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November 17, 2020

So folks, tell me. Since everyone around here has different levels of sexual experience I thought it'd be interesting to have a place to just ask questions that have been stuck in your head for a while (because there are not always people in real life to ask, right?).

My biggest question I guess is: Guys, what is with your nipples? I mean they are anatomically basically the same as female nipples but.. I haven't met so many guys that were actually as sensitive as many girls are. Why is that? Is it because nipples are rather associated with women and guys are therefore ashamed to feel good about their own? Is it the same reason why most guys would walk straight out of the house if you'd come to close to their anus but honestly I'm sure it would feel super nice for many that do not even know.

So much for my question. What's something you have always been curious about?

Oh and I used to wonder whether cum would look like fried egg if you'd fry it.

Spoiler

it does

November 17, 2020

24 minutes ago, Somethingsomething said:

Oh and I used to wonder whether cum would look like fried egg if you'd fry it.

I'm sorry I missed that experiment. Taste better cooked?

As for men's nipples - I'm not shy about them but they're just not that sensitive. It may have to do with the underlying anatomy being atrophied, or maybe I'm just not conditioned to react.

I love the idea of having my nipples tugged and bit, and I do like it but it's mostly mental.

As for my ass, couple, three fingers or a reasonable toy, please. But I also like stuff in my dick. Your mileage may vary.

My question: does anyone really fist?

November 17, 2020

1 hour ago, WritesNaughtyStories said:

I'm sorry I missed that experiment. Taste better cooked?

I didn't taste it myself but the friend, who did that experiment for me, said it mainly tasted like butter because that is what he fried it in

1 hour ago, WritesNaughtyStories said:

just not conditioned to react

Yeah, that's what I meant. I think that could be the case for many people. It's just not so popular I guess.

1 hour ago, WritesNaughtyStories said:

But I also like stuff in my dick.

I've seen that before but I've never done that, how does that feel? It's basically the urethra, right? ..does that..tickle? And do you have specific toys or what are things that you can use?

1 hour ago, WritesNaughtyStories said:

does anyone really fist?

Well, just speaking for me, I do not. It doesn't seem to make sense for me and it does not thrill me either. Also it would just be too much. I think three fingers would be all that's still enjoyable. But I'm sure some people do. I could imagine it as a part of degradation play.

November 17, 2020

I'm not sure how I can describe the sensation urethral insertion - so, that pleasant sense of fullness that ass play gets you? That's part of it, but in men (and, I suppose women too) It presses against the same nerves that external stimulation does but differently.

Some people sound very deeply - into the bladder. That's not my particular thing, but I do use plugs specifically for urethral insertion. My longest is only about 6" and maybe 12mm (although I would like something a little thicker and longer these days) but a Sharpie works too, make up brush, finger... start small. Wash well or sterilize. Lube is your friend. If you use an alcohol sterilizer let it evaporate all the way unless you're an actual pain slut.

November 17, 2020

..a finger? Wow, I wouldn't have expected that! I didn't know that a urethra could be stretched to such dimensions.

Well, but all of that sounds pretty interesting But I guess this needs to be done super carefully!

November 17, 2020

Gentle taper and lots of lube to start for sure. I feel like I should ask a question - so, people, is it really ok to ejaculate on your breasts/chest?

November 17, 2020

I never had a cock in me but what you do to yours sure sounds painful.....I mean, YEEOOW!

girls....how many of you are squirters? I know I'm not the only one here....

November 17, 2020

44 minutes ago, WritesNaughtyStories said:

Gentle taper and lots of lube to start for sure. I feel like I should ask a question - so, people, is it really ok to ejaculate on your breasts/chest?

Well, if the girl says it is okay, I'd guess it is. If you're not sure, just ask I had that thing with my ex-boyfriend that he would kneel over my chest sometimes when I gave him a blowjob and then sometimes he came on my chest (never in my face though because ouch, that shit burns in your eyes!). (Sorry if this is too much information!) It just suited the situation because it added up to the whole dominance / submissiveness thing and it just felt very hot. However if he just had done that out of the blue I would not have been mad but more like.. ugh..okay.. it's sticky and all.. I think it just depends on your opposite. I bet there are many women that do not like it but do it because they maybe saw it in porn (which is always an awful reference) or maybe because they just accept it but I guess there are also many women that enjoy it. As I said before, just communicate your concerns

Okay, I do have another question. Guys, what is this whole deepthroat thing? Does that feel.. different? Better? Is it another: shove in as deep as possible to show dominance?

November 17, 2020

6 minutes ago, KinkyKathy said:

girls....how many of you are squirters? I know I'm not the only one here....

