Let's start being honest about sex!

[Eros Angel]

4 minutes ago, luck588 said:

I have an honest question about penis size, I may not identify as male but I still have a dick (I'm genderfluid ) , so my dick is not big the max size is 6 inches is that a problem ? The parts of the internet I tend to go through make me think that my size is not enough for nothing.

I personally feel the average man cares way more about dick size then even the most judgmental size queen. Size does matter somewhat to me but in the opposite direction, I like my dicks to be around four inches, big enough to fill me up but not hurt, and much more pleasant to blow, at least for me.

Honestly if you have an eight inch plus dick I straight up don't want none, and I'd have an easier time parking a blimp into a one car garage then blowing you.

[Alexander Bodide]

7 minutes ago, Somethingsomething said:

Always go pee after sex to avoid bladder infections, this is definitely my pro tip!

I swear, sometimes the pee afterwards feels even better than the ejaculation, at least to me. It's like like my body saves an extra hit of dopamine for that part.

[luck588]

I'm pansexual, and in some parts of the gay community there are people who say that I'm too small, but thank you all for saying that I'm not as small as I think 

On 12/05/2020 at 19:09, Alexander Bodide said:

I swear, sometimes the pee afterwards feels even better than the ejaculation, at least to me. It's like like my body saves an extra hit of dopamine for that part.

Talking only from masturbation experience here and yes it sometimes feels better to pee then to ejaculate 

[Peculiaritree Deactivated]

5 minutes ago, luck588 said:

I'm pansexual, and in some parts of the gay community there are people who say that I'm too small, but thank you all for saying that I'm not as small as I think 

Anyone who tells you that you're too small isn't someone you want to be fucking anyway.

[Eros Angel]

2 minutes ago, luck588 said:

I'm pansexual, and in some parts of the gay community there are people who say that I'm too small, but thank you all for saying that I'm not as small as I think 

Yeah not my community exactly but I have some homosexual male friends. One time a friend of mine was just over the top excited because his new boyfriend had a 12 inch cock (so he claimed at least) and I was like good for you but then I thought about it and was like; man If I fell in love with a dude with a 12 inch cock I'd just be depressed lol.

[luck588]

Just now, GM Angel said:

Yeah not my community exactly but I have some homosexual male friends. One time a friend of mine was just over the top excited because his new boyfriend had a 12 inch cock (so he claimed at least) and I was like good for you but then I thought about it and was like; man If I fell in love with a dude with a 12 inch cock I'd just be depressed lol.

A gay friend of mine said that anything bellow 7 inches for him was not even a dick 

[Eros Angel]

Also I know my friend liked to bottom so I wondered but didn't ask if he was taking that thing, I mean, holy shit. The only man whom ever sodomized me was my very first boyfriend and while I liked it, it hurt and was uncomfortable and my boyfriends dick was the size of a pinky finger, I simply cannot imagine something that big entering me in any place.

[Alexander Bodide]

It boils down to the same thing it always does: there are all sorts of people in this world.

[Eros Angel]

2 minutes ago, luck588 said:

A gay friend of mine said that anything bellow 7 inches for him was not even a dick 

I'm sorry, that is mean. Also, yeah it just seems like a man thing, you guys are often so obsessed with your dicks and their size it seems you find it hard to imagine women don't really care, but I think the dynamic changes among gay men, though I don't really understand it.

[luck588]

Just now, GM Angel said:

I'm sorry, that is mean. Also, yeah it just seems like a man thing, you guys are often so obsessed with your dicks and their size it seems you find it hard to imagine women don't really care, but I think the dynamic changes among gay men, though I don't really understand it.

I have more contact with the sissy community , and yes dick size is like a must for most of them you see posts of people saying on the title that if your dick is not the size of a child arm don't even bother talking to them 

[Peculiaritree Deactivated]

Just now, GM Angel said:

I'm sorry, that is mean. Also, yeah it just seems like a man thing, you guys are often so obsessed with your dicks and their size it seems you find it hard to imagine women don't really care, but I think the dynamic changes among gay men, though I don't really understand it.

I think the male obsession with dick size is really due to two things: "bro" culture being what it is and porn giving us false expectations of how sex works. Bro culture is, well, that deserves its own topic, but porn? A lot of porn does serious damage to people's perceptions of real sex. I know it really fucked with my head for a while until I started reading threads on Reddit about what women (and gay men) actually like. This topic is useful to me for much the same reasons; I know I have a lot of false conceptions caused by porn and I'd like to eliminate them before I start doing stuff with people for real.

This isn't to say that porn is inherently bad, just that people should be properly educated about the realities vs. the fantasies before they go into it. Of course, that's a whole different discussion...

[Eros Angel]

Just now, luck588 said:

I have more contact with the sissy community , and yes dick size is like a must for most of them you see posts of people saying on the title that if your dick is not the size of a child arm don't even bother talking to them 

Yeah, I honestly don't know anything about that, though I have very much been intrigued by the mystery of gay men recently. I am sorry if they are mean to you though, that isn't right.

[luck588]

And also being a fat person most of my life always made a little worried about my body way more then I should be, I always studied with few girls (and not having luck with none of them) and took too long to realise I liked boys too, so having self confidence about my body parts is kinda though 

On 12/05/2020 at 19:30, Peculiaritree said:

I think the male obsession with dick size is really due to two things: "bro" culture being what it is and porn giving us false expectations of how sex works. Bro culture is, well, that deserves its own topic, but porn? A lot of porn does serious damage to people's perceptions of real sex. I know it really fucked with my head for a while until I started reading threads on Reddit about what women (and gay men) actually like. This topic is useful to me for much the same reasons; I know I have a lot of false conceptions caused by porn and I'd like to eliminate them before I start doing stuff with people for real.

