so I really don't see the problem here. We did once have a system before the clubs where roleplays took place in forums where if you were doing a side story you had to tag the subjects that would be touched upon such as (For example) Rape, Drugged, BDSM, etc. Or if it had particularly extreme content to state it in the opening post "This topic contains: Scat - if you don't want to read it, don't.", for example. This is a little difficult with statuses, granted, but not impossible, and again - not enforced. I would also ask for some consistency, if you're going to bemoan someone from doing X, and yet when its your friends that are doing it, you don't utter a single word... That, that comes off as extremely hypocritical and therefore it shouldn't come off as a surprise when you're called out on that. I've seen this happen about four or five times in different areas this year and I figured it was right to put this in here. Inconsolable Disagreements with Other Dreamers We are not always going to see eye to eye, we're a wide range of people from a very wide range of different backgrounds, we have everything from people who are unemployed to people who work in professional careers on here. I know of Dreamers who in their day jobs they're solicitors, programmers, doctors, police and security, fire fighters, business owners and so on, I also know that there are a few who work retail like supermarkets, fast-food chains, and so on as well as people who are unemployed and both looking and not looking for work, disabled and otherwise. I've found that some of you are on some kind of autistic spectrum, or have some other mental issue that affects you, but none of this... Not any single difference I've pointed out is an excuse to act like an absolute narcissistic arsehole and cause other people, trouble. But at the same time I would ask that everyone is mindful of this. It's therefore not difficult to realise that a number of people here are going to have wildly different political views, and some even polar opposite. It's my experience here that most people are either Centrist in their views, or more right-learning, but there are also more left-leaning people and (I say this from a very centrist point of view), outright far-left and far-right views, although the latter two are very fringe on here. There is also going to be a wild difference of opinion on what is and isn't acceptable. What is and isn't acceptable is largely laid out in the Terms of Service, it's not perfect - because it was created by humans who aren't perfect. But we work on it, and update it as and when it's absolutely required, and we generally inform the users when it's been updated and what sections have been updated. What I don't like seeing is when these differences pop up and people start getting blocked is to then go out of ones way to contact that person that's been blocked to start shit with them and then use the blocking as a shield to prevent them from saying "Excuse me, could you not contact me anymore, please?" We're going to be tweaking or putting into policy ways of dealing with this abuse as I stated earlier, but it's going to take us a little time. If you don't like another Dreamer to such an extent, then ignore them (Either literally or by the systems in place) and put them out of your mind. Otherwise they're living rent-free in your head, which is not good for you or your mental health. We are all here because we have something in common. Just because we don't agree to everything doesn't mean we can't have fun in the one thing that we have in common. I wish we could just leave our differences with each other at the proverbial door, and just get on like adults, but increasingly it's becoming apparent that not everyone seems to be capable of this which is why these systems are in place. Miscellaneous Some other things that I wanted to point out that don't need entire paragraphs: You are not allowed to ban specific people from posting on your topics, and I don't know where the idea that you could do this has come from. Even if you've told the person to stop contacting you, and they post on your topic to take part in the topic without addressing you, that's perfectly allowed under the Terms of Service. Pictures of real life minors are not accepted on this site, or it's discord server. There is literally no excuse why you should be posting up pictures of real life children/teenagers under 18, on this site. Please read Section 18 of the Terms of Service. The Tag System is not supposed to be abused to put in your hate towards other people, or enforcing authoritarian standards. The tag system is used to describe the content of which is tagged so that it can be easily searchable, tags that fail to do this will be removed at a staff members discretion. You are not allowed duplicate accounts on here, if we're absolutely sure you're duplicate accounting, we will take action. If we suspect we will be keeping a very close eye on your account(s) and collect evidence. We make this very clear on the registration page, and we also make this very clear in the Terms of Service. The excuse of "I