I never fully understood squirting to be honest.. I guess I do sometimes but only when I masturbate (and only if I masturbate violently ), but I guess I never do during sex or I just don't notice because of the general presence of body liquids during sex. I also don't feel any difference in the quality of my orgasms so it's just like..oh..oh I should have put a towel beneath me..

So I have another question for the girls:

Do you come vaginally? / Do you think that an orgasm is important during sex?

November 17, 2020

I cum vaginally and on occasion, anally.....

I don't think having an orgasm is an all or nothing portion of sex. Many times the sex we have is.....well, I guess you can say, one sided....Mistress will hogtie me, lay me on my side and have me eat her....if I do good she'll reward me by giving me an orgasm

guys and/or girls....any of you into bondage?

November 18, 2020

14 hours ago, KinkyKathy said:

guys and/or girls....any of you into bondage?

That's not really my thing, even though I have never tried it. I do not mind handling the control to someone else, but I really like to feel things with my hands and to move around and be playful so the thought of me being tied up is not thrilling for me at all. I would try and do it to someone else if that person would ask me to do it I guess, but I guess I wouldn't enjoy that either. However I completely understand where bondage is coming from.

Guys and girls, what is the most important about oral sex for you? What are things that you absolutely dislike and what are thing that you really, really fancy?

November 18, 2020

The important part of oral sex is just like vaginal or anal.....to please your partner so you'll recieve pleasure in return. Never having cock, I can't say what I think male cum tastes like but I imagine straight partners would either like or dislike the taste of semen as they swallow.

My wife/Mistress has a dildo that has a tube inside it and a squeezebulb at the base. She can put whatever kind of fluid in the bulb so when she presses on it, the dildo shoots it in my mouth....I love it!

Some hetero friends of mine have said they like the sensation of a cock stuffing their mouth like a gag....

November 18, 2020

Bondage, yes but having kids in the house greatly complicates that. The suspension mounts have the kids' swing on them most of the time.

Oral - part of me enjoys it more than intercourse. It's kind of easier either just to give or receive rather than trying to concentrate on both. Although, feeling my partner cum with my dick in their mouth is one of my favorite things. That said I enjoy giving oral a lot. It's an odd power exchange - it's kind of submissive, but you can tease, extend and delay your partner's orgasm until they cum when you want. As a kid I heard or read oral sex described as "the ultimate kiss" and that's hung with me ever since. Also, getting the baby sitter to let me go down on her may have contributed....

November 18, 2020

1 hour ago, KinkyKathy said:

I can't say what I think male cum tastes like

Bitter. Very, very bitter. And it has the power of feeling a hundred times more than it actually is as soon as it is in your mouth. But in the right moment and with the right person it's just wonderful. However there's nothing bad about not liking it either.

I personally did not like going down on a girl. I have never eaten snails but I imagine it feeling like that. It just felt off. It's weird to say that because I do like people going down on me and I do like my own taste but eating out somebody else was just not for me. (But it was a scenery that could have been straight out of a movie. She was my best friend, we were both like 15 and had drunk a whole bottle of whisky. I woke up the next day, not sure whether we actually had slept with each other but then I realized that none of us was wearing any clothes. Basically it was my first time.)

1 hour ago, WritesNaughtyStories said:

The suspension mounts have the kids' swing on them most of the time.

I'm just going to ignore the whole babysitter story for the sake of the image that I have of you and just say that I'm not the slightest surprised that you have suspension mounts at your house The ultimate kiss is a nice description. Although for a long time I thought kissing was actually more intimate than sleeping with someone.

Since no one answered the no go question, I'm just going to pick it up

What I really, really do not like is when someone goes down on me and does too many things at once. It's just overwhelming and inconsistent and it gives me a hard time to focus on the different sensations. It's not a problem if we're just playing around but if I'm about to come and the guy suddenly does a completely different movement this can really ruin it for me. Idk if this applies to other girls as well (@KinkyKathy?). What else I do not understand is when guys try to put their tongues into me. That doesn't give me anything because no healthy tongue is long or wide enough to touch any of the nice places inside of me.

Okay I'm out of questions now! It's your turn @everyone else.

November 18, 2020

21 minutes ago, Somethingsomething said:

I'm just going to ignore the whole babysitter story for the sake of the image that I have of you

It was my my mother's au pair, not mine. And, for the record, my mom caught us. They're still friends and I still see her once in a while. Never spoke of it again and it makes me really sad, because I'd like to finish the job.

November 18, 2020

4 minutes ago, WritesNaughtyStories said:

It was my my mother's au pair, not mine.

I'm sorry, I should have thought about that possibility as well!

Then it is actually a really nice story and it must have been such a thrilling thing to do!

