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Rexyon

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Single. I have had 2 partners, if you don't count the child thing of saying you are dating someone when you are like, 6. Both of them were long distance and with guys. The first I met through shared interests, he asked me out before I even knew how to respond and I had to reply later, but then, he wanted to get into sex too quickly and I was quite the innocent 19 year old. He was 5 years older, we parted amicably and he is now married to another guy, which I am happy for. Even if it sometimes feels like I was the rebound stopgap. Second was someone I met on another RP site, we never met in person but I was planning to, he was borderline emotionally abusive to the point a few friends stepped in for my safety.

Not that I don't want to date, I am constantly looking, for a female partner this time, but everyone where I live either have partners already or have children and whilst I work with children for a living, I don't want to become a step-dad potentially in the future. I have been lonely over the years though, you would be surprised at how many one night stands can fail due to the most random shit, then you never see that person again.

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love_and_poprocks

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I'm currently in a relationship and very happy. He also writes and doesn't mind that I do it either as he knows it's more of an expressive outlet for me. Honestly think I found my soulmate with this one; he overall makes me feel happy and seen and I just feel very lucky. He keeps me grounded which can be frustrating at times but he is usually right in those instances (15% of the time - I'm right the other 85% LOL). But the most important things I feel is there is an age gap difference se we each are able to bring our experiences and perspectives into the relationship as well as we are open and have a great communication system. I find healthy communication to be very detrimental to any relationship and he gives it to me without hesitation. Makes my heart flutter knowing he is mine ❤️. 

This is all coming from someone who thought she was going to be the cool auntie who gives gifts to the nieces and nephews and would travel and never be married. I was okay with that for a long time even though I would stay in relationships that added no value to my life or influence me for the better all for the sake of not looking like a spinster. I wasn't looking at the time either which made this all the more a terrifying surprise as I'm still awkward and trying to uncondition myself from my self-destructive habits and having this sense of not being good enough. 

I say the world makes it hard, and in a world where everything is at your fingertips its much harder to build lasting relationships. I'm an optimist though and I believe there is someone for everyone; just have to be open to the possibilities.

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Gidgy

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I’ve been in my current relationship for a few years now. I wish it was mores. It’s hit a place where it’s comfortable but it feels like we constrain each others instead of complete each others. We both afraid the other person gonna leave (prior damage for both of us). It’s tense. Lots of short fuses. So it kinda like walking on egg shells a lot.

She’s not satisfied with how her lifes is turning out. Most of that got nothing to do with me though. She just tired of workin and mad that she not able to travel more and see all the things and eat out whenever she wants and such.

I would loves those things too but I’m content without it. And I not blame her for the situation. I’m mostly happy except for all the times when she gets unhappy and picks fights with me. We now both feels stuck and we dunno how to unstick it. She wants to move across the country but I think we’ll be just as stuck there as heres. I think this year gonna make or break us and I’m not sure which one to hopes for. I just want her to be happy whether or not it with me. 

That way more than I meant to says. I guess I’m sad today. She’s having a fight with me that I’m not a part of. Came home from work in a mood, snaps at me, and then wanted to be alone.

She prolly say sorries tomorrow, but today it’s lonely and this happening more and more often lately.

Since I’m currently in the middle of things I can deffo say don’t take your good relationship for granted! And don’t take being single for granted eithers, even if it’s not what you’d like most right nows.

Maybe relationships with men are easier? I maybe tries it if this go bad. But he better have his own monies cause I’m done with unhappy broke peoples! 😛

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Shmoopsydude

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I consider myself to be in a unicorn relationship. She's intelligent, creative, free-associative in a way I can only dream of. Strong and driven and capable, happy to skin and butcher and game and garden and craft and make the best of life with me. We've been married almost a decade. She is obsessed with me, loves my body, craves my cum. About 3 days a month.

The rest of the time she is my broody classic goth lizard creature/goblin and I am occasionally gratified by using her to get off in some fashion (when it's not too inconvenient). We have kids, we both actively raise them, I work, she renovates the home and runs a studio.

She's also got physical issues that prevent her from being as responsive as she'd like sometimes, but essentially she's only down when the hormones are just right.