wanted multiple personas and accounts to reflect my different characters" isn't going to wash. Although we do have a feature coming up that will satisfy the apparent demand for this. GIFs are not allowed on the Gallery (/gallery/) This is something that is clearly stated in the categories of the gallery. Just because other sites and platforms allow you to do X, doesn't mean we should, could, or do. You should read the Terms of Service. I bet we do things that other platforms and sites don't do. It's not their responsibility to make their platform like ours, and it's not our responsibility to make ours like theirs. Different sites have different rules, and procedures, don't like it? Well, we're a private entity and we can do what we like (Within the bounds of the law) including dictate our own polices, so... yeah. You're free to make suggestions by all means, but when you're caught out on bad behaviour; the excuse, that's been used time and time again of "I'm allowed to do this on (Some other website)." Is not going to wash, has never washed, and frankly it's immaterial. Closing Thoughts/TL;DR Look. I would like you guys to make more of an effort to get on with each other. If you can't do that you should just ignore (or literally ignore) the other Dreamer in question and just move on, don't keep making things hostile after doing so because that's not ignoring them. I'm not going to force you all to play nice, but the time has come where I have to put my open my mouth (Or in this case move my fingers and press a few buttons) to say 'Stop. Enough is enough. Act your age.' We've had a lot of people over the last month deactivate their accounts, and I can see why from the reasons that they've left, and can't blame them. Because it's becoming a very hostile environment, where your not allowed to even voice your opinions on anything without the bullying. Because that is what it comes down to: Bullying. You can disagree with peoples opinions and that's fine, and social consequences and all of that, but at the same time there needs to be line drawn somewhere. If you disagree with me to the point that you want to close your account then by all means do so. But this is not what EcchiDreams is supposed to be, granted it's not supposed to be a safe-space echo chamber either, but why can't we have disagreements and still act like adults? I want to hope that you can do this, but over the last month or so, I'm not so sure that some of you really can, and ultimately... That's disappointing. I want things to change. I want things to get better. But importantly, I want you all to stay safe and take care. Lots of love (Because, yes, I am capable of that), Temaelrin P.s. Feel free to comment on this article, comments are open below as always.- 15 comments
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Hello fellow Dreamers, Before I get stuck into this, there's an apology in order. I'm sorry that the last update news was way back in March of last year. I assure you that this isn't intentional, and we've not really gone anywhere either. We're still as busy as ever. But I'm going to try harder to keep everyone in the loop about everything that is going on here. I've decided to present these as newsletters, that I want to start releasing more frequently perhaps, I don't know. It's a new format I'm trying out. This announcement will cover: A message from the Community Administrators to everyone about the current pandemic The recent EcchiDreams Folding@Home Event against COVID-19 The situation with Politics on EcchiDreams and it's Discord UK's Draconian Age Verification on Indefinite Hold Changes to Section 18 violation enforcement Removal of Politics from EcchiDreams Promotion of Dreamer Content under "Our Picks" Welcome Pack Staff Applications Feature Updates Mood System Overhaul Upcoming Features Profile Items Profile Enhancements Roll the Dice! A message from the Community Administrators We understand the community’s current concern regarding the COVID-19 situation, and even share those concerns. Whatever the outcome, come the end of the year, few of us are going to be the same again. It is going to test each and every single one of us in ways we never thought possible, if it has not done so already. Like yourselves, we are worried about our families, our friends, neighbours as well as all of you, the Dreamers of this awesome community. Some of the stories we've heard from Dreamers (some public, some privately via EcchiTexts/DMs on Discord, and so on) has been truly heartbreaking, and our thoughts are with you and your families during this difficult time. It is extremely important right now, in a time were we must remain apart, that we must come together in spirit. Now more than ever, we need to bring comfort and love to help and support each other. EcchiDreams is absolutely here to escape from what's going on in the real world, and to try and keep you preoccupied during the lockdown that has been instituted by various countries. We are staying absolutely free of charge to use, and are going out of our way to make sure that our virtual doors remain literally