This isn't to say that porn is inherently bad, just that people should be properly educated about the realities vs. the fantasies before they go into it. Of course, that's a whole different discussion...

I never liked straight porn it always seemed something was off 

[Eros Angel]

Just now, luck588 said:

And also being a fat person most of my life always made a little worried about my body way more then I should be, I always studied with few girls (and not having luck with none of them) and took too long to realise I liked boys too, so having self confidence about my body parts is kinda though 

I think our society is rather warped in the way it views overweight people generally and is completely clueless regarding them sexually. I love fucking fat people personally, what looks good to the eye and what feels good to the skin can be very different things.

It's weird when a hot girl sits on your lap and you realize her thin body, while looking great, feels awful against your own body, and her bony ass is like a sharp spade in your lap.

Then the fat guy starts touching you and it's like, whoa this dude is a like a silky soft water bed to bounce on in the form of a person!

[Peculiaritree Deactivated]

Just now, luck588 said:

I never liked straight porn it always seemed something was off 

I tend to go for amateur stuff nowadays. I agree entirely about studio/professional porn: it feels too fake (not to mention a lot of the people involved have had some horrible stuff done to them, and I can't condone that). Amateur porn, though, is more often than not an already-established healthy couple with a bit of an exhibitionism fetish going at it. Everyone is enjoying themselves and treating each other properly, which makes the whole thing much more fun to watch.

[luck588]

On 12/05/2020 at 19:41, Peculiaritree said:

I tend to go for amateur stuff nowadays. I agree entirely about studio/professional porn: it feels too fake (not to mention a lot of the people involved have had some horrible stuff done to them, and I can't condone that). Amateur porn, though, is more often than not an already-established healthy couple with a bit of an exhibitionism fetish going at it. Everyone is enjoying themselves and treating each other properly, which makes the whole thing much more fun to watch.

I like indie porn, like not fully amateur but not big studio also, and have being in a JOI/Virtual sex faze

On 12/05/2020 at 19:39, GM Angel said:

I think our society is rather warped in the way it views overweight people generally and is completely clueless regarding them sexually. I love fucking fat people personally, what looks good to the eye and what feels good to the skin can be very different things.

It's weird when a hot girl sits on your lap and you realize her thin body, while looking great, feels awful against your own body, and her bony ass is like a sharp spade in your lap.

Then the fat guy starts touching you and it's like, whoa this dude is a like a silky soft water bed to bounce on in the form of a person!

I never got physical with anyone, not even a kiss, but I like skinny women that is the closest thing to a type that I have, I like people independent of how they look to me it's more important if I like talking to them or not, visual are always a plus but not a must.

[Eros Angel]

I agree, I'm not that into porn, not cause I'm offended by it or anything but because it seems very focused on straight male pleasure, even the "lesbian" porn ironically. If a woman gets her pussy licked it always seems like a brief thing before she spends thirty minutes sucking cock. I don't hate it but it irritates me sometimes. I think women would be much more into porn in general if there was more effort to cater to our tastes.

[WritesNaughtyStories]

I will offer this on how broken men and our ducks are: I have had two wives, a girl friend and two other men tell me I have a "nice" dick and I don't believe it. 

[luck588]

Just now, GM Angel said:

I agree, I'm not that into porn, not cause I'm offended by it or anything but because it seems very focused on straight male pleasure, even the "lesbian" porn ironically. If a woman gets her pussy licked it always seems like a brief thing before she spends thirty minutes sucking cock. I don't hate it but it irritates me sometimes. I think women would be much more into porn in general if there was more effort to cater to our tastes.

Female directors are on the rise in the industry so things are starting to change 

[Eros Angel]

6 minutes ago, luck588 said:

Female directors are on the rise in the industry so things are starting to change 

Actually what's really funny is I've started watching gay porn recently and I love it! Professional porn actresses are good at faking desire and delight but it's just too obviously there to me that the whole thing is just a day job to them, but with gay pornstars you can tell they often love what they do! They become super excited to see a new big cock and suck and get fucked by it. It's super funny to me and I like it.

[Eros Angel]

Though I'm sorry to all you men for exploiting your gender for my own sexual pleasure

[luck588]

5 minutes ago, GM Angel said:

Actually what's really funny is I've started watching gay porn recently and I love it! Professional porn actresses are good at faking desire and delight but it's just too obviously there to me that the whole thing is just a day job to them, but with gay pornstars you can tell they often love what they do! They become super excited to see a new big cock and suck and get fucked by it. It's super funny to me and I like it.

Good that you found something tha you like, the type of man that is in gay porn don't tend to attract me but yaoi hentai that's my shit 

[Peculiaritree Deactivated]

1 minute ago, GM Angel said:

Though I'm sorry to all you men for exploiting your gender for my own sexual pleasure

Quite all right! In truth it's a bit flattering by association

[luck588]

I don't know how the girls will take this but I say this with the best intentions but I as much as I like women with curves I do appreciate a lot a more "flat" girl I'm a fat person who like skinny people hahaha

[Buio Banned]

Personally, I can't say I have much in the way of a type of girl when it comes to body. I will dislike extremes, but that is just because whether you are way too heavy or way too skinny, you're probably quite unhealthy and that just makes me concerned for you. But tall girls, slender girls, round girls, short girls? Really doesn't matter as long as they have a sexy personality. 

More than body type, if there is something that will turn me off about the physicality it'll often be the face. 'butterface' is real for me sadly, though again it's one of those things where if her personality is sufficiently interesting, that will usually override it for me.

I'd say one thing that aggravates me about the reality of sex vs the fantasy of it is how little in the way of seminal reserves guys have. I have real envy for women being able to orgasm multiple times in a row (or heck even more than twice a day). If there was some pill I could take to become a one man bukkake machine i'd take it in a heartbeat haha.