Masturbate in secret

[CarrotCake]

I swear it’s not as scandalous as the title sounds, but I wonder if anyone else masturbates in secret because they live in a full house? Because I sure do. I always have to hide in the bathroom with earbuds in my phone to watch porn to get off. And since it’s a little hard to reach as deep as I want when I try to finger myself, I rub myself to get off. It certainly does the trick, but it definitely does get boring! 
 

sex toys are definitely out of the question, god forbid my packages get intercepted! I just wonder if anyone else ever suffers from having to masturbate in secret, but also what you guys do to help get yourself off if you don’t have toys at your disposal! As a girl, I’d definitely love to hear from other girls, so I can take some pointers, haha!

[Azalyn]

A lot of (legitimate) sex toy websites have discrete packaging. There are quiet vibrators as well. Unless you have family that likes to look into your packages, I would recommend trying something out! My first toy was the Lush 2. It's quiet, small and great for long distance control as well, if you want to get a little spicy with someone. ;3

[CarrotCake]

3 hours ago, Azalyn said:

A lot of (legitimate) sex toy websites have discrete packaging. There are quiet vibrators as well. Unless you have family that likes to look into your packages, I would recommend trying something out! My first toy was the Lush 2. It's quiet, small and great for long distance control as well, if you want to get a little spicy with someone. ;3

They wouldn’t look into my packages, but they would get curious and my nervous ass couldn’t even begin to explain what I purchased, haha! 
 

but thank you for the suggestion! I should definitely look into that!

[Kylora]

I had to do something similar, growing up in a conservative Christian home. I experimented with household items and produce as sex toys, because I couldn't get real ones. Also, if things are getting boring, try changing your position. Really, that does help.

[bumpnrun]

I grew up in a small house with four other siblings and privacy was at a premium. Luckily I also lived on a farm where there was plenty of the great outdoors where distance camouflaged actual activity. A vivid imagination kept the cinema of the mind playing and I could have myself well on the way to a final outcome before ducking out of view for the big release. 

As an adult I've tugged one out while driving down the road at night. Whenever, wherever...

[Mysthero]

When I was younger, I had a friend whom we... weren't really fuck buddies but we'd masturbate together.  Like we experimented (as in I'd rub my dick against her) but for religious reasons she didn't want to have sex until marriage and because I had already had sex she didn't want to date me. (Look, I'm not saying it wasn't strange, but I respected her choices).

Anyway, she had sort of the same situation where she couldn't have things shipped to her house and was worried if she got something big, like a vibrator or dildo it would be found by her very conservative parents. So, I got her two sex toys... one a small clit vibrator for when she was home, and a jackrabbit vibrator for where she was at my house.  I kept the vibrator at my house until she moved out to where she could take it.

I never really had this problem, even when I lived with my parents, my privacy was always kinda respected. When I started bringing girls home my dad just gave me condoms and that was our "the talk". -shrug-

I'm not telling you you to get a masturbation buddy or anything like that, but if you're worried about having things sent to your house, maybe talk toa  close friend who won't judge you?

 

Edited July 12 by Mysthero

[Pixel]

I'm going to be completely honest.

Most times I masturbate, I do it in secret.

[HannahBanana Banned]

Having a super high libido killed me growing up.  I was lucky enough to have my own room, but my bed was sooo squeaky.  Lucky for me I was more into girls, then boys so having my "Best friend" over for a sleep over wasn't to much of a problem, but there was no way I could ever get a boy to stay over.  I had to borrow toys from my friends or use far to many household item (Unspeakable things were done to my stuffies).

[Atlas20]

Grew up with a full house and had a similar experience of only being able to get that needed privacy in the bathroom. Made me into a real quiet guy when it comes to masturbation, busting ninja nuts

[Reaper236]

I feel this, when my wife isn't in the mood I have to sneak off. She gets mad when I do it, but it's like..hey, I got an issue I need to take care of, and if you don't wanna help, might as well go take care of it myself. Nothing wrong with it if you ask me

[RenRen123]

I use to when I lived at home with my parents! My mom was pretty conservative and liked to tell her kids how much she hated sex and everything.  I use to watch porn in my room with the door locked and masterbate. When I was under 18, I found that the rolling vibrating back massagers were the best thing to place on your clit. *shrugs*

Now sometimes I do when my husband doesn't seem interested in me. I initiate a lot so sometimes it just gets frustrating.

[spectacular_silver]

Yep, I do since I have two roommates.

My suggestion would be go the old fashioned route. Go to an actual sex shop, buy what you like, and put it in a different bag or mix it up with other shopping. Although I suppose it depends on how nosy the other people you live with are. Hopefully they're not so nosy they go through all your shopping.

It works for me since I'm not a fan of ordering things online. And my roommates are much more curious in packages turning up rather than me coming home with shopping bags.