open. We, as a community need to be understanding to those who may be affected by the isolation and the lockdown, as it is likely to start driving people stir crazy. To that end: as of the 21st April 2020, Neptune and I have asked the staff to relax a little on the enforcement of punishments when it comes to violation of minor rules on the site. This does not mean a consequence free free-for-all, but for minor offences content will likely be removed, offenders served a polite notice and no further action taken. This doesn't apply to repeat violations of the same offence, Section 8 or various serious violations. We ask that you remain understanding if you get such a notice, and to not take advantage of this. We are not giving up, and neither should you. We hope none of you catch this virus, obviously. Your first priority is to stay healthy and follow your Government's advice, guidelines, apply some common sense if you get crazy advice, and of course laws. Just know that we're here for you, as a community. The recent EcchiDreams Folding@Home Event against COVID-19 As many of you might be aware, EcchiDreams recently hosted a Folding@Home event in which: @Peculiarity, @Manni, @Alexander Bodide, @Neptune, @Rucio, @Sunstone, @Kerzin Kalamond, @Elena Ichinomiya, @Avengalyne, @Mr.X, @nicjomo, @Lawless Lawyer, and I all pulled together with our computers to sacrifice our CPU and GPU cycles, to help the Folding@Home project in their fight against COVID-19. This also means that everyone sacrificed their comfort when their computers started getting warm, their sanity, because playing games on them was out of the question, all during a lockdown with nothing else to do for 14 straight days. Some of them couldn't even use their computers, full stop. For that I can only say thank you! As a Team we contributed 29,481,528 points worth of credit and 1337 work units to the project. Woo! Go Team EcchiDreams! Nearly 400,000 EcchiCredits were dished out as reward and, because of the success during this event, the 'Rave Blob' reaction and mood was introduced to EcchiDreams. I am extremely touched that there was such a response to this event, and I salute you all for taking part. Each and every single one of you. This brings me to my point that when we work together - we can achieve something. This is exactly why we should all stick together as a community, despite our differences. We all have things in common, and it takes guts to celebrate those similarities, and tolerate the differences. UK's Draconian Age Verification on Indefinite Hold In the last article, I spoke about the UK Government's ill-thought out desire to make it so that every porn/adult themed website on the internet. Most of the article is moot and invalid now, but there are still some highly critical pieces of what I think about the UK's direction when it comes to personal freedoms and liberties, especially online, which is why I have not taken down the article. You'll be pleased to know that as of October 2019 - the UK Government decided to scrap the idea, after repeated delays to implement it, and good. I think it should never see the light of day, ever again, certainly not in its current incarnation. I don't want to get too political so I'll leave it there as an update to the saga. Changes to Section 18 violation enforcement Some of you may have noticed that over the last few months we've been trailing out a new system to inform people of Section 18 Violating Content. This system replaced the previous which issued out first time warnings to people who posted this type of content on EcchiDreams. The feedback we got was that despite the fact that it was a 0 point "First Time Offence" that it was heavy handed. So we tried out a new system, a new method of dealing with it: When someone posts offending content up, we delete it, and send them a notice saying what was deleted, why it was deleted and how to avoid making the same mistake in future, with the flowchart. The first time is not a warnable offence, it's merely a "This is the situation, this isn't allowed, we've deleted, please follow these guidelines to help prevent this in future". The second time it happens, is when the first time warning starts becoming a thing. Although really we've seen a drastic drop in these kinds of offences after the polite notice, to near zero. As in we've hardly warned anyone for it since. It's not perfect. This seems - on the most part - to be better received. Although there is no unifying template that all the staff use for these messages, it's something that we're still working on. Each of the staff have their own templates based on circumstances which are modified to fit the situation. We're working on perfecting it, and we're going to set this new way of dealing with it - as official policy. Therefore it's no longer in the trial stages, it's going to become the way in which we deal with it. Removal of Politics from EcchiDreams In response to demand from quite a number of Dreamers, the Politics Channel has been removed from the Discord server, and the forum has been removed from EcchiDreams all together. This decision wasn't