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You know who I would just slave away for sexually despite not really being attracted to men? James Spader, and not when he was young and beautiful but James Spader now, like Blacklist age, balding and fattening. I just want him to command me to do stuff with that powerful aura and voice of his.

Yes please daddy.

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On 13/05/2020 at 17:53, JennyDK said:

Unpopular opinion:

I find the phrases 'mommy' and 'daddy' in a sexual manner rather creepy.

No hate on those who do like it.

As someone who's first language is not English it took me a while to get used to them in a sexual manner I use them in rp but can't think about using them IRL

On 13/05/2020 at 18:03, JennyDK said:

That explains that I suppose. How well known are they in the states?

Do not know for sure, I'm from and live in Brazil hahahaha

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On 13/05/2020 at 18:08, JennyDK said:

How did you get to know about them then?

Maya appeared in Saturday Night Live, and I'm a crazy person who likes football a lot and is way too dip in this world hahahaha (at the moment I'm editing a Brazilian podcast of new England patriots fans)  so since Trevor Lawrence is famous in college football I got to know his brother because of that 

On 13/05/2020 at 18:09, WritesNaughtyStories said:

Spader I know. The other two, not at all. But popular culture isn't my scene. Ask me about pulps for the early 20th Century and I'm more useful. Music too.

For me, Henry Rollins and/or Fiona Apple at any age. I would be their absolute fuck puppet and that's not my natural role.

From music I can think of some korean girls like the one in my profile picture Dami from Dreamcatcher,and maybe Nicola Sirkis from indochine (french rock group ) Oh and I almost forgot Gwen Stefani who at age 50 looks like she's still in her early 20s

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Anal Sex: Part 1, My Personal Experiences

Well since I am obsessed with anal sex these days let's talk about that act next 😃

My own RL experience is actually rather limited and I've only been sodomized myself by two lovers, my first boyfriend and my wife.

My first boyfriend was just a nice guy and we were young and inexperienced so he wanted to do All the Sex, as it were. At first I didn't want to try it but certain factors changed my mind; one he was just so nice to me I felt safe and wanted to do it cause he wanted to do it, and two; look down at your right hand, now raise your pinky; that is literally how big his dick is so I was like, hmmm well if you're ever gonna try it this is prolly the best you can hope for.

We were wise enough to use lube and not try it dry and he was gentle but honestly it still stung like a bee sting at first and burned as well. Part of that prolly had to do with the fact that I was so nervous and tense my ass muscles were clamped shut like a vice. Once I relaxed it actually didn't feel bad at all and the sheer perversion of it really turned me on (back then in those innocent days basic Anal sex seemed depraved to me)

Mostly with him we ended doing Anal when I just wasn't horny myself or too tired. Sometimes I would wake up in the middle of the night with his hard dick pressing against my lower back and him begging my to fuck and I'd just be too tired so I told him to lube it up and take me in the rear and then I would just rest peacefully as he excitedly went to town.

My wife was a beautiful soul but she had a sexual 'dark side' that I credit with awakening the pervert within me, another thing I love her for.

For her birthday once I was feeling like getting her something super awesome but I couldn't think of anything to buy so I struck on the idea of giving her some glitter covered hand made coupons for various things, like skipping chores so I would do hers out of sequence, stuff like that but one card was for a sexual adventure where I would literally do anything she wanted, no limits.

So she bought herself an eight inch strap on dildo and told me she wanted to be a man for a night.

I was both excited and honestly a little terrified and I was like; I don't know if my pussy can handle that and she was like, good news then! It's going up your ass!

I won't tell all we did that night as it would take too long but she was like a different person, suddenly rough and aggressive and honestly it turned me on a lot.

Long story short she smacked it in my face a bunch and throat fucked me with it then man handled me into a doggy style position and took me anally.

Honestly I don't think I would have been able to take it, despite my promise she could do what she liked, but at that time my painful physical disorder had just been diagnosed and I was on daily doses of Oxycontin so I simply didn't feel pain. It mostly felt like I was being split in half but the pain side of that sensation was gone.

It was like, you know when you take a big shit? You know when that big shit comes flying back out of the toilet and up your ass again? and in and out and in and out for what seems like forever? lol

Anal Sex: Part 2, the Realities

Ok so while I would consider myself something of an expert on Oral sex I honestly don't know much about Anal beyond my personal experience but here are the things I've learned;

Use lube, like a ton of lube, all over the dick or dildo and all over your butthole, maybe even soak you finger in it and finger your ass with it to both prepare for penetration and to get some lube up there. The best lube I've found by leaps and bounds is brand name Astroglide.

Go slow, I know in porn the dude just rams it up the girls ass but please, be gentle.

Once you are in don't pull all the way out suddenly. For me at least it is a scary sensation, it doesn't hurt but it very much feels like I just accidentally shit myself.

It seems experts agree that if it hurts you are doing it wrong but honestly I don't know how it can't hurt, though I'm prolly doing it wrong or I'm just not used to it or something. While you can relax your butt hole with practice there is a second sphincter that controls entrance to your colon that you don't control and it always stings bad being penetrated until the dick gets all the way in, then it is fine.

Only let someone do it to you if you really want to, even if they beg and plead for it, if you yourself don't want it it isn't worth it. I mean that applies to sex in general but especially here.

Anyway I have a bunch more to say but it's mostly just personal experience, someone else far more experienced and knowledgable can prolly say a lot more about it.

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I've actually had some success giving anal with just spit for lube. I'm assuming foreskin helps some with reducing friction too (I think I'm like half circumcised, best of both worlds). Lube definitely makes everything easier, though.

For the giving perspective...honestly for me once I'm inside, I can't really tell the difference between fucking a pussy or an anus. The only difference -- and it does make a real impact -- is the level of naughtiness.

I guess that's all I really have to say. I don't do anal that often because I don't always want to run to the shower directly after sex. Which you should definitely be sure to do if you've been in someone's pooper.

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1 hour ago, Alexander Bodide said:

I've actually had some success giving anal with just spit for lube. I'm assuming foreskin helps some with reducing friction too (I think I'm like half circumcised, best of both worlds). Lube definitely makes everything easier, though.

For the giving perspective...honestly for me once I'm inside, I can't really tell the difference between fucking a pussy or an anus. The only difference -- and it does make a real impact -- is the level of naughtiness.

I guess that's all I really have to say. I don't do anal that often because I don't always want to run to the shower directly after sex. Which you should definitely be sure to do if you've been in someone's pooper.

Let's talk circumcision, I'm fully uncircumcised and for the best of my knowledge so are most of the dicks in Brazil. For does who have had experience with both what is the diference ?

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Actually thinking about my first Boyfriend, yeah he was the one that inadvertently taught me how seriously men take their penises. And while he was great in many ways to this day I'm still irritated at how insecure about his penis size he was, lol.  His penis was great and I loved it but he just obsessed about it.

I mean I can't speak for all  women but as I've said before I think men are way more concerned by their cock size than any woman ever was.

My first mistake was when we had been dating for awhile and I first wanted to get sexual and had him show me his junk. He had a 2 1/2 inch cock and these tiny balls and I freaked out over how cute it was like I had just encountered a new fluffy kitten.

I wasn't making fun of him at all, all I felt was affection and delight but apparently hearing your cock is super cute is the last thing guys want. So I accidentally started, or just tapped into his, cock size insecurity and it was seriously a thing he brought up our whole relationship.

He was immune to reassurance essentially and no matter what I said or did he wouldn't shut up about it. Finally I demanded he thank his cock for being the size it was because if it had been bigger I never would have let him take me anally and I prolly wouldn't suck on it nearly as often.

Once he realized that he was quiet for like 6 months but then it started up again.

To this day I try to be kind when dudes are insecure about their dicks but half the time I just want to scream: Nobody gives even the slightest shit! lol

Of all the things I desire from you or will judge you for your dick size is near the bottom of the list! lol

On 14/05/2020 at 14:23, Alexander Bodide said:

I've actually had some success giving anal with just spit for lube. I'm assuming foreskin helps some with reducing friction too (I think I'm like half circumcised, best of both worlds). Lube definitely makes everything easier, though.

For the giving perspective...honestly for me once I'm inside, I can't really tell the difference between fucking a pussy or an anus. The only difference -- and it does make a real impact -- is the level of naughtiness.

I guess that's all I really have to say. I don't do anal that often because I don't always want to run to the shower directly after sex. Which you should definitely be sure to do if you've been in someone's pooper.

Spit is no good in my experience, but I am of course talking as a bottom in this situation lol. You're half circumcised? How did that happen?

I have often wondered if butts feel different than vaginas on penises but if they don't why are guys so obsessed with them? Vaginas are soft, self lubricating and give us great pleasure, why stick it in a dry, dirty hole that causes us discomfort as much as pleasure?

I can't answer for men but for me it is psychological, I really like doing butts in fantasy for a host of mental reasons. I suspect it is the same for men but don't know for sure.

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4 minutes ago, luck588 said:

Let's talk circumcision, I'm fully uncircumcised and for the best of my knowledge so are most of the dicks in Brazil. For does who have had experience with both what is the diference ?

It's a mysterious topic to me. When I learned that some people have no foreskin, I was like "okay, that means I'm uncircumcised". But then years later I started seeing hentai and stuff where the girl needs to peel back foreskin from the tip of the guy, and I got really confused because that's not what mine is like either. So as far as I know, there are three ways your dick can be:

  1. Fully uncut, with foreskin that envelops the whole length. Apparently this can cause some hygiene concerns. Is that what smegma is? I have no experience with that.
  2. Cut all the way, with no foreskin anywhere. I've recently heard that people like this can't masturbate without lubing up. Sounds annoying.
  3. Partial cut, with a 'sleeve' of foreskin that ends before the head. This is what I've got. No hygiene issues, and the foreskin eliminates the need for lube in many cases, because the shaft is mostly just rubbing against the inner part of its own sleeve, cutting down on friction.

Anyone can correct me if I got anything wrong, like I said it's a pretty murky topic for me.

2 minutes ago, Eros Angel said:

Actually thinking about my first Boyfriend, yeah he was the one that inadvertently taught me how seriously men take their penises. And while he was great in many ways to this day I'm still irritated at how insecure about his penis size he was, lol.  His penis was great and I loved it but he just obsessed about it.

I mean I can't speak for all  women but as I've said before I think men are way more concerned by their cock size than any woman ever was.

My first mistake was when we had been dating for awhile and I first wanted to get sexual and had him show me his junk. He had a 2 1/2 inch cock and these tiny balls and I freaked out over how cute it was like I had just encountered a new fluffy kitten.

I wasn't making fun of him at all, all I felt was affection and delight but apparently hearing your cock is super cute is the last thing guys want. So I accidentally started, or just tapped into his, cock size insecurity and it was seriously a thing he brought up our whole relationship.

He was immune to reassurance essentially and no matter what I said or did he wouldn't shut up about it. Finally I demanded he thank his cock for being the size it was because if it had been bigger I never would have let him take me anally and I prolly wouldn't suck on it nearly as often.

Once he realized that he was quiet for like 6 months but then it started up again.

To this day I try to be kind when dudes are insecure about their dicks but half the time I just want to scream: Nobody gives even the slightest shit! lol

Of all the things I desire from you or will judge you for your dick size is near the bottom of the list! lol

That's unfortunate that he tormented himself that way. For me, all I would care about is if the other person likes it.

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Like most things, it's "bad". Must mean they're hiding something from us. For a long time it was kind of an unofficial way around the "no sex before marriage" thing and didn't carry the risk of pregnancy. Now we just want it because we're not supposed to have - just like ice cream for breakfast.

On cock size: Lots of women say they don't care, but all it takes is one to say they do and we're like, "Wait, they've just been lying to us to make us feel better. Shit, do I really make her feel good?"

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8 minutes ago, WritesNaughtyStories said:

Like most things, it's "bad". Must mean they're hiding something from us. For a long time it was kind of an unofficial way around the "no sex before marriage" thing and didn't carry the risk of pregnancy. Now we just want it because we're not supposed to have - just like ice cream for breakfast.

On cock size: Lots of women say they don't care, but all it takes is one to say they do and we're like, "Wait, they've just been lying to us to make us feel better. Shit, do I really make her feel good?"

Yeah and some women probably do care, I'm just speaking more from personally experience lol

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13 minutes ago, Eros Angel said:

I have often wondered if butts feel different than vaginas on penises but if they don't why are guys so obsessed with them? Vaginas are soft, self lubricating and give us great pleasure, why stick it in a dry, dirty hole that causes us discomfort as much as pleasure?

I can't answer for men but for me it is psychological, I really like doing butts in fantasy for a host of mental reasons. I suspect it is the same for men but don't know for sure.

 

Yeah, it's psychological. Maybe some people notice a more pronounced difference in sensation, but for me it's all in the mind. It's dirty (in EVERY way), and within reason, the discomfort aspect can add a twinge of sadistic joy as well. It's perfect for when you're in the mood to fuck someone like a dirty whore.

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11 minutes ago, WritesNaughtyStories said:

Like most things, it's "bad". Must mean they're hiding something from us. For a long time it was kind of an unofficial way around the "no sex before marriage" thing and didn't carry the risk of pregnancy. Now we just want it because we're not supposed to have - just like ice cream for breakfast.

On cock size: Lots of women say they don't care, but all it takes is one to say they do and we're like, "Wait, they've just been lying to us to make us feel better. Shit, do I really make her feel good?"

I think that this has a lot to do with toxic masculinity that tells a man that he has to have a dick the size of an arm or he is not a man 

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28 minutes ago, Eros Angel said:

Actually thinking about my first Boyfriend, yeah he was the one that inadvertently taught me how seriously men take their penises. And while he was great in many ways to this day I'm still irritated at how insecure about his penis size he was, lol.  His penis was great and I loved it but he just obsessed about it.

I mean I can't speak for all  women but as I've said before I think men are way more concerned by their cock size than any woman ever was.

My first mistake was when we had been dating for awhile and I first wanted to get sexual and had him show me his junk. He had a 2 1/2 inch cock and these tiny balls and I freaked out over how cute it was like I had just encountered a new fluffy kitten.

I wasn't making fun of him at all, all I felt was affection and delight but apparently hearing your cock is super cute is the last thing guys want. So I accidentally started, or just tapped into his, cock size insecurity and it was seriously a thing he brought up our whole relationship.

He was immune to reassurance essentially and no matter what I said or did he wouldn't shut up about it. Finally I demanded he thank his cock for being the size it was because if it had been bigger I never would have let him take me anally and I prolly wouldn't suck on it nearly as often.

Once he realized that he was quiet for like 6 months but then it started up again.

To this day I try to be kind when dudes are insecure about their dicks but half the time I just want to scream: Nobody gives even the slightest shit! lol

Of all the things I desire from you or will judge you for your dick size is near the bottom of the list! lol

Honestly! I totally agree with this!! Even as a man I can tell that other men pay waay too much mind to their dick size. If lesbians can pleasure each other without dicks, you can pleasure a woman even with a small dick.

Every woman I talk to about this always goes on and on about technique and I never hear about dick size unless it's something excessively big, but at that point it's always seemed like a negative.

Big dicks just seem uncomfortable. 

As for circumcision, maybe it's because I'm circumcised myself but for some strange reason, uncircumcised penis has always been extremely off-putting to me. Like, I cannot watch porn featuring a man with an uncircumcised dick. I know it's totally natural and logically you would think a circumcised dick would be gross, but uncircumcised is a no-go for me.

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