Yeh, agreed from me too. Things going wrong is just part and parcel of playing an RP game like this, so the character would certainly see it as a non-con situation, but me as the player would just see it as expected for failing.
as with the others when in a group setting you expect that some situations won't be your kettle of fish and just jump past them or skim
I have to agree with Isabelle here as well; it seems like the perfect use for a little AI art to add a little spice to any scene that characters end up in. My character's picture was, after all, an AI gen that I did myself. I wish I was good enough to get a nice background like the others have, but I think it still came out well enough.