mine alone, but it has received an overwhelmingly positive response. Because it causes more problems than it's worth, and with how polarising it is, the amount of drama it has caused and so on... We're not going to stop you from discussing politics, but my advice is to do so in EcchiText's or something. Whilst political opinions are allowed to be discussed openly by nature of Section 15 (Freedom of Speech; so long as it doesn't violate the universal rights of another person) just be aware of what you're getting yourself into by sharing your political views, and that other people in the chat might not want to hear them... That is your choice to make, not ours to make it for you. On the forums we recommend using the Random Chat Chat, and use the tags to tag it as political, that way people can decide whether or not they want to view that content or not. Really, one could argue whether EcchiDreams is really the place to get an informed political debate. Probably not. Promotion of Dreamer Content under "Our Picks" You may have noticed that I have started promoting content written by other Dreamers to the "Our Picks" section on EcchiDreams, which is also shown on the homepage. It serves as a promotion of good quality content that is on our site, reviews, news articles and so on. Dreamers who write something that appears under "Our Picks" will get an EcchiCredit award, and later down the line an actual trophy for their profile. So if you write good content, it could be a good way to expose it to the rest of the site and be recognised for it at the same time. We could expand this over time to allow other Dreamers to vote for the content that they want to see promoted. What counts as content that is eligible to promotion in this system? Well this isn't concrete or set in stone. Perhaps we're going to want a clear set of standards as to what gets promoted, in the future such as "no txt spk lyk dis" or somewhat passable grammar or what have you. Anyway, I'm putting it you guys to see what you think on the subject matter, and I'd be fascinated to read your comments. Welcome Pack If you had noticed that under every welcome topic, I was practically replying with the same template after saying my personalised bit, then you weren't alone. We noticed this and it came off as a bit impersonal, and repetitive. The welcome guide passes on a lot more information that what I was doing before, and gives people a very good run down of the community as a whole. All in all we see this as quite successful, although we can make improvements to it over time. You can view the guide yourself here: And if you have any suggestions, comments, or feedback for it, we'd be interested in hearing them. Staff Applications EcchiDreams has not looked into bringing in new staff since 2018, but in just two short years we've grown pretty wildly, with over a hundred active people per day. It has been crazy how far this site has come in a very short time. We would like to bring two more people into the moderating mix, to help us serve the community better. Of course, this position is completely voluntary (not even the Community Administrators are being paid for their roles), any money generated by the adverts are put straight back into keeping the site up and supplementing for server and licencing costs; the rest comes out of the Community Administrators pocket. Other staff aren't asked to help with the upkeep at all, either. It's not something we could ever, in good faith, request. This application will close on July 1st 2020, those that are picked will be asked to read and accept the Staff Policy Agreement by the 6th July 2020. It is important that you read below in its entirety. You have to have: A content count of at least 100 A reputation count of at least 150 Have been registered for more than 60 days Be 21 years old or older Be in the Dreamer, Gold Dreamer and/or Platinum Dreamer user group. Don't be offended if the application gets rejected, as it goes up to a staff vote later down the line. If we've not had enough suitable applicants, chances are it could be extended past the deadline. Primarily we'd want someone to tick as many - or better yet all - of the requirements as possible, and secondarily we would want English speakers, who can type English fluently and be somewhat competent in their grammar. Feature Updates We've kept various applications and modules up-to-date a per our responsibility to keep in line with bug fixes as well as security flaw patching. I accept that there are some quirks of EcchiDreams that don't always work right, but usually we get these bugs fixed depending on severity. There is still a bug bounty program in effect, and we welcome all reports, it lets us know that there is a problem and you get EcchiCredits for it. It's win, win. Mood System Overhaul We previously had 18 mood icons to express your mood to the world. Sure you could write whatever custom text you wanted in it, but there was a bit of a lack of choice. We've had a few suggestions over the years asking us to add more to it, and back in December we brought it up at a staff meeting, and agreed that