What is your least favorite moment with a partner on EcchiDreams?

[LEROZERO]

Alright! This is a simple and relatively quick thing! 

You just say your least favorite moment with a partner, whether it be rudeness or them leaving! 

There are only a few rules!

- No saying their username

- Be...somewhat gentle with it, no MAJOR namecalling or anything unless you are quoting something they said

- If you see something that seems...familiar(You ARE the person), then do NOT make a fuss about it, at least publicly.

(PLEASE LET ME KNOW IF THIS GAME BREAKS A RULE OR SOMETHING)

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With that being done, I'll go first!

My longest running roleplay partner at the time left on hiatus and hasn't come back for a good long while....I miss him and am still keeping our roleplay ready for his return~

[MissKass]

I tend to put a lot of work into my character creation - their backgrounds, how they came to be where they are in the story, setting them up in ways that can be referenced in the future. While I like spontaneous twists and turns in stories, I like to discuss the general direction with my partners, making sure we're on the same page.

So when we go through all that, I create the character, I write up the lengthy, detailed intro, ... and then not only be forgotten by my partner, but when I ask if they plan to respond, to be told that they changed their minds... yeah, that ticks me off. Especially since it has happened multiple times. Pages discussing details about the upcoming story are not enough to let a person know that perhaps they may not enjoy what we're about to write?

And on that note... people who log on but cannot be bothered to leave at least a note about ongoing roleplays, if they plan to continue, or what.

[MagnificentBastard]

Lack of feedback is certainly annoying but my biggest gripe is how few people actually want to roleplay.

I realize my kinks may not be everyones cup of tea, but actually getting a reply to an introduction is surprisingly difficult.

[Starcry]

Not reading my preferences. 

Pushing to smut all the time. 

[AsBloodTurnsEverCold]

Putting in a lot of work for planning and characters. Picking out the best FCs I could setting up proper backgrounds and motivations, mapping things out to set up good foundation and being excited. Reached the finish line only for them to suddenly get mad at me because the gender ratios to the characters I made were slightly off to what they imagined..somehow. 
They never told me what they were looking for that whole time and though I offered to correct and change a few characters it apparently made me a poor partner and the rp died. 


Bonus: 
I also hold onto rps in hopes the users long missing return. It still hurts, but hopefully one day....

[Pixel]

I'm choosey about my partners, but I also hardly ever write. Most of the people I actually have written with have seemed happy with it, but this one partner a long time ago... 

I'd never written smut before and she was pushing. Our characters were in a group role play together and they formed a sort of partnership. She wanted to continue their story privately after that role play ended and her character was trying her damnedest to bed my character and I was trying to sort of, prevent it in ways that were very in character, until finally he gave it to her advances.

All she did was complain about everything, about not picking up on "hints" no one would have picked up on and so I started writing specific things that would irritate her, like how his ballsack floated in the water and shit. 

That may have actually been where I started being really picky about who I write with.

 

 

[SataiRolePlayingGuy]

Similar to the opening post.  I had a partner who I was writing with a lot, but just stopped writing March last year and only logged in briefly once since (maybe to turn off email notifications).  Not sure what happened there, but do hope she comes back at some point.

[IsabellaRose]

Someone getting mad because my mental health issues prevented me from continuing a roleplay... well, any roleplay for a while, but still... I'd gladly write roleplays play rather than deal with that will-sapping depression. A little bit of empathy can go a long way.

Otherwise, things here don't really bother me. People come and go, stories get setup and never written, partners ghost, get overly demanding, write crap into a story I specifically asked to exclude, ignore my preferences, get mad when you write something they didn't want even when they never told you, and generally act like petulant children or disappointed authorities. You can't take it personal. I've learned it's almost never about you, it's about the other person. 

People are gonna be people, and in general people suck, so... 

 

_{(honestly, I'd rather see a thread about your favorite moments with various partners where you do mention names and make it positive!)}