I am the 'before work, after work, before bed' would be nice at minimum type of person. I could destroy someone for a few hours every other day or so.

So pretty early on in our relationship she agreed quite explicitly (and occasionally confirms since) that if I'm hard up, I can take care of myself any way I see fit, as long as it doesn't negatively impact her or the kids. No surprise babies, not at the house, pretty basic rules.

I've since had exactly two partners, since I frankly am not willing to risk any part of my life or lifestyle for a little ass or pussy. But I've had a few perfect fits and it's so nice when I can.

My ideal goal is actually a live in partner since we legitimately could use help. She needs company and someone to mind the children while she does the serious work. I need someone to fuck the brains out of quite frequently.

So my pipe dream is that I will find someone who will be infatuated with me but love my family. She's had female partners before, and I know the right person could fit right in as our little saucy au pair.

But even if that never happens, just the fact that I have a beautiful and amazing partner who legitimately supports me however she can is worth anything. I wish everyone the opportunity to have such a relationship. Communication is everything.

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The Great Excalibur

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I haven't really been in a Relationship truly the women I have been together with really didn't want me and it could be felt, it felt more like they did it out of pity which didn't feel nice obviously mixed with my Anxiety, Depression and such didn't help so I stopped chasing women despite me HEAVILY wanting to get in a meaningful relationship with one who understands me and feels me for who I am. I know that I am quite weird for what would be considered normal in my country in Europe and I wish I could just go up to a woman and ask them out yet I can't and then explaining my situation wouldn't make it any easier... 😓

I have been told by most people that I am a kind-hearted guy who is really good with children and animals especially dogs, I have been told I look nice but that is only Mother and Big Sister who have told me that so I obviously feel I'm mediocre at best with long brown hair and green eyes with a normal build not skin/fat/muscular. I have been told I think a ton about things before I make my own decision on it and doesn't go with just what everyone agrees on unless I have come to the same conclusion with me rather taking a ton of time to be fully sure about it which My Father says is such a good thing about me and I hope he is correct there. 😄 

I have been on this Earth for 28 years yet haven't truly felt the loving feeling from a woman's touch that wasn't Family love, haven't had a true kiss or sex for that matter never slept beside a woman who loves me for who I am the goofy kind-hearted yet perverted guy that I am so yeah for those of you who have found Lover and especially to those of your who have on RP Sites I envy you soooooo much but I also am so happy that you found your significant other and tons of blessings and cheers for your futures! ❤️ Hopefully my time will come even if I have zero faith in it as I kept being told my time will come I'm afraid it won't as I have not been able to make meaningful connections with people that lasted long so yeah.

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Tema

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On 7/27/2025 at 12:14 AM, Tema said:

Been married to my high-school sweet heart since we were both 18. I love my husband to pieces.

This was Novaer. Although out stories are very similar.

I too am married, my wife is @Neptune. As for how long, how, why and such... well, if you know, you know, you know?

Thanks to whoever reacted. I have corrected the record for this account holder. Me. Tema. :)

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IsabellaRose

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On 17/12/2024 at 14:15, IsabellaRose said:

I probably spent as many years single and dating/hooking up the younger people here have been alive. I both hated and loved that time, and even though I always felt empty, I never allowed any of those intimate pairings to turn into more. I'd lost love pretty brutally early on and was scared to risk it again. 

Just after pandemic lockdown I accidentally fell into a relationship with a friend who needed a place to live. I almost ran away again, but convinced myself not to, and it somehow is working better than I could have imagined, or probably deserve. I am happier than I could ever imagine being.

It's been a year since I wrote this, and just over 5 years since we got together, and despite my inability to make any relationship work in a positive manner, we're still going strong. 

This is now officially my longest relationship ever and I can't believe how happy I am.

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SataiRolePlayingGuy

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13 hours ago, Tema said:

This was Novaer. Although out stories are very similar.

I too am married, my wife is @Neptune. As for how long, how, why and such... well, if you know, you know, you know?

Thanks to whoever reacted. I have corrected the record for this account holder. Me. Tema. :)

You have a Novaer signature to update too, not retired anymore.

As for me, been a long long time since I’ve been in one.  Don’t see it changing at this point.  Sort of thing is just too difficult for me for a variety of reasons.

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