we could totally do that, and upgrade the icons whilst we were at it. During the process, I kind of teased it, and we were asked to leave "Waffle Time" in there. We did. You can thank @SMFoxy for that one. Now you can express yourself even better than ever before with the mood system overhaul. We went from 18 icons to over 110. You can still write in what you want, but you have more range to pick the icons that better reflect your mood. Since the Folding@Home event, we also put in the Raving Blob. It is the biggest overhaul of the system since it first appeared on EcchiDreams a few years ago, and we're quite proud of it. Upcoming Features We don't normally like talking about upcoming features because there is a chance that things might not be implemented due to technical reasons, or implementation sucks, and what have you. But I wanted to share some upcoming features this time that I hope to have implemented by the end of the year. Profile Items To help you spend your EcchiCredits, we're looking at greatly increasing the range of items you can buy in the EcchiStore. These are 'Profile Items' that you can buy for yourself, or gift to other Dreamers. The feature works, and it works very well, however... The only problem I have with it right now is that I don't have any idea what kind of items to include, what kind of icons to use, or anything of the sort. It's something I'm going to be working with the staff on over the next few weeks/months but any help from the community, any ideas, would be extremely welcome. We will most likely have to licence the images that we use, which is not a problem. The forum icons, and the icons used in the dashboard are such icons that we've purchased a licence to use. Profile Enhancements Everyone on EcchiDreams is looking for different things. For example, some of you are only here for ERP's, some of you are only here for deep, long term storytelling roleplays, some don't want to roleplay - you want to take part in the community as a whole, and some just want to lurk. Well, what I'm hoping to do is allow the Dreamer to set this preference as part of their profile, as well as a few other things that might be helpful, such as a "Am I taking on new roleplays right now?" kind of thing, perhaps. The idea is that you'd be able to search this using our search system, to find someone who is after the same thing you're after. Although there is a debate going on about if we should allow the searching by Gender/Sexuality as well. I personally don't think it should matter what gender or sexuality the actual roleplayer is, if a male is happy to roleplay a female, or a straight person is happy to roleplay Yaoi/Yuri, why does it matter? But as we've seen, there are quite a few roleplayers who actually seem to care a great deal about these kinds of things. This can be implemented quite quickly, but not in a format that I'm too happy with, and it's something I'm trying to work on and finalise. I'd rather have it looked polished and working, than for it to look like it's working and barely functional. Roll the Dice! We're thinking about introducing a feature that will allow roleplayers to make dice based roles for a more D&D like roleplaying experience. These dice would be "Thrown" upon posting in a topic. Right now the code is largely untested, and very much in alpha stages, pending tests, so we don't actually know if it works or not. Or if it even works for the clubs or not. It is likely that the first iteration of this will be extremely basic, and therefore something that we can build and improve on later down the line. Lets us know what you think about that one! Image Source: 士由(シユ) (Pixiv Account Deleted) This was just the kind of neutral picture that I wanted for the announcement. It screamed "It's Spring Time" and "It's going to be a warm one!" to me, which spring here in the UK started off with a spring time heatwave. So it felt appropriate. It's got a vibrant picture, and I think that right now people could use a little vibrancey to brighten up their lives. The artist is quite talented at doing landscape art and I want to promote their work for more people to seem unfortunately they appear to have deleted their Pixiv account. If anyone knows if the artist is operating under a different name or alt Pixiv account let me know, and I'll happily link it. It's a very well done picture and I for one would love to see more of their work.
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Audio Gear: The stuff music comes out of!
Tema replied to Manni's topic in EcchiDreams' Music and Audio Club's Topics
I am extremely fond of the HiFiMan's HE500 headphones, that are driven by my Mini-I Pro Matrix DAC. The only problem I have the DAC is that the screen on the front has some kind of burn in problem where the used pixels are dimmer than the unused pixels. An obvious preventative measure for this would have been to have a time out if nothing changes on the screen after 10 seconds or something. I hardly ever look at it anyway. But it's remote controlled which is useful, when I hadn't lost the remote, too. -
Music: The Stuff We Listen To!
