Let's start being honest about sex!

[Eros Angel]

Oh just a funny aside do you want to know the secret technique of pleasing women sexually? Three steps:

1. Get her nice and turned on in whatever way she gets turned on, men wish our sexually was instant and hair trigger like theirs but it isn't usually, sorry.

2. Whatever sex act you are doing find a speed, motion, and pressure she really likes and just consistently do it.

3 Profit.

Note: If she says harder don't press, lick, or fuck harder, instead go faster, that is what she actually means.

I've met enough people that tell me they are amazing lovers whom have mastered many techniques and usually they just do a bunch of cool seeming tricks until you are considering faking orgasm just to get them to go away.

[JennyDK]

Question:

When did you lose your virginity? (if at all).

[luck588]

3 minutes ago, JennyDK said:

Question:

When did you lose your virginity? (if at all).

Still a virgin I almost lost it when I was way too young to even know what was happening 

[JennyDK]

1 minute ago, luck588 said:

Still a virgin I almost lost it when I was way too young to even know what was happening 

I am sorry to hear about that last part  

[Eros Angel]

12 minutes ago, JennyDK said:

Question:

When did you lose your virginity? (if at all).

Technically when I was 6 years old, by choice 19 years old.

[luck588]

6 minutes ago, JennyDK said:

I am sorry to hear about that last part  

I was 10 and an older female cousing starte to hump me she was 15 at the time 

[JennyDK]

1 minute ago, Eros Angel said:

Technically when I was 6 years old, by choice 19 years old.

Oh geeez....shit, I am sorry.

For me it was age 19 as well.

[Alexander Bodide]

Oh wow you guys...

For me, I was 24. A chance encounter lead to a fourth of July hookup that I hoped would turn into something more, which it didn't. I don't regret it at all though.

[Eros Angel]

Actually I think it might be helpful to explain that whole 'faking orgasm' thing women sometimes do. A thing that men just find pointlessly confusing and dishonest and which women find to be a potentially life saving necessity sometimes.

I was recently talking to a friend who had a one night stand with a hot guy who really talked up his own sexual skill and then turned out to be absolutely terrible in bed. So what happened when she pointed out how terrible he actually was to him? Nothing, because she just told him he was awesome and later never called him back for a second date.

>_<

So wait is the guy just a delusional asshole? Well if women are always telling him he is awesome why wouldn't he think he is awesome?

So wait are women all just pointlessly deceptive bitches? Deceptive sometimes yes, but it isn't as petty and mean a thing as you might think.

While some of it is we are taught to be nice and accommodating there is a darker side to it, even with men we have known for a long time. Simply put the idea is that deep down men are afraid we will reject and mock them but deep down we are afraid men will freak out and hurt us if we sting their egos.

It's really dark and often something men themselves are shocked to learn but if you think I'm just a crazed feminist or something let's have a male character touch on the concept;

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-yUafzOXHPE

To be clear, it isn't that we think all men are like this, we just worry about it.

 

[luck588]

I totally get what you are saying, I think in a point we go back to porn that is where most men get their sexual education and they don't really know what to do in bed I sure know that I don't even know how to kiss so if someone say I'm bad in bed I'm ok with it 

[Eros Angel]

On 14/05/2020 at 22:19, luck588 said:

I totally get what you are saying, I think in a point we go back to porn that is where most men get their sexual education and they don't really know what to do in bed I sure know that I don't even know how to kiss so if someone say I'm bad in bed I'm ok with it 

Yeah it's kinda a messed up situation, cause the reality is 99.9% of men would never hurt you even if they got really upset but your not going to risk that .1% but because of this men are often totally confused about how things actually are and can you blame them? It's not their fault.

Anyway, sorry for the veering into dark topics, let's get the thread back on track.

I love sucking cocks

That is all.

[WritesNaughtyStories]

18 minutes ago, Eros Angel said:

Yeah it's kinda a messed up situation, cause the reality is 99.9% of men would never hurt you even if they got really upset but your not going to risk that .1% but because of this men are often totally confused about how things actually are and can you blame them? It's not their fault.

I think I can blame men. At some point we have to own the fragility of our own egos. Better yet, master our egos so they're not so fucking fragile.

I did get a fair portion of my sexual education from super 8 loops of Ron Jeremy and Candy Samples in the mid 70's - does that shade what I expect my cock should look like, likely. But that's still my self doubt.

14 minutes ago, Eros Angel said:

Anyway, sorry for the veering into dark topics, let's get the thread back on track.

I love sucking cocks

That is all.

I like sucking cocks, but I love getting a wet cunt mashed against my stupidly grinning face.

[JennyDK]

20 minutes ago, Eros Angel said:

Anyway, sorry for the veering into dark topics, let's get the thread back on track.

