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captainbuttass

Do you keep your perversion a secret?

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To your family? To your friends?

I don't. Then again, I hate my family and my friends don't give a shit. Either way, I don't think you should. Sure, your family may disown you and your current friends may expel you from their group, but that will give you the opportunity to meet the right friends. Not necessarily friends that share this particular interest, but ones that will be cool with it.

"Oh, him? That's Dave. He likes big asses, that scamp."

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I tend to keep myself to myself either way, to be honest.
Though the majority of people that I spend the majority of my time with are perverts too, so it's never been an issue. xD
Even if it were an issue, ED is a great outlet. So understanding friends in real life or not isn't a problem, since I have understanding friends here.

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On 23/09/2016 at 18:30, captainbuttass said:

To your family? To your friends?

I don't. Then again, I hate my family and my friends don't give a shit. Either way, I don't think you should. Sure, your family may disown you and your current friends may expel you from their group, but that will give you the opportunity to meet the right friends. Not necessarily friends that share this particular interest, but ones that will be cool with it.

"Oh, him? That's Dave. He likes big asses, that scamp."

Not really sure. My dad knows about this site and no doubt hes seen some stuff here. I think for me its more of the right time and the right place. I am open with my friends although I am not that open, and I have different standards for people I have never seen face to face over those that I have met with and spoken to in real life.

As for ostracisation from a group of friends that's already happened to me back in 2010; and then the rest of them about a year or two later... l because of either other issues that I had with them and they had with me.

I have no desire to make friends with them again anytime soon though... 

I think the quality of a friend outweighs the quantity. But then again, I have never been outrageously popular per se. 

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I'm a big-time introvert, so I have only a few friends.  I also am estranged from my family, much like three bean pizza, I really don't get along with any of those ratfuckers.  I had one family member, my sister, who cyberstalked me after finding out my PSN name was the same handle I used on a 'cannabis' message board and went and told my family a bunch of stuff about what I was posting and made me out to be 'Walter White of the Weed World.'  Um, I wasn't growing/selling, I was using it for medical reasons (anxiety, chronic back pain) but because of that I trust nobody in my family.

I had one friend that I bonded over our shared fetishes, he introduced me to the idea of "My Kink is OK, Your Kink is OK" so it was easier to talk to someone that wasn't going to judge me when I mentioned how I was interested in finding a women that was into pegging.  But over the years we started drifting apart and then he moved and we've just lost touch.  As an introvert it takes me a lot of energy to really keep friendships like that going and we just found that we had less in common than we thought and talking about your sexual 'perversions' just takes you so far.

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Eh, I'm mostly secret about it. However, there have been some times where I've let it slip. I'm sure there are family members who are somewhat aware, but to what extent, I'm really not sure...

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