Opinion on dating girls who watch porn

[BustyBritneyDD]

Guys, is it weird to you when girls to look at porn a lot?  Would you honestly be in a long term relationship with a girl that watches some everyday?  It's not like all the time, but usually a little in the morning along with RP messages, or watching a video if I get really horny later in the day... 

I feel like some guys act into it but then get jealous.

[GoddamnHero Deactivated]

That is just insecurity. Humans are animals, both male and female and we have all the kind of urges: emotional and physiological urges.

I don't think it's weird and I think I prefer "Horny girls" since they are open with her feelings and urges. Also, know what makes the person arroused is a valid way to know her better.

[Moon Hound Hati]

I don't see a problem with this. If anything, that says to me that she has a healthy sex drive. If sex in the relationship was non-existent, then, of course, I'd probably start wondering if there's a problem between us. But by itself I see watching some porn as a perfectly normal thing to do, regardless of gender. Hell, I'd say it's even kind of a turn on.

[Balthier]

It's fine to a point. If it starts to desensitize you to real life sex/situations though, then that's too much. Otherwise, probably okay. But if you watch so much it gets to the point where you are harder to arouse, it's too much. It's a fine line.

Edited December 22, 2024 by Balthier

[Dozle The Crusader]

long the relationship is healthy i don't have a problem everyone as there own  

[GeorgieBoy]

As long as it's not the same stuff I watch. I would never date someone that perverted.

Edited December 18, 2024 by GeorgieBoy
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[Pixel]

I had a fling between serious relationships with an old flame from highschool who grew into a porn addiction. I've never seen anyone so overstimulated before lmao. 

Still, watch corn, idgaf. Long as it isn't fucking up your expectations, because that happens a lot.

[Gidgy]

Girls watches porn. We always have. Maybe not watches the same kinda porn or the same amount as boys, but if you don’t want to date a girl who watches porn then you gets these options:

1. Don’t date

2. Date boys

3. Date girls who lie to you about their porn watching

We masterbates too! Even in relationships! Probably way more than we admits! Cause no one touches you better than you. 

Edited January 5 by Gidgy

[YingAndYang]

IMO, there's nothing wrong with that. Regarding a relationship, it wouldn't be bad if the theme's align with personal taste. And even if they don't you'll never know what you're missing out on if you don't try. But there's no reason to judge a woman just because she watches porn; it just makes her 'normal'.

[Taramafor]

Concerns about instant gratification and desperation for fun are valid, and often leads to despair/depression. Often people lose sight of meaning/understanding. Boredom and desperation for entertainment is often resulting in ignoring concerns as well (sexual or not). Suffice to say I know the inner workings of the mind.

That doesn't mean happiness has to be a problem in and of itself. Rather, people will get more happiness from meaning instead of chasing it. From adapting, instead of avoiding. You'll get a thicker skin that way.

Porn comes in different flavors. Some can be more extreme, other porn is more soft/cuddly. So that's going to depend for a start.

I need interaction more. Roleplay is good for action. It can mean something.

Can porn be harmful? Well, it depends. It depends on wherever people are trying to communicate more or not. I don't see porn as a danger in and of itself. I only see it as a danger if it's used as an escape.

Think about it. People can lack connections, so they turn to their vices. Be it porn, parties, drugs. etc. You could be in a relationship and it could go downhill because youd don't pay attention to people. Or you could be in a better relationship where you get creative ideas from adult porn pictures. It's all going to depend.

Why have porn when you can have detailed roleplay with sex and plot though? Watching vids and pictures won't have the same impact. Roleplay can also be good for helping people overcome trauma as well. It's because it's focused on action. This in turn helps with focus. Trying to find people to mantain interactions with can be challenging though. So what else can people do other then turn to porn when they struggle?

Edited January 22 by Taramafor

[petrichor]

This is probably an unpopular opinion but I’d be uneasy with it personally. BUT I’d never shame or attack her for it, I’d be very appreciative that she’s being transparent and I would try to understand her side of it. Keeping secrets from each other that you know would be controversial to the other person just causes problems. Communication is SO important. There’s always an understanding to come to if you can communicate maturely.

A side note, I also think it’s wrong to have a different standard in that regard between men and women. If you are against it for ladies, guys shouldn’t get a free pass either. If I watched it while in a relationship I would not have a different standard for her.

Edited February 25 by petrichor

[Spermonator]

I see nothing wrong with that. Why would any man turn down  dating a slutty girl that likes to watch porn often? I'd probably watch with her if she wants me to. It could be really fun actually. 

[Nutcracker]

Porn addiction is bad so I would rather not but if she watches amateur videos once in a while it’s alright 

[west]

Honestly, as long as it sparks an interest and keeps their libido alive it's a good thing. Heck, watch porn as a couple, it genuinely helps bring ideas out and keeps the bedroom healthy. My partner and I recently got into these pornographic manwa, we share links and talk about scenes and stories, it's been great.