Tema replied to Manni's topic in EcchiDreams' Music and Audio Club's Topics
Oof, no one posted since 2017? Let me fix that. I listen to a wide range of music really, although I am still quite picky. I like a few bands that are pretty obscure, that almost no one has heard of, and there are some more mainstream bands which more people would have heard of. Here are the names of some metal bands that I quite like, in no particular order. Lacuna Coil - An Italian band that I've been listening to since ~2003, with their song "Swamped" which was on an advert, on the Horror Channel. I used a music recognition service to try and find out who sung it - and found nothing. It took several listens, and a lot of Googling to find them and in the end, I landed upon their Comalies album on an online music store. I purchased it and eagerly awaited 2 weeks for its arrival in the post. Once I got my hands on it, I listened to every single song and fell in love with the band, and the powerful music. It was unlike anything I had ever listened to in my life. This started me down the path for this kind of music. Although I dare say that in recent years I've not really been overly keen on their their newer music, they will always have a special place in my heart for their older stuff. Some of my favourite tracks by Lacuna Coil are: Swamped, Our Truth, Soul Inmate, I Like It, Hyperfast, Circle, 1.19, Delirium, Take Me Home, etc. Lindemann - Is a kind of spin off from Rammstein, it's a kind of project from what I can tell by Till Lindemann, and Peter Tägtgren (Of Hypocrisy and PAIN). It's kind of a mash up between the two bands really, and I quite like their risque songs. I mean you only need to take a look at the video's "Praise Abort", "Fish On" and the uncensored videos of "Knebel" and "Platz Eins" to get where I'm coming from there. I absolutely love Till Lindemann's vocals, which I feel suit this kind of music quite well. I quite like: Stef Auf, Skills in Pills, Gummi, Platz Eins, Knebel, Fish On, and Lady Boy. Rammstein - I've been listening to Rammstein music since 2004, and I wouldn't look back. I became acquainted with them with their song "Sonne" and despite almost all of their songs being in German, and me not understanding a single word of it (And promptly giggling when I looked up a translation of the lyrics) I liked what they had to offer, and I kept finding myself listening to their music, always making sure it was on my iPod/MP3 players. Favourite songs are stuff like: Sonne, Mein Land, Amerika, Ich Tu Dir Weh, Radio, Mann Gegen Mann and well... Several others. Ignea - This is a very recent favourite of mine, and so far I quite like all of their music. I became acquainted to them in ~2018, with one of their best songs ever, "Alga!". They're a "DIY"/Independant (No Record Company/Self Publishing) band from Ukraine, that sing mostly in English. In my opinion they're an extremely underrated band. They are awesome to their fans as well. I've spoken to them several times and they seem like pretty chill people to be honest, and most of them are from the IT background as a day job, which I highly respect! I highly recommend checking them out, some of my favourite songs from them are Jinnslammer, Black Flame, Disenchanted, Alga, Planet War and Sputnik. I purchased their latest album and asked them if they would be willing to send me FLAC files of what I purchased. They not only did that for everyone, but gave everyone the option to grab their lossless "WAV" files too. Now that's a band that cares about their fans! Nightwish - I became introduced to Nightwish in 2004 through their song 'Nemo', although that was the only song I actually knew of them, and it'd be on a UK Metal TV Programme called Scuzz (If I recall correctly). Eventually I went searching online for their albums, and found "Once" which I purchased and started listening to when I got it. Like Lacuna Coil, I liked each and every single track on there, and found myself listening to it repeatedly. However after Nightwish dropped Tarja Turunen, I've found that (In my honest and personal opinion) their music quickly declined, and I lost a lot of love for them. Listening to their older stuff, I'd find that there would be two or three songs from their older albums that I'd like but it seems to me that very much - Once was their peak. Some of my favourite songs by them are: I Wish I Had An Angel, The Siren, Dark Chest of Wonders, Moondance, Phantom of the Opera, Wishmaster, and probably one or two I can't remember right now. Amananthe - This one is a bit of a guilty pleasure, I admit. I became acquainted with them around ~2014 or so. A song came on in the online radio, in Euro Truck Simulator 2, and I found it extremely catchy. It was "Drop Dead Cynical" which - honestly felt like the song was describing the me at the time. I googled up the lyrics and found Amaranthe very