Let's start being honest about sex!

[Buio Banned]

18 hours ago, Eros Angel said:

@Buio Thanks, and sorry if I came off super shallow or dumb or something. I just have some pretty intense weird anxieties sometimes.

Not at all hon ^_^ You clearly just have personal worried and I sought only to assuage them in whatever way I could

[Eros Angel]

I was starting to feel like a straight up lesbian there for awhile but it's become clear that no, I like men I was just really getting turned off by men having that weird mean porn attitude.

It does make me think about how porn basically teaches bad lessons in general which wouldn't be too bad but at least in the backwards U.S.A here it basically passes as sex ed and that is not good.

It's not even that a sexually dominating attitude is necessarily a turn off, just the disrespect the dudes in porn almost always seem to have, like as a woman you're just disposable trash.

In real life men that give me even a wiff of that attitude I avoid like the plague but with online role playing I tend to be more lenient of it at first on the off chance the wiff isn't gonna be the reality but often it is and I drop those RPs super fast.

That being said, although you don't often see it in porn you can have a hot sexually dominate attitude without being disrespectful. It doesn't always have to be gentle sweetness and kisses, but respect is an integral part of that I've found.

I want to be your cum dumpster, just a treasured, bejeweled cum dumpster, not a dumpster dumpster =p

[Buio Banned]

Yeah, i have found the few and far between videos that show some actually positive domination (Kelly Granger Likes it Rough is one), but for the most part porn is just thoroughly unsexy both for its attitude and for how little actual sex it shows. So much focus on 'porn angles' that show off the genitals as much as possible instead of displaying two (or more) people going at it and having a good time doing it. and don't even get me started on animated hentai.

[Alexander Bodide]

2 minutes ago, Buio said:

So much focus on 'porn angles' that show off the genitals as much as possible instead of displaying two (or more) people going at it and having a good time doing it.

What, you're saying you don't like watching a close-up of a scrotum flopping back and forth for 20 minutes, zoomed in so far as to be devoid of bodily context?

[Eros Angel]

I would like Hentai the best I think if it wasn't like 90% non-con, though actually I really like Bible Black but a lot of that has to do with the context.

If your porn is literally satanic the non-con fits much better =p

1 hour ago, Alexander Bodide said:

What, you're saying you don't like watching a close-up of a scrotum flopping back and forth for 20 minutes, zoomed in so far as to be devoid of bodily context?

So many balls, who even likes balls?

Actually to explain my treasured cum dumpster statement the difference in whether being dominated is fun or yucky has a lot more to do with attitude then specific sex acts, which I have noticed with men seems alot to do with who the man is focusing on. If he is in love with you and tells you to get on your knees it comes through and it's like yes master!

If he is in love with himself and his own prowess and tells you to get on your knees it's like, no, suck your own dick!

I don't know if that makes sense really but that's the best way I can explain it off the top of my head. lol

[Alexander Bodide]

When I'm being dominated, I like to know that underneath it all there is genuine affection, even if it doesn't actually manifest in any tangible way. Just knowing that it's there is enough. So I totally understand that!

On the other hand, in the realm of RP I can really go either way on that...as long as I at least know the person behind the character is nice.

[Eros Angel]

1 minute ago, Alexander Bodide said:

When I'm being dominated, I like to know that underneath it all there is genuine affection, even if it doesn't actually manifest in any tangible way. Just knowing that it's there is enough. So I totally understand that!

On the other hand, in the realm of RP I can really go either way on that...as long as I at least know the person behind the character is nice.

Well I have genuine affection for you slave I hope that comes through at least a little bit

[Alexander Bodide]

I chose you for a reason! You're just the right blend of sugar and spice, don't change a thing!

Somewhat on topic, I remember years ago when I was trying to RP in chat rooms and stuff, if I asked for femdom I would always just end up with someone who wanted me to punch my own balls IRL or something.... Hey, if both parties are into it I guess it's fine, but, aspiring doms....you should really discuss your partner's limits beforehand!

