How many people here are in relationships

[Rodeo]

23 minutes ago, Azalyn said:

Hand-holding is the most efficient way to achieve peak arousal. 

*Presents hand for holding*

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[Moon Hound Hati]

LMAO

[Dozle The Crusader]

im a single crusader i need no woman 14 years going strong my armor is my shield from them 

[Rexyon]

Single. I have had 2 partners, if you don't count the child thing of saying you are dating someone when you are like, 6. Both of them were long distance and with guys. The first I met through shared interests, he asked me out before I even knew how to respond and I had to reply later, but then, he wanted to get into sex too quickly and I was quite the innocent 19 year old. He was 5 years older, we parted amicably and he is now married to another guy, which I am happy for. _{Even if it sometimes feels like I was the rebound stopgap.} Second was someone I met on another RP site, we never met in person but I was planning to, he was borderline emotionally abusive to the point a few friends stepped in for my safety.

Not that I don't want to date, I am constantly looking, for a female partner this time, but everyone where I live either have partners already or have children and whilst I work with children for a living, I don't want to become a step-dad potentially in the future. I have been lonely over the years though, you would be surprised at how many one night stands can fail due to the most random shit, then you never see that person again.

[love_and_poprocks]

I'm currently in a relationship and very happy. He also writes and doesn't mind that I do it either as he knows it's more of an expressive outlet for me. Honestly think I found my soulmate with this one; he overall makes me feel happy and seen and I just feel very lucky. He keeps me grounded which can be frustrating at times but he is usually right in those instances (15% of the time - I'm right the other 85% LOL). But the most important things I feel is there is an age gap difference se we each are able to bring our experiences and perspectives into the relationship as well as we are open and have a great communication system. I find healthy communication to be very detrimental to any relationship and he gives it to me without hesitation. Makes my heart flutter knowing he is mine . 

This is all coming from someone who thought she was going to be the cool auntie who gives gifts to the nieces and nephews and would travel and never be married. I was okay with that for a long time even though I would stay in relationships that added no value to my life or influence me for the better all for the sake of not looking like a spinster. I wasn't looking at the time either which made this all the more a terrifying surprise as I'm still awkward and trying to uncondition myself from my self-destructive habits and having this sense of not being good enough. 

I say the world makes it hard, and in a world where everything is at your fingertips its much harder to build lasting relationships. I'm an optimist though and I believe there is someone for everyone; just have to be open to the possibilities.

[Gidgy]

I’ve been in my current relationship for a few years now. I wish it was mores. It’s hit a place where it’s comfortable but it feels like we constrain each others instead of complete each others. We both afraid the other person gonna leave (prior damage for both of us). It’s tense. Lots of short fuses. So it kinda like walking on egg shells a lot.

She’s not satisfied with how her lifes is turning out. Most of that got nothing to do with me though. She just tired of workin and mad that she not able to travel more and see all the things and eat out whenever she wants and such.

I would loves those things too but I’m content without it. And I not blame her for the situation. I’m mostly happy except for all the times when she gets unhappy and picks fights with me. We now both feels stuck and we dunno how to unstick it. She wants to move across the country but I think we’ll be just as stuck there as heres. I think this year gonna make or break us and I’m not sure which one to hopes for. I just want her to be happy whether or not it with me. 

That way more than I meant to says. I guess I’m sad today. She’s having a fight with me that I’m not a part of. Came home from work in a mood, snaps at me, and then wanted to be alone.

She prolly say sorries tomorrow, but today it’s lonely and this happening more and more often lately.

Since I’m currently in the middle of things I can deffo say don’t take your good relationship for granted! And don’t take being single for granted eithers, even if it’s not what you’d like most right nows.

Maybe relationships with men are easier? I maybe tries it if this go bad. But he better have his own monies cause I’m done with unhappy broke peoples!

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Non, never! I tell myself it's because I've never met anyone I like in that way! Which is true! But possibly also because I couldn't be found if someone tried. Can't fail if you don't try, amirite?

[Django The High Shaman]

On 28/12/2024 at 21:49, Rodeo said:

*Presents hand for holding*

So cute when friends (and roleplay mates) cum together!