November 18, 2020

23 minutes ago, Somethingsomething said:

Then it is actually a really nice story

I could have done without getting caught. It's a funny story now but it wasn't the least bit funny at the time and that interrupted orgasm is still incomplete 40+ years later.

Is it just my partners or do all women get weird if you go down on them after you've ejaculated in them? I'm not going to lie, I don't always bring my partner to orgasm before I do, I don't mind finishing the job. He'll, I'm happy to eat a woman out - more than - but the panicked leg crossing, jumping out of bed or wiggling to the end of the couch with a horror stricken look on their face leaves me scratching my head.

November 18, 2020

I don't have anything to ask right now, but responding to a couple of things:

Male nipples? If stimulation there did anything for me, I wouldn't be shy about it. But it honestly just feels like there's nothing there at all. I just don't think I have nerves there that could translate to sexual stimulation whatsoever...I can't relate at all to the arousal that women feel from that. I guess I can be a little ticklish there, but that's the case for most of my body.

As for the taste of cum...well, I've never tasted it, myself. But I do know that diet influences the taste of it. Pineapple juice is especially effective...try having someone drink that for a few days beforehand if you want to try cum that's sweet and, well, pineapple-flavored!

November 18, 2020

46 minutes ago, Alexander Bodide said:

I can't relate at all to the arousal that women feel from that.

That's a shame, but there are so many other spots on the human body that feel nice to be touched I think the best way to describe it (well, at least it feels like that for me I guess) is if you place a fingertip in the inside of your palm and really gently move it in circles that gives you this nice feeling that is not really ticklish but more.. electric in a way? God that sounds like a horrible description. Now imagine that but much more intense and imagine that it would spread away from your palm into all of your hand. That's kind of it.

46 minutes ago, Alexander Bodide said:

cum that's sweet and, well, pineapple-flavored

I've never tried that but I've heard it. Interesting that you have never tasted your own cum. Are you not curious?

52 minutes ago, WritesNaughtyStories said:

It's a funny story now but it wasn't the least bit funny

Oh dear. That sounds almost traumatic in that moment but like a good story! Are you willing to share it with us?

53 minutes ago, WritesNaughtyStories said:

Is it just my partners or do all women get weird if you go down on them after you've ejaculated in them?

I think some guys are just not so comfortable about their own cum. I've even heard of girls that had given guys a blowjob and those guys refused to kiss them afterwards because they were grossed out by the thought of their own ejaculate (luckily this has never happened to me because it is highly disrespectful. I would have freaked out.). I guess it is just that women don't want men to get in contact with their own cum because they kind of expect them to not like it. I would be like wait..are you sure? myself if someone would go down on me after he has ejaculated inside of me. Just thinking of it feels filthy, even though I know it's stupid. (But on the other hand if a guy would ejaculate inside of me would mean that, since we're not using a condom, we're having a relationship and then this would happen once, we'd talk about it and next time I would be fine with it.) Does that make sense?

November 18, 2020

6 minutes ago, Somethingsomething said:

That's a shame, but there are so many other spots on the human body that feel nice to be touched I think the best way to describe it (well, at least it feels like that for me I guess) is if you place a fingertip in the inside of your palm and really gently move it in circles that gives you this nice feeling that is not really ticklish but more.. electric in a way? God that sounds like a horrible description. Now imagine that but much more intense and imagine that it would spread away from your palm into all of your hand. That's kind of it.

I've never tried that but I've heard it. Interesting that you have never tasted your own cum. Are you not curious?

Ah, that palm thing is a very good way to describe it! Yes, I do get a feeling sort of like that around my nipples, but it's not intense and for me it doesn't feel like something that's connected to my arousal sense. It sounds as foreign to me as getting aroused by the sensation of having my ear tugged on or something (just a made up example).

And nope, not curious about my cum taste. When I was very young I once peed into my hands in the shower and took a sip...and that's as adventurous as I've gotten with that.

Honestly, the thought of anyone's sex fluids in my mouth is repulsive to me. I'll watch someone swallow my cum just fine, and I can even roleplay eating someone out or sucking futa dick with no issue whatsoever, but in real life...can't bring myself to do it. I've never even attempted eating someone out because I'm afraid of retching in the process and causing offense that way. And I do prefer my partner to brush her teeth before kissing me after a blowjob, but...that's something I can get over. It's just a preference.

Sigh - I can get pretty nasty in roleplay but in person some things still just make me squeamish.

November 18, 2020

20 minutes ago, Alexander Bodide said:

Ah, that palm thing is a very good way to describe it!

Phew, I thought my description war very weird but I'm glad that you got the idea!

20 minutes ago, Alexander Bodide said:

Honestly, the thought of anyone's sex fluids in my mouth is repulsive to me.