quickly, listened to some of their other music and like it. Saw a lot of hate from people in the "Metal Community" which kind of made me like them even more. Some of my favourite songs by them include: Nexus, Digital World, Drop Dead Cynical, Supersonic, Boomerang, Momentum, All the Way and especially Inferno. Cradle of Filth - A British Band that I became acquainted with in ~2005 with Nymphetamine. I also took note with their cover of Heaven 17 - Temptation; which is a song my relatives liked. Cradle of Filth - is not a band that they liked - at all. So playing their version of Temptation at full volume seemed like a massive middle finger to them in my immature and often extremely drunk 15 year old self's eyes, to my parents and everyone else. ... Yes, I was that kind of a child. Stupidly rebellious, shouting at the world because I was so sick of it shouting at me. CoF became a kind of vehicle to keep ramming the point home that I was sick of their shit, or something like that. xD Oh my, how silly. But some of my favourite songs from them include: Nymphetamine (Overdose), Temptation (Even the God Awful female vocalist in it), The 13th Caeser, Shat out of Hell, Gilded Cunt, Dirge Inferno, Byonic Man, Libertina Grimm and so on... System of a Down - Like Cradle of Filth, System of a Down was another one that just felt right for my edgy teenage years. I'm not sure how I came to know SoaD, or what song opened up the doorway to them, and honestly I don't care. I remember my father sitting me down and inquiring about the music, saying that it was very politically charged - to which I was like - yeah, no shit. But he wasn't being combative, something I appreciated. He told me that it would be inadvisable to base my political opinions on the music I was listening to, and offered other perspectives, and even agreed with some of the lyrics to some of the music. He was right though, you shouldn't base your political opinions off of songs that you like. There are somethings I agree with, and disagree with it, based on my interpretation of them, but importantly - I like their music, well. I did. They haven't released anything as far as I am aware since 2005. I listen to them on occasion still though, and some of my favourite songs have to be: Chop Suey, U-Fig, Vicinity of Obscenity, BYOB, Needles, Sugar and of course - Forest. Nile - This is down to a "Metal Head" friend in college, who when he gave me his iPod (He didn't like Apple, and literally just said "Here, you like tech. Have this and keep it.", and of course I was just like, "...okay." They're an American band from South Carolina (If I recall correctly), and their music is heavy metal with themes, tones and lyrics that seemed to be inspired by Ancient Egyptian and Near Eastern mysticism, history, religion, etc. I've not really heard much of their music to be fair, but what I have heard, I like a lot. My favourite album is their Annihilation of the Wicked, album, with songs such as: Cast Down the Heretic, Sacrifice Unto Sebek and User-Maat-Re. DevilDriver - Again, down to that generous apple hating madlad metal head from college, and this pretty much applies to their old music as well. Such as The Fury of Our Maker's Hand, album. Some of my favourite songs from this band are, End of the Line, Digging Up the Corpses, Grinfucked, Hold Back the Day and Unlucky 13. Master Boot Record - A band that I became acquainted with in April of 2020, after @Peculiarity sent me a song by an unrelated band, which I also liked. Shortly after MBR appeared in my YouTube suggestions, and I actually rather quite liked it. It kind of reminds me of the very old stuff done by Luk Hash. Some of my favourite songs are: Telnet, POP3, CHKDSK.EXE and HTTP. Eisbrecher - Another German band of which I hopelessly have no idea what they're even saying. xD I found this one in 2019 and quickly came to like them and their quirky videos that seem disconnected from the music, at first. I stumbled onto them after finding "Zwischen uns" which I think means "Between us" but could be wrong and couldn't be bothered using Google Translate. Any German Dreamers - feel free to correct me if I am wrong. If I remember correctly, in most - if not all of their music videos, they wear suits/formal wear. Perhaps it's political like System of a Down - I don't know. It seems to me that's good music, and I don't really care either way. Some of my favourite songs by them are things like: Zwischen Uns, Was ist hier los?, Verrückt, Das Gesetz and Miststück 2012. Last but not certainly not least for this list; Rave the Reqviem. This band seems to not like the letter "U" very much, so I am, going to write this piece from here on out by replacing it with V. See if yov can keep vp. I first became acqvainted with Rave the Reqviem back in 2019 throvgh the song "Crack the Sky" on YovTvbe, and I fvcking loved their mvsic from the