I love sucking cocks

That is all.

*feels thigns move in her panties from hearing that*

[Eros Angel]

6 minutes ago, WritesNaughtyStories said:

I think I can blame men. At some point we have to own the fragility of our own egos. Better yet, master our egos so they're not so fucking fragile.

I did get a fair portion of my sexual education from super 8 loops of Ron Jeremy and Candy Samples in the mid 70's - does that shade what I expect my cock should look like, likely. But that's still my self doubt.

I like sucking cocks, but I love getting a wet cunt mashed against my stupidly grinning face.

My deceased wife used to say "Boys are so fragile." often followed by  "You have to be very, very careful with them or they shatter like glass."

While she often said this with humor when a man was spazzing out over something stupid it was actually more a statement of responsibility then of contempt.

So often you guys are delicate flowers on the inside

[WritesNaughtyStories]

13 minutes ago, Eros Angel said:

So often you guys are delicate flowers on the inside

And that's because we're often taught that "Vulnerable" "Weak" and "Fragile" are the same things.

I have tried not to be. For the most part I think I have succeeded. I have tried to learn the value of vulnerability without seeing it as weak or fragile.

[luck588]

2 minutes ago, Eros Angel said:

My deceased wife used to say "Boys are so fragile." often followed by  "You have to be very, very careful with them or they shatter like glass."

While she often said this with humor when a man was spazzing out over something stupid it was actually more a statement of responsibility then of contempt.

So often you guys are delicate flowers on the inside

For some time before I found my identity I was extra fragile like I never been a symbol of masculinity every time someone would question that I would get angry and most times I would try to hit them, my luck was that I mainly studied with boys, but knowing I'm not straight and that I don't really identify as a man 100% of the time made me way less fragile now I have only my natural anxiety to blame for all my failings in my romantic life hahahahah

[Eros Angel]

3 minutes ago, WritesNaughtyStories said:

And that's because we're often taught that "Vulnerable" "Weak" and "Fragile" are the same things.

I have tried not to be. For the most part I think I have succeeded. I have tried to learn the value of vulnerability without seeing it as weak or fragile.

Yeah, you are a cool dude. Really though it's ok to be weak and fragile as some people are, including myself. Women often seem confused by this too with so much effort put into being a "strong woman" as an Ideal.

I don't meet many of the concepts in that Ideal. I am dependent on others in many ways, kind, sensitive, overly empathic, overly anxious, disorganized, a people pleaser, etc. It's not all I am but it is alot of it.

If you are small and weak in this world you are easy prey often, but it's ok to be weak and soft, it's ok to be vulnerable and fragile, such traits have great value too

[JennyDK]

We all have Strong and weak moments, traits and so on. That is part of being human and we have to accept that and try to make the best of things.

[luck588]

7 minutes ago, Eros Angel said:

I mean you seem like a good person and that matters to me more than anything.

Also your asshole, at least, is resilient, I found it could take quite a pounding

Thanks, I changed a lot since that time I at least did not became an incel, I was inches away from does people 

[Eros Angel]

1 minute ago, luck588 said:

Thanks, I changed a lot since that time I at least did not became an incel, I was inches away from does people 

Sorry what is an Incel again? I think it was explained to me recently but I'm brain dead =p

[JennyDK]

5 minutes ago, Eros Angel said:

Sorry what is an Incel again? I think it was explained to me recently but I'm brain dead =p

Short for "Involutary celibacy" - basically means guys (or girls too I guess), who indirectly does celibacy because no one wants to do them.

[Eros Angel]

5 minutes ago, JennyDK said:

Short for "Involutary celibacy" - basically means guys (or girls too I guess), who indirectly does celibacy because no one wants to do them.

Ah right, those who end up blaming girls for not wanting them too right?  Turning heartache and loneliness into misogyny?

[JennyDK]

1 minute ago, Eros Angel said:

Ah right, those who end up blaming girls for not wanting them too right?  Turning heartache and loneliness into misogyny?

Preeeetty much yes - it reminds me of certain juju caster xD

[Peculiaritree Deactivated]

Just now, Eros Angel said:

Ah right, those who end up blaming girls for not wanting them too right?  Turning heartache and loneliness into misogyny?

Yep. It's a mindset centered around entitlement and arrogance with a side of severe insecurity. Generally speaking, these are the guys who don't take care of themselves but expect women to fall into their laps merely for "being nice."

[Eros Angel]

5 minutes ago, Peculiaritree said:

Yep. It's a mindset centered around entitlement and arrogance with a side of severe insecurity. Generally speaking, these are the guys who don't take care of themselves but expect women to fall into their laps merely for "being nice."

Doesn't sound very nice, if they tried actually being nice for real they might be surprised how far they get. Also I know you explained this to me before, sorry for being mud brained