[Eros Angel]

1 hour ago, Alexander Bodide said:

I chose you for a reason! You're just the right blend of sugar and spice, don't change a thing!

Somewhat on topic, I remember years ago when I was trying to RP in chat rooms and stuff, if I asked for femdom I would always just end up with someone who wanted me to punch my own balls IRL or something.... Hey, if both parties are into it I guess it's fine, but, aspiring doms....you should really discuss your partner's limits beforehand!

heart to the first part, laugh reaction to the second

1 hour ago, Alexander Bodide said:

Somewhat on topic, I remember years ago when I was trying to RP in chat rooms and stuff, if I asked for femdom I would always just end up with someone who wanted me to punch my own balls IRL or something.... Hey, if both parties are into it I guess it's fine, but, aspiring doms....you should really discuss your partner's limits beforehand!

Femdom is mostly psychological anyway, whatever the acts involved, not sure what's with all the ball punching, lol

[luck588]

I had an online girlfriend once, and well it was basically a practice in rp all the time, I played dom with her because she is a sub till the bone. But I made sure that she was never uncomfortable at any moment, like I can talk big game but I was terrified of she saying that she did not like something. There are a few things from dom culture that I like such as rope stuff and I like being in control but not in a creepy way. 

But Angel can say that I'm soft which is the reality hahahaha

[luck588]

I wanted to ask a question which is the funniest thing that ever happened with you or a partner during sex ?

[Alexander Bodide]

I've yet to have a particularly funny moment besides cracking jokes during the act. Sometimes there's cats watching or something which is something to be laughed off, but that's about it.

[WritesNaughtyStories]

I have two dogs... they are jealous and curious.

* shudders *

[JennyDK]

I literally do not have any funny moments (that I can recall)...not sure if that tells anything about me >.<

[luck588]

32 minutes ago, WritesNaughtyStories said:

I have two dogs... they are jealous and curious.

* shudders *

My mind just go straight to someone getting their ass licked by one of the dogs hahahahaha

[JennyDK]

4 minutes ago, luck588 said:

My mind just go straight to someone getting their ass licked by one of the dogs hahahahaha

That will teach you to have asses xD

[Alexander Bodide]

Talk about barking up the wrong tree...

Well, I guess that would be if @Peculiaritree was involved.

[Eros Angel]

47 minutes ago, luck588 said:

I wanted to ask a question which is the funniest thing that ever happened with you or a partner during sex ?

Well I wasn't technically having real sex but when I was going to a Catholic high school we were doing computer labs and I was cybering with my BF in instant messenger cause we were bored in class and then the priest who was running the class started IMing me answering a question I had asked earlier and I got confused and IMed him back describing how I was female ejaculating all over his face, which was meant for my BF in response to his cunnilingus.

Man priests can get really super angry I found out.

 

[JennyDK]

Question: Do you guys do dirty talk in bed?

[Alexander Bodide]

A little bit...I'm pretty shy about that part, though. I generally prefer to listen to dirty talk rather than say it myself. With some encouragement though I can get on a roll with it, and then usually be really embarrassed at myself afterwards. Oh well!

[JennyDK]

Just now, Alexander Bodide said:

A little bit...I'm pretty shy about that part, though. I generally prefer to listen to dirty talk rather than say it myself. With some encouragement though I can get on a roll with it, and then usually be really embarrassed at myself afterwards. Oh well!

I have yet to do much or any of it, but my current crush is quite into it and I am as well, but not easy with just one part being that xD

[Eros Angel]

6 minutes ago, JennyDK said:

Question: Do you guys do dirty talk in bed?

I do, though it depends on my lovers comfort level.

[JennyDK]

2 minutes ago, Eros Angel said:

I do, though it depends on my lovers comfort level.

Oh yes, of course ^^ you can dirty talk ALL you want with me though

[luck588]

First world problems here but I can't see myself doing it because it works better in english then in portuguese

[JennyDK]

1 minute ago, luck588 said:

First world problems here but I can't see myself doing it because it works better in english then in portuguese

Maybe it depends on the language in question and how one feels about it.