offset. I can see why they have a bit of a cvlt following, to be honest. As soon as I heard one of their songs, I looked on YovTvbe for more of their mvsic and fovnd that I really liked what I was hearing! It is a very strange hybridisation of electronic - light dvbstep and a lot of metal, and it's done extremely well! So I pvrchased their albvms, and I listen to their mvsic pretty often. I don't think there's a single track that they've released yet, that I don't like. I like all of their songs, and I eagerly await to see what they come vp with next. My absolvte favovrite songs from their line vp is: Mono Heart, Skydweller, Crack the Sky, Are Yov Happy Now, Fidelio?, Heroin(e), Is Apollo Still Alive and Illvsion Shaper. That's not to say that metal is all I listen to. Granted its the majority. There are other bands that I'm still working my way through, and I might write up about them at a later day, and if I discover any more that I really like, I will add them also. -
One of my favourite bands (Ignea) has released an album recently and I am absolutely loving Jinnslammer:- It's got a very 'Driving down the motorway at night as the headlights pass overhead and the long empty road is ahead of me' kind of feel to it, it's absolutely going in my night-time driving list.
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suggestion EcchiText - Draft replies
Tema replied to krakendaddy Deactivated's topic in EcchiMeta's Comments & Suggestions
Not as far as I am aware. I've been looking at how to make this possible, even though that there is a drafts folder. Which is odd, no? You can send yourself an EcchiText which you can move to the drafts folder if you like. This would effectively be a drafts framework. But I do wonder if there is a better way of doing it, like you suggested. I'll pass the suggestion on to IPS and see if we can make it a thing. Apologies for taking so long to get back to you. -
I totally do... I wish thee well, because I should be honest with you too... I've got a wife. I know. I know... It feels good to get it off my chest.
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Years ago. But in fairness it was a small box (Fun Pack, I think) so it's measured out to be a single portion anyway. xD Nah, once I ate a whole box of coco pops in one sitting. Felt sick afterwards but damn I enjoyed every bite of it. When was the last time you embarrassed and hugged another human being? (Waifu pillows don't count).
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What would you do if the person above you, enters your bedroom. ;D
Tema replied to Tema's topic in Forum Games
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I'm sorry, it's over. Nothing is too purple.
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Well, in this country they're beef burgers typically made out of beef. Depends what the hotdog is. There are some hotdogs in the UK that do not use mechanically separated meat, or as I like to call them "Mechanically Separated Chicken Anuses also known as MRM/Mechanically Recovered Meat. I'd prefer the proper meat hotdogs over a "Ham" burger. But if it's a beef burger, I'll take that hands down over anything else. I love beef.
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Floneko died due to unforeseen, mysterious and deeply suspicious circumstances.
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Before just now? Years ago... That was fun. When was the last time you tried something new?
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You died due to being crusaded by @DozleZabie2. Deus Vult.
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Granted but you can only do so on the last Wednesday of the month at 3:33am, when the moon is both full and visible where you will have a 33 second time window. The ability to telekinetically fuck someone on the ceiling.
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Deleted Account: Is this possible?
Tema replied to Enchanted_Dream's question in EcchiMeta's Questions
Whilst I'm sorry to hear this, yes it is possible, however it is subject to the Terms of Service as with everything else. Specifically Section 21:- You can do this yourself by going to Account Settings > Overview > Deactivate your Account, or follow this link to go directly to it. Please note that per the Terms of Service as they are laid out above, you will not be able to delete your account, you can however deactivate it or set a leave of absence, which you can do from Account Settings > Leave of Absence, or follow this link to go directly to it. Either way, should you want to come back to EcchiDreams - which as of right now you're more than welcome to, you will not be allowed to make a new account. You will need to re-activate your account or set it back to active. I hope that answers your question. -
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