Well, fair enough. You should never do something that you don't feel good about. However if you want to slowly approach it, you could just, idk, lick one of your fingers after you had them in someone. It is not a gross taste. It's more like.. warm and soft, dependent on the menstrual cycle more liquid-ish or more solid and kind of yogurt-ish (because of the lactic acid bacteria which are also in yogurt and many other milk product so definitely nothing gross about it). Definitely it is not something that would make you retch. I can assure you of that. And if you don't like it, you still have tried. Same goes for your ejaculate. What exactly makes it gross for you? It can't be the taste if you haven't tasted it before.

20 minutes ago, Alexander Bodide said:

Sigh - I can get pretty nasty in roleplay but in person some things still just make me squeamish.

Well, not everybody is comfortable about all of the body fluids that are involved in intercourse. I think the only thing is that I think, how I said above, it's kind of odd to make someone swallow your cum if you're not comfortable about having the taste of it in your mouth.. you know what I mean? But if the girl is fine with it that's no big deal either.

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..wow.. such a German part of the sentence

November 18, 2020

11 minutes ago, Somethingsomething said:

Well, fair enough. You should never do something that you don't feel good about. However if you want to slowly approach it, you could just, idk, lick one of your fingers after you had them in someone. It is not a gross taste. It's more like.. warm and soft, dependent on the menstrual cycle more liquid-ish or more solid and kind of yogurt-ish (because of the lactic acid bacteria which are also in yogurt and many other milk product so definitely nothing gross about it). Definitely it is not something that would make you retch. I can assure you of that. And if you don't like it, you still have tried. Same goes for your ejaculate. What exactly makes it gross for you? It can't be the taste if you haven't tasted it before.

Well, not everybody is comfortable about all of the body fluids that are involved in intercourse. I think the only thing is that I think, how I said above, it's kind of odd to make someone swallow your cum if you're not comfortable about having the taste of it in your mouth.. you know what I mean? But if the girl is fine with it that's no big deal either.

It's not even the idea of the taste that bothers me, just...the idea of it being in my mouth at all grosses me out. Whether it's mine or someone else's, it makes no difference. So if I were to retch it probably wouldn't be from taste, but from my own thoughts in my head.

To illustrate, one time I looked up what it meant to tuck one's penis, just out of general curiosity, and when I read about how part of it involves making your balls go back up inside you...I was so profoundly grossed out by the idea of doing it that I actually puked. Nothing actually caused it besides me just feeling grossed out about it. What's funny is that I still have no problem imagining someone else doing that.

I don't think there's anything odd about putting my cum in someone's mouth. I don't like sweet potatoes, but I would have no problem feeding them to someone who does like them.

But anyway, maybe sometime I will get brave and try giving my fingertip just a little lick to sample. I'm sure I can at least do that much.

November 18, 2020

10 minutes ago, Alexander Bodide said:

It's not even the idea of the taste that bothers me, just...the idea of it being in my mouth at all grosses me out.

That's super interesting! What are those thoughts that gross you out about it?

11 minutes ago, Alexander Bodide said:

But anyway, maybe sometime I will get brave and try giving my fingertip just a little lick to sample. I'm sure I can at least do that much.

I think it is definitely worth the try!

November 18, 2020

9 minutes ago, Somethingsomething said:

That's super interesting! What are those thoughts that gross you out about it?

That's what I can't put my finger on! It just...feels like it shouldn't be there, maybe? I dunno, something about it is just profoundly icky to me. And I'm not even a picky eater -- in fact I'm pretty adventurous with food and will gladly try foods that a lot of people might think is gross. And I guess I'm a hypocrite, because where food is concerned I don't understand people who say things are gross without trying them. Or people who, for example, don't like mushrooms because they're fungus. Even though that has nothing to do with the taste or anything.

In short, I totally understand why I look like an irrational weirdo on this topic.

November 18, 2020

27 minutes ago, Alexander Bodide said:

That's what I can't put my finger on! It just...feels like it shouldn't be there, maybe?

Mh.. So when we grow up we are conditioned to react to certain things the way we do, either by being told by our parents or by making specific experiences. Last week there was a really nasty spider in the corner of my room and it took me all my courage to catch it with a cup and to put it out of my window. We do not have any dangerous spiders over here, I was just afraid because my mom is afraid of them and as a child I have adapted that reaction. I see the spider, my brain evaluates the situation and tells me it is dangerous and the result is that I am afraid. But just like we learn to be conditioned about things, we can also recondition ourselves. So I think if you approach the situation slowly and bit by bit, you can make your brain understand that there is nothing gross about body fluids. You will probably feel grossed out in the beginning but it is exactly as with any other fear, it takes some approaches to get over it. *closes psychology book*

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