How many people here are in relationships

[Rodeo]

23 minutes ago, Azalyn said:

Hand-holding is the most efficient way to achieve peak arousal. 

*Presents hand for holding*

[Pixel]

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[Moon Hound Hati]

LMAO

[Dozle The Crusader]

im a single crusader i need no woman 14 years going strong my armor is my shield from them 

[Rexyon]

Single. I have had 2 partners, if you don't count the child thing of saying you are dating someone when you are like, 6. Both of them were long distance and with guys. The first I met through shared interests, he asked me out before I even knew how to respond and I had to reply later, but then, he wanted to get into sex too quickly and I was quite the innocent 19 year old. He was 5 years older, we parted amicably and he is now married to another guy, which I am happy for. _{Even if it sometimes feels like I was the rebound stopgap.} Second was someone I met on another RP site, we never met in person but I was planning to, he was borderline emotionally abusive to the point a few friends stepped in for my safety.

Not that I don't want to date, I am constantly looking, for a female partner this time, but everyone where I live either have partners already or have children and whilst I work with children for a living, I don't want to become a step-dad potentially in the future. I have been lonely over the years though, you would be surprised at how many one night stands can fail due to the most random shit, then you never see that person again.

[love_and_poprocks]

I'm currently in a relationship and very happy. He also writes and doesn't mind that I do it either as he knows it's more of an expressive outlet for me. Honestly think I found my soulmate with this one; he overall makes me feel happy and seen and I just feel very lucky. He keeps me grounded which can be frustrating at times but he is usually right in those instances (15% of the time - I'm right the other 85% LOL). But the most important things I feel is there is an age gap difference se we each are able to bring our experiences and perspectives into the relationship as well as we are open and have a great communication system. I find healthy communication to be very detrimental to any relationship and he gives it to me without hesitation. Makes my heart flutter knowing he is mine . 

This is all coming from someone who thought she was going to be the cool auntie who gives gifts to the nieces and nephews and would travel and never be married. I was okay with that for a long time even though I would stay in relationships that added no value to my life or influence me for the better all for the sake of not looking like a spinster. I wasn't looking at the time either which made this all the more a terrifying surprise as I'm still awkward and trying to uncondition myself from my self-destructive habits and having this sense of not being good enough. 

I say the world makes it hard, and in a world where everything is at your fingertips its much harder to build lasting relationships. I'm an optimist though and I believe there is someone for everyone; just have to be open to the possibilities.

[Gidgy]

I’ve been in my current relationship for a few years now. I wish it was mores. It’s hit a place where it’s comfortable but it feels like we constrain each others instead of complete each others. We both afraid the other person gonna leave (prior damage for both of us). It’s tense. Lots of short fuses. So it kinda like walking on egg shells a lot.

She’s not satisfied with how her lifes is turning out. Most of that got nothing to do with me though. She just tired of workin and mad that she not able to travel more and see all the things and eat out whenever she wants and such.

I would loves those things too but I’m content without it. And I not blame her for the situation. I’m mostly happy except for all the times when she gets unhappy and picks fights with me. We now both feels stuck and we dunno how to unstick it. She wants to move across the country but I think we’ll be just as stuck there as heres. I think this year gonna make or break us and I’m not sure which one to hopes for. I just want her to be happy whether or not it with me. 

That way more than I meant to says. I guess I’m sad today. She’s having a fight with me that I’m not a part of. Came home from work in a mood, snaps at me, and then wanted to be alone.

She prolly say sorries tomorrow, but today it’s lonely and this happening more and more often lately.

Since I’m currently in the middle of things I can deffo say don’t take your good relationship for granted! And don’t take being single for granted eithers, even if it’s not what you’d like most right nows.

Maybe relationships with men are easier? I maybe tries it if this go bad. But he better have his own monies cause I’m done with unhappy broke peoples!

[dot]

Non, never! I tell myself it's because I've never met anyone I like in that way! Which is true! But possibly also because I couldn't be found if someone tried. Can't fail if you don't try, amirite?

[Django The High Shaman]

On 28/12/2024 at 21:49, Rodeo said:

*Presents hand for holding*

So cute when friends (and roleplay mates) cum together!

[Sirène]

I am happily married since 2019. Before we got married, we had been together since 2013. Funny thing about it was we met by writing together on an online writing community.

[Pixel]

Currently. The least likely person came out of absolutely nowhere when I was finished with romantic involvement and for nearly the past 365 days I've had difficulty thinking about little else.

[TinaLouise Banned]

I'm in between relationships.....just got out of one that was markedly toxic and wasn't planning on taxing my heart again, but recently I met this girl........

[IsabellaRose]

2 minutes ago, TinaLouise said:

but recently I met this girl........

I have too many stories that start like that.

Edited Thursday at 03:05 PM by IsabellaRose

[Novaer]

Been married to my high-school sweet heart since we were both 18. I love my husband to pieces.

[LEROZERO]

Single and gonna stay that way. No need to get a girl or a boyfriend. More things to worry about, less money, and I probably couldn't survive the stress....

[Shmoopsydude]

I consider myself to be in a unicorn relationship. She's intelligent, creative, free-associative in a way I can only dream of. Strong and driven and capable, happy to skin and butcher and game and garden and craft and make the best of life with me. We've been married almost a decade. She is obsessed with me, loves my body, craves my cum. About 3 days a month.

The rest of the time she is my broody classic goth lizard creature/goblin and I am occasionally gratified by using her to get off in some fashion (when it's not too inconvenient). We have kids, we both actively raise them, I work, she renovates the home and runs a studio.

She's also got physical issues that prevent her from being as responsive as she'd like sometimes, but essentially she's only down when the hormones are just right.

I am the 'before work, after work, before bed' would be nice at minimum type of person. I could destroy someone for a few hours every other day or so.

So pretty early on in our relationship she agreed quite explicitly (and occasionally confirms since) that if I'm hard up, I can take care of myself any way I see fit, as long as it doesn't negatively impact her or the kids. No surprise babies, not at the house, pretty basic rules.

I've since had exactly two partners, since I frankly am not willing to risk any part of my life or lifestyle for a little ass or pussy. But I've had a few perfect fits and it's so nice when I can.

My ideal goal is actually a live in partner since we legitimately could use help. She needs company and someone to mind the children while she does the serious work. I need someone to fuck the brains out of quite frequently.

So my pipe dream is that I will find someone who will be infatuated with me but love my family. She's had female partners before, and I know the right person could fit right in as our little saucy au pair.

But even if that never happens, just the fact that I have a beautiful and amazing partner who legitimately supports me however she can is worth anything. I wish everyone the opportunity to have such